Do you think Harry and Meghan are happy?

[Winterday1991]

It seems to me like Meghan plays the role of someone in love from footage of them over the years. It seems to me like their superior love story in the face of adversity is part of their brand and they are playing on it. For Harry, I have no doubt he is besotted with her, but just can’t believe that she truly loves him? My gut feeling is that she is just not as authentic as she claims.

Are they really happy and in love as they claim or is it all just a smokescreen?

Only they know.

I think they are happy together, but very unhappy with the way they, Meghan in particular, had been treated. Harry is obviously unhappy with the way he feels his family didn't defend them, and threw his family under the bus for a better relationship with the media.

Harry said, for years, he hated England and the fishbowl. He married a woman who he thought could make royal life bearable. It didn't work out, and he blames the media and partially his family. Looking at the media, I don't blame them for leaving.

It just doesn’t make sense though, he’s jumped from the fishbowl straight into the three ring circus.

FWIW, I don’t see them splitting, they’re clinging to each other, ‘us against the world’ sort of thing.

I think they're happy, delusional but happy.

Why do you think it bothers you so much? I am guessing you don't know them?

Harry happy? Clearly not. Meghan happy? Probably. She has what she wants. Together? Not sure. Depends if he misses his family. I think he uses the press as he wishes and doesn’t remotely want privacy. He’s untrustworthy so will be Harry No Mates in the RF. Are spoilt entitled people happy? Yes but only as long as others play along.

I hope they are in all honesty. Otherwise he has fucked his life for nothing. So I really hope they are.

I believe they are yes.

The while thing baffles me though. Where else would you create a Pariah by immigrating? Where else woukd earning your own money as a woman turn you Indian hood digger?

i think he’s rather broken but she gets him . I understand from myself how that works. I hope they are happy. I hope 95% of the online shite either never reaches them or wagged over them.

I think they are happy together, but both seem to have their troubles.

Who knows.
But from the outside looking in, I'd say they love each other but they aren't happy.

Into a gold digger 🙈

Agree. I think they're happier than you wasting your time starting yet another thread

No and I think she will file for divorce within a year or two

Harry seems unhappy about the current state of his relationship with his brother and father, but I think he's very happy within his own family unit and he's happy living in the US.

I thought his appearance on the Late Show with Stephen Colbert was very good. He looked very relaxed, happy and I found him quite funny. It was better than his other recent interviews.

except they didn't expect to jump into the 3 ring circus did they?

It seems, and I hope, they are very happy together with their own little and friends, but I'm sure would be happier when they can do their own thing without British media and people attacking them every day (and this is pre-oprah). Anyone would be in their situation. I don't think they're clinging

I really don't care if they're happy together, or not, if they hate the sight of each other, or not, I just think they deserve each other and whilst they're together, no other poor soul has to put up with either of them.

It’s the royal family topic, OP can post what they like, you don’t police this board, if you don’t like it other sections of mumsnet are available.

The media is horrific how they bully, but worse that the public fuels it. I don't know how anyone could deal with the constant bullying, even some of these threads. It's relentless

I think they believe they love each other and they'll stick to that or else all this has been for nothing. I don't think they're good for each other, though.
I don't believe she's a golddigger, but I do think money is important to her. Probably because of her childhood. Harry, on the other hand, has no idea about real life and, therefore the role money plays in that.
I think they're happy now as everything seems to be working out but, because they're so thin-skinned and everything's always somebody else's fault, when things start going wrong, it's easy to see them turning on each other.
I hope they stay together and are happy, though, for their children. If not, I see two more books being written in 20 years time.

It's the op's time to waste. You're obviously invested, too, or you wouldn't have posted on the thread.

Nope.

I think they bring out the best and worst in each other. You can’t be that angry with the world as Prince Harry is and it not impact your family life. The Netflix documentary at times seemed so tense in their family home. I hope for Harry’s sake everything it is great as the only people who will be around him otherwise will be hangers on or paid.

I can't see how she could respect him and so therefore love him. She is clearly much brighter and streetwise than he is and I don't think anyone can genuinely fall in love with a person who is not their intellectual equal. She may have been infatuated with him and what he represented to her but I just don't believe she genuinely loves him.

Literally, millions of people worldwide regard the pair of them as a contemptible laughing stock.

I can't imagine being happy under those circumstances.

I think they are very happy together in an "us against the world" kind of way. They're in a bubble. I'm not sure how it will play out though. They've had a lot of negativity about their truth, which is so important to them. They might implode or it might bring them closer together. Only time will tell.