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So do I or don't I?

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FinishWhatWeStarted · 25/09/2021 07:27

Yesterday I took my friend to pick a kitten from my brothers house.
I fell in love with one of the kittens who was absolutely adorable.
I sent my husband photos and he said 'if you want one get one but I won't be involved' (we all know that would last about five minutes 😂)
After playing with them all for about an hour we pack up friends kitten and head home.
Now I'm thinking I should have brought the one home that I liked. Especially given that it's the only one that isn't spoken for.
We have an older dog who is soft as anything and would wander round the garden with our guinea pigs when we had them with no prey drive at all. She would ignore my mums old cat when we visited. She was more interested in the poop. Which leads me to another con on the list.
My heart says yes but my head says no. We had no plans to get a cat but we can afford one. My kids would love it, but it's, potentially, a 15 year plus commitment.
There are probably more cons than pros!
Realistically I know that it's care would fall to me as the dogs does.
I have no idea how much keeping a cat costs. I'd get insurance because we all know cats can get themselves into sticky situations!
If it makes a difference I did animal care at college and I've worked in rescue and boarding previously.

If you were me what would you do?

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FinishWhatWeStarted · 26/09/2021 23:59

@EL8888

The right decision was made! She’s adorable
She is. Thank you.
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ColonelNobbyNobbs · 27/09/2021 02:26

How cute! ❤️❤️❤️

Toddlerteaplease · 27/09/2021 10:19

So glad you got her. What's her name?

FinishWhatWeStarted · 27/09/2021 11:30

@Toddlerteaplease

So glad you got her. What's her name?
Cassie
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Elieza · 27/09/2021 14:45

Cassie looked very relaxed on the couch last night? How was her first night away from her mummy? Did she eat her breakkie and lunch today and find her litter tray ok?

CatChant · 27/09/2021 16:18

Oh what a love of a kitten. She looks just like one I had many years ago. She was a darling and I have an extra specially soft spot for all torties in her memory.

You made the right decision. Smile

FinishWhatWeStarted · 27/09/2021 16:33

@Elieza

Cassie looked very relaxed on the couch last night? How was her first night away from her mummy? Did she eat her breakkie and lunch today and find her litter tray ok?
She's a little star with the litter tray. Dh had accidentally closed the crate door so she had no access to a litter tray for a couple of hours. As soon as I moved it into the room she ran over and weed in it. She's eating fine and doesn't seem to me pining for her family. She's very playful and loves the kids. My daughter is off school ill today which has worked out well and husband works from home.
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FinishWhatWeStarted · 27/09/2021 16:34

Watching the dog!

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Fluffycloudland77 · 27/09/2021 17:16

Eeeew, lower life form. Sad really 😼

Elieza · 27/09/2021 18:10

Aww, DH will have to make sure that doesn’t accidentally happen again, poor little girl bursting for the loo.

That’s nice she’s so happy. Hopefully it won’t be long til she realises ddog can be one of her servants too, for grooming her and keeping her warm of a cold night Grin

Fluffycloudland77 · 28/09/2021 14:14

How is she settling in now?

FinishWhatWeStarted · 28/09/2021 19:09

@Fluffycloudland77

How is she settling in now?
She's fine. Climbing everything, trying to chew my plants and eating and toileting well! She's such a funny little character and loves sitting on dhs shoulder! She wasn't happy when I left her to walk the dog this morning so I had to get poorly dd up to sit with her! She has found her miaow and thinks it funny to pretend she's stuck on the table until you go to get her! She's finally decided I'm worth the effort and fell asleep on my this morning whilst purring at full belt and I was rocking back and forth like she was a baby!
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Fluffycloudland77 · 28/09/2021 19:30

She is a baby 🥺

Are the houseplants cat safe? Some are fatal like lilies, peace lilies, aloe Vera. Dracaena, ficus, monstera and snake plants can make them poorly but I don’t think their fatal.

FinishWhatWeStarted · 29/09/2021 07:09

@Fluffycloudland77

She is a baby 🥺

Are the houseplants cat safe? Some are fatal like lilies, peace lilies, aloe Vera. Dracaena, ficus, monstera and snake plants can make them poorly but I don’t think their fatal.

Yes, I've checked and the couple that aren't safe are up in my room now. Thank you ☺️
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AlfonsoTheDinosaur · 29/09/2021 12:36

She's a cutie! Torties have cattitude so the dog will soon learn its place.

FinishWhatWeStarted · 29/09/2021 14:08

We have first contact! Then Cass backed off so the dog walked away.

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Fluffycloudland77 · 29/09/2021 14:22

“Hi I’m the new boss”

FinishWhatWeStarted · 29/09/2021 14:23
Grin
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Elieza · 29/09/2021 17:14

That’s so cute the two of them are saying hello and that your dog is such a friendly wee soul. Fingers crossed they will be snuggling soon.

FinishWhatWeStarted · 01/10/2021 22:22

She's such a pretty little thing. She's into everything and thinks anything in a side or window ledge is fair game!
She's getting on better with the dog and is still head over heels in love with the husband.

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Elieza · 01/10/2021 22:45
Grin
Toddlerteaplease · 02/10/2021 00:34

She's lovely!

DidSomebodySaySiamese · 02/10/2021 01:36

Gorgeous kitten! You made the right decision.

Els1e · 02/10/2021 07:32

She is lovely and I’m jealous. 😻 I remember when I introduced my cat, Eric to the dog. Eric was disdainful at first until the weather turned cold and he realised how useful the dog was to snuggle up to.

nzeire · 02/10/2021 07:37

Omg!!! She is GORGEOUS!
I was the only one in the family who didn’t want a cat… now she’s the most favourite member of my family! Haha

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