I think they were allowed to meet the hrh titles for the same reason as the twelve month review, in case they, or Harry, changed his mind. The palace was trying to be nice to them and give them a way back in.
It’s very clear they fought the palace and the government to keep Sussex royal, their statement shows it clearly. Which in turn means they were indeed trying to use their royal positions as a way to make money. They wanted to say they were royals.
The “charities” thing being leaked is now trying to deflect from it, because they were very clear, they were doing this to make their own money. Not so they could go and do charity work quietly.
I honestly don’t get why they didn’t just put a positive spin on the mess they are in, it would have been very easy, something like “ based on our future roles, we have proactively decided, with the support of the palace, to rebrand our Sussex royal name to one which is more reflective of our work, and are very excited to reveal that in the near future”
There was no need for the idiotic angry statement stating we are still royal, Harry is sixth in line for the throne, and the queen doesn’t own the term “royal” overseas”
They need to listen to their pr teams, because when they make their own decisions they come across as angry, petulant, entitled children, stamping their feet because they didn’t get their own way.