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King Charles orders Harry & Meghan to be treated like ordinary citizens 2

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Viviennemary · 08/09/2026 20:24

Is there any more to be said. I expect there probably is. So I started a new thread. Be interesting to see what their next move is. It's like a game of chess A we getting clarification. I want to know if they'll be doing walkabouts, hospital visits, and so on. Being greeted by dignitaries at home and overseas like they were on their visit to NY and Australia.

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Mylovelygreendress · 10/09/2026 14:47

damnatiomemoriae · 10/09/2026 14:43

I didn’t agree with the name for other reasons but I think it a shame that she has been saddled with that controversial name while her brother has been given a name that could blend in more easily.

I wish they’d just called her Lili. They said they were going to call her that anyway - so the given name was never about her. Just the fuss.

I remember at the time HaM supporters were insisting that Lilibet is a common name and was no big deal . I seem to recall a poster saying there were several in her DC’s school !!
Hmm

thenightsky · 10/09/2026 14:50

PleasantGreenPorcupine · 10/09/2026 14:18

Absolutely, they have chosen to have their children styled as prince and princess for a reason. Also naming the girl Lilibet Diana. That's not aiming for a life without publicity.

I feel sorry for the poor girl, saddled with that albatross of a name round her neck forever more.

damnatiomemoriae · 10/09/2026 14:50

Mylovelygreendress · 10/09/2026 14:47

I remember at the time HaM supporters were insisting that Lilibet is a common name and was no big deal . I seem to recall a poster saying there were several in her DC’s school !!
Hmm

Hmmm indeed.

Along with Spot, Fluffy and Cleopatra.

Diamond7272 · 10/09/2026 14:55

He needs a job.

She needs a job.

A proper job. Something to get up for in the morning, not flouncing around in designer labels or talking about other people's old lives for money/book deals/backhanders.

It's a bit sad to watch now. Not sad as in upsetting. Sad as in a bit desperate. Boring. Manipulative. Trading on the past...

IdaGlossop · 10/09/2026 15:01

Mylovelygreendress · 10/09/2026 14:47

I remember at the time HaM supporters were insisting that Lilibet is a common name and was no big deal . I seem to recall a poster saying there were several in her DC’s school !!
Hmm

Rubbish. Elizabeth is a common name over generations of my family. Only one of the living ones has ever been called Lilibet, and that very much as a pet name used by a few very close people, and I have never encountered a Lilibet in any of the many educational establishments I have been a part of.

It shows how weak H is that he allowed the name to be used for his own daughter.

PleasantGreenPorcupine · 10/09/2026 15:03

thenightsky · 10/09/2026 14:50

I feel sorry for the poor girl, saddled with that albatross of a name round her neck forever more.

I know, poor girl.

PleasantGreenPorcupine · 10/09/2026 15:04

Mylovelygreendress · 10/09/2026 14:47

I remember at the time HaM supporters were insisting that Lilibet is a common name and was no big deal . I seem to recall a poster saying there were several in her DC’s school !!
Hmm

I remember that, so silly. They obviously didn't know that it's a matter of public record. You can check how many on the ONS.
It's a rare given name.

Tiddlywinks63 · 10/09/2026 15:15

PleasantGreenPorcupine · 10/09/2026 15:03

I know, poor girl.

Don’t forget that MM registered ‘Lilibet’s Closet’ pretty much as soon as she was born. Must make sure that every opportunity is exploited for $$$$

IdaGlossop · 10/09/2026 15:22

Tiddlywinks63 · 10/09/2026 15:15

Don’t forget that MM registered ‘Lilibet’s Closet’ pretty much as soon as she was born. Must make sure that every opportunity is exploited for $$$$

I didn't know that. How tacky.

She could open a shop in Montesh*tshow and call it The Throne Room.

jeffgoldblum · 10/09/2026 15:25

IdaGlossop · 10/09/2026 15:22

I didn't know that. How tacky.

She could open a shop in Montesh*tshow and call it The Throne Room.

But won’t that confuse customers?
they might be expecting high end toilets!

IdaGlossop · 10/09/2026 15:33

jeffgoldblum · 10/09/2026 15:25

But won’t that confuse customers?
they might be expecting high end toilets!

Exactly. And Meghan, who I suspect lacks a sense of humour, could nonetheless look as though she is taking the p*ss out of herself. But British humour doesn't always translate well to America, as I know only too well from being told off for guffawing at a Private Eye cover which a New York colleague told me was cruel.

spreadandsprinkles · 10/09/2026 15:34

I seem to recall M also said something about Lilibet growing up to be some sort of inspiring humanitarian when she was just a baby. No pressure there then...

Notsosweetcaroline · 10/09/2026 15:37

IdaGlossop · 10/09/2026 15:01

Rubbish. Elizabeth is a common name over generations of my family. Only one of the living ones has ever been called Lilibet, and that very much as a pet name used by a few very close people, and I have never encountered a Lilibet in any of the many educational establishments I have been a part of.

It shows how weak H is that he allowed the name to be used for his own daughter.

I don’t think Harry allowed it to be used. I think this was Harry’s idea.

Lumpyarse · 10/09/2026 15:38

spreadandsprinkles · 10/09/2026 15:34

I seem to recall M also said something about Lilibet growing up to be some sort of inspiring humanitarian when she was just a baby. No pressure there then...

That’s classic narc parent - they just see the child as a physical extension of themselves and they have to deliver on their grandiose dreams - no curiosity or space allowed for the uniqueness of that child to be nurtured.

IdaGlossop · 10/09/2026 15:40

Notsosweetcaroline · 10/09/2026 15:37

I don’t think Harry allowed it to be used. I think this was Harry’s idea.

Even worse. He's also manipulative : 'Hi granny. We're going to name our daughter after you.'

jeffgoldblum · 10/09/2026 15:40

IdaGlossop · 10/09/2026 15:33

Exactly. And Meghan, who I suspect lacks a sense of humour, could nonetheless look as though she is taking the p*ss out of herself. But British humour doesn't always translate well to America, as I know only too well from being told off for guffawing at a Private Eye cover which a New York colleague told me was cruel.

Not that it’s relevant or related, I’m going to have to ask Ida , what was the cover?

KCitsweyourHammiewevecomehomenow · 10/09/2026 15:42

Mylovelygreendress · 10/09/2026 14:47

I remember at the time HaM supporters were insisting that Lilibet is a common name and was no big deal . I seem to recall a poster saying there were several in her DC’s school !!
Hmm

That’s probably the same poster who thought the Bench was amazing and got her kids to write a comprehension essay on it 😀

IdaGlossop · 10/09/2026 15:48

jeffgoldblum · 10/09/2026 15:40

Not that it’s relevant or related, I’m going to have to ask Ida , what was the cover?

It doesn't translate well to text but it was funny at the time. The photo was of young teenager Chelsea Clinton on a stage with her newly elected president father (so a long time ago) looking upset and with her mouth open because she was crying (the story running in the press was that she was overwhelmed).

President Clinton speech bubble: 'Hey, what's the matter, honey?' Chelsea: 'I don't want to wear this horrible brace.'

IdaGlossop · 10/09/2026 15:51

Lumpyarse · 10/09/2026 15:38

That’s classic narc parent - they just see the child as a physical extension of themselves and they have to deliver on their grandiose dreams - no curiosity or space allowed for the uniqueness of that child to be nurtured.

I have already achieved that with my child. I took her with me to an Amnesty International photocall for one of its campaigns when I was on maternity leave 😆

jeffgoldblum · 10/09/2026 15:52

IdaGlossop · 10/09/2026 15:48

It doesn't translate well to text but it was funny at the time. The photo was of young teenager Chelsea Clinton on a stage with her newly elected president father (so a long time ago) looking upset and with her mouth open because she was crying (the story running in the press was that she was overwhelmed).

President Clinton speech bubble: 'Hey, what's the matter, honey?' Chelsea: 'I don't want to wear this horrible brace.'

I think I can picture it! , I know that our humour doesn’t always translate but I can’t see where it was cruel?? 🤷‍♀️

IdaGlossop · 10/09/2026 16:02

jeffgoldblum · 10/09/2026 15:52

I think I can picture it! , I know that our humour doesn’t always translate but I can’t see where it was cruel?? 🤷‍♀️

Cruel because a child's appearance was being used as a source for humour.

The same colleague also gave me a dressing down when I went on holiday for two weeks saying: 'You Europeans will have to understand that you must work harder for the good of the economy.' I relied: 'As unemployment in the EU is currently standing at 20m, we need to work less so that labour is more fairly distributed and the welfare bill goes down.'

jeffgoldblum · 10/09/2026 16:08

IdaGlossop · 10/09/2026 16:02

Cruel because a child's appearance was being used as a source for humour.

The same colleague also gave me a dressing down when I went on holiday for two weeks saying: 'You Europeans will have to understand that you must work harder for the good of the economy.' I relied: 'As unemployment in the EU is currently standing at 20m, we need to work less so that labour is more fairly distributed and the welfare bill goes down.'

😁 I bet that went down well!

IdaGlossop · 10/09/2026 16:21

PleasantGreenPorcupine · 10/09/2026 14:37

😂😂 I do think that you should give a child a name which isn't too much of a particular identification. I know why they called her Lilibet, we know it was the pet name of the late Queen.
Why not Eliza, or Beth or even Lily?

Or Lizzie, Lizzy, Lisa, Lizbeth, Bethany, Betty, Betty, Liz or Bettina. Elizabeth has more diminutives than any other girl's name, I should think (some preferable to others).

PleasantGreenPorcupine · 10/09/2026 16:22

IdaGlossop · 10/09/2026 16:21

Or Lizzie, Lizzy, Lisa, Lizbeth, Bethany, Betty, Betty, Liz or Bettina. Elizabeth has more diminutives than any other girl's name, I should think (some preferable to others).

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Exactly

Lampzade · 10/09/2026 16:22

Some of you behave as though Meghan has eaten your last rolo .

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