Do you think Harry and Meghan are happy?

[Winterday1991]

It seems to me like Meghan plays the role of someone in love from footage of them over the years. It seems to me like their superior love story in the face of adversity is part of their brand and they are playing on it. For Harry, I have no doubt he is besotted with her, but just can’t believe that she truly loves him? My gut feeling is that she is just not as authentic as she claims.

Are they really happy and in love as they claim or is it all just a smokescreen?

I am uncomfortable when I see them together. I didn’t understand why. In many ways they’ve got perfection. With one of each… beautiful kids and madly in love Etc …. But I realise it’s because I don’t believe it.
I don’t think it’s authentic affection on her part. And he’s besotted but not in a healthy way at all.

Im not a fan of MM. Brash rude arrogant. Against protocol. Anti establishment.

But I think she doesn’t have it easy with Harry.
I bet he’s a nightmare.

They had a whirlwind, & 2 great kids but I think the warring and anger and victimhood is all that they have in common.

When the kids are older they will split.

Meghan is intelligent. So when they’ve stopped bitching and the kids aren’t there what will bring them together.

A mismatch methinks.

I don't think anyone so angry can really be happy, it must be consuming their lives, the main topic of conversation 24/7.

This, how can anyone else know?
Me personally though, think from seeing them together in interviews and the documentary, and the way they looked at each other at their wedding, they seem to be besotted with each other to me
Harry's "there you are" at the altar and their shared looks - seem happy and I genuinely wish them all the best

So someone who hates the media, and media spin, doesn’t foresee the media spinning an interview, 6 hour docuseries and tell-all book?

Nah, not buying it.

Yes in their relationship and with their kids.

I think his relationship or lack of with his family and the life he grew up in will be the elephant in the room which may or may not cast a shadow over his life. Don't know.

I think Harry needs his 'truth' to be legitimised otherwise he has to face what he's done (basically had a massive flounce) - I truly don't think his claims are such that makes this all worth it - if he also has a small voice in his head saying this when he's awake at 3am staring at his bedroom ceiling with it all going round and found in his head - then that's tough hence why he is going to just keep repeating his viewpoint (and editing it to meet criticism etc) - because it s hot yo be worth it.

I wonder about the amount of energy it takes to keep it up - I can hold a grudge like the best of them but goodness don't you reach a point where you think 'I can't give anymore to this shit'

It feels like their relationship has from day 1 to this been like some roller coaster - makes you wonder how it will feel when eventually that tide comes to an end. Hopefully calm etc but if there has always been this movie style angst to them being together it may need quite an adjustment when it really is just them two with no one to struggle/rail against.

I'm watching a comparison of the 2 engagement interviews on YouTube and H and M's makes me feel uncomfortable, especially with what we know now. W and K's is much more natural.

I think they were well aware it would probably get twisted and spun but didn't care as they'd had enough and wanted to get their side across.

If it was just about money and getting their side across it would be over but Harry needs a reaction. The problem is what happens when it doesn’t happen. He hasn’t let go for nearly 30 years

I really couldn't give a fuck if they're happy; they made their bed and now have to lay in it 😐

However the usa seem more than happy to have him/them (she's actually Canadian)
As long as they don't come back to the UK us GB citizens are happy 😊

HTH

He hasn't let go for 30 years - not sure what that's got to do with anything, what do you mean?
He's only just been able to tell his story now

She is not Canadian. She just worked here for a few years. I live in Toronto near where she lived.

I agree with this.

I think Harry is happy in the US. I think they are in love and happy.

Who knows where they will be in 10 years? Not our business really. Though if they divorce, I don't think Harry will be making the walk of shame home that some people are hoping for. He will stay in the US where his kids are.

I have been thinking since starting the book and watching interviews, I think living in the US will suit him TBH.

From this distance way out here, I don't think they are happy, unless they are the rye of people who are happy to be miserable. I think they've built their relationship on moaning about others and at some point they'll turn on each other. I think he'll be the biggest loser out of it. So not much happiness going their way, now or in the future.

Seriously, given how obsessed they are with other peoples opinions and the way they are perceived/presented I suspect they are both absolutely miserable right now.

m.youtube.com/watch?v=TjPhzgxe3L0

I think they’re more happy than the people commenting on their relationship

They could have disappeared from the public eye and enjoyed a private family life in a modest home with their millions lasting them.

Instead they have moved to an ostentatious property and desire a lifestyle that requires the need for a millionaire income to upkeep.

Not having any discernible talent to earn that kind of money they have turned to vindictiveness to sell their families out.

It’s also obvious that they don’t want privacy and absolutely relish attention and adulation.

No, I don’t think they are happy.

I don’t think they are terribly happy. It isn’t normal to brag about being perfect whilst demonising others. The projection is off the charts and appears to be largely borne from a misapprehension that Camilla gave information about him to the press when she was the most hated person in the country.

Or those faultymain5 competing on those commenting

Urgh commenting on those commenting!

You know there are no medals for being holier than thou. Disagree or move on.

He isnt happy because he's in the devaluation period and she's a narc so can never be happy. They will split in a few years.

So do I. I think he is a deeply troubled person and together they seem to be a toxic combination. I think they are both hard work in different ways. In real life anyone I’ve ever known who gushes on about their love story is putting it on.

@PicturesOfDogs FWIW, I don’t see them splitting, they’re clinging to each other, ‘us against the world’ sort of thing

I would tend to agree with this for the moment.

The crunch will come when people stop being interested in their recycling of rubbish about frozen todgers and broken dog bowls and the money dries up.

Then they'll have to really live with each other 24/7 which should be interesting.

(According to a friend in USA they aren't really that important, not even B list celebs.)

I think they are happy together, but how the hell Meghan can stand to be near him I do not know. She is clever and so beautiful. I would have the serious ick by now.

No one knows, do they, but their actions aren't those of happy people.

I really don't understand what she saw in him. He's not attractive, he's not intelligent, he spends his life whining. Had a Oedipus complex. Seems incapable of independent thought or having the motivation to do much for himself. How can she be happy with him?