Weezy, to become all bulked out, rather then nicely toned, you would have to have more testosterone, if I remember correctly, as that is part of the reason why men can build their muscles up the way they do.
Both of Davinas DVD's have excellent exercises for upper and lower body altogether, so, that will help with abs and gluts, etc.
Tae BO is brilliant for waist and tummy and bum, and is a fabulous fatburner on top of it. Can highly recommend it!
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Well as for me, I did the Vicky Entwistle "Wow! Vicky's Weight off Workout" this morning, and will leave a review on the review thread, but will say this here aswell....I LOVE IT....yes, I love it as much as Tae BO, Nell McAndrew's and Davinas Workout...wohoo...so pleased as I would have hated to have spend that much money on a DVD and then to hate it, lol!