Just had such an annoying convo with an inlaw, who is unaware of the jab, but obviously very aware of my weightloss. Incidentally, I am 2 years in and was losing for a year before that so its not like its sudden .
Giving it...
people are worried about you,
people are shocked
are you ok,
you are too thin to be healthy.
This from 100kg man with diet induced diabetis and heart disease. Also his wife is utterly spherical and in higher level of obese .
Ok I am on the skinny side at BMI 18.5. But I am maintaining there for the last year not losing. Its the BMI I want as I am broad chested and shouldered and inclined to look boxy any heavier.
I feel a million dollars and look a million dollars ( in clothes!). I am fit as a flee. All manner of fat related ailments have vanished.
WHY do people default to "worrying" about the person who has managed to get slim? Why dont they worry about the obese people? Why is the obese person worrying about my skininess rather than their own obesity?
Even if I am "too thin"I am certainly not in fading away territory. My "too skinny" is very much healthier than his "too fat". His too fat will kill him before my too skinny kills me!
What the hell is this? I dont go about telling obese people that I am worried about them!
Has being over weight become so normalised that very slim is percieved as dangerous? I am no thinner than the slim people who were common in the 60s/70s.
So annoying!