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Do these trousers look ridiculous on me?

193 replies

catteabook · 13/09/2026 11:11

Picture pending, but reasonably voluminous balloon legged trousers on short woman.

please be honest but not mean.

For context - 45yrs, 5’3”, slightly ‘alt’ leaning style but far from full on alternative/goth/emo.

don’t say ‘if you like them that’s all that matters’ or similar because I can’t decide if I like them, and that is why I’m posting.

Do these trousers look ridiculous on me?
OP posts:
pigmygoatsinjumpers · 13/09/2026 13:27

OP, are they these?

https://www.primark.com/en-gb/p/check-balloon-trousers-multi-991181886935

These are gathered at the hem. Yours look too long, and it may be the angle of the photo, but they look bunched up over the footwear because they are too long on you and don't really show the gathering at the hem. They look better on the model (if this is the same item).

Laura95167 · 13/09/2026 13:34

I think they look like pyjamas. I dont hate them, but I wouldnt wear them outside the house

OtterlyAstounding · 13/09/2026 13:34

pigmygoatsinjumpers · 13/09/2026 13:27

OP, are they these?

https://www.primark.com/en-gb/p/check-balloon-trousers-multi-991181886935

These are gathered at the hem. Yours look too long, and it may be the angle of the photo, but they look bunched up over the footwear because they are too long on you and don't really show the gathering at the hem. They look better on the model (if this is the same item).

Edited

Wow, they look like entirely different trousers on the model - the length/height makes such a difference.

LondonLass2026 · 13/09/2026 13:37

I don't think Rosie Huntington-Whiteley could make these look good.

pigmygoatsinjumpers · 13/09/2026 13:45

More photos from the Primark site here (these are for the grey cardigan that was paired with the trousers in my first link). They look quite long on the model who is presumably quite tall, so it's not surprising that they look long on someone who is 5 feet 3.

If I was wearing them, I'm under 5 feet and would probably need to cut 6 inches off the bottom and re-cuff and elasticate them, but then they would be too full above the cuff.

www.primark.com/en-gb/p/relaxed-seam-detail-cardigan-grey-991181997706

pigmygoatsinjumpers · 13/09/2026 13:47

I think these are the sort of style that need to be exactly the right length for the wearer. The model is wearing size S and is 5 feet 9 inches.

PuppyMonkey · 13/09/2026 13:52

The model looks awful in them as well. Grin

1983Louise · 13/09/2026 13:54

Yes x

JaneFoe · 13/09/2026 13:54

I think they are just a bit too long in the leg for you @catteabook, making them look excessively ballooned.
Petite range somewhere like Pixiegirl might be better suited but you could make them work.

The vest top definitely gives PJ vibes, off shoulder style loose fit would work better in a lighter colour. The black top and black shoes are creating the boxed in effect, go cream or beige or even army green on top and see how that feels. 😊

If your default style now is a smarter look, M&S did have a pleated version, slightly less ballooned. New Look had something similar but think you might have missed the season with them.

Loloblue · 13/09/2026 13:57

They're not doing much for you and you have a great figure! Send them back.

3peassuit · 13/09/2026 14:07

Just awful. I can’t imagine them making anyone look stylish.

NewNameW · 13/09/2026 14:22

I'm 5ft 3 and I do not think 5.3 is 'too' short at all i think it's actually the UK average or close too it, but there is normally a petite section in shops which we should gravitate towards for future purchases, all shops differ though. But pants that tie at the bottom are just preference, they're not trailing on the floor and i fucking love a wide set pant (im built like a potato so my chicken legs look better in baggy pants)
These particular pants just aren't 100% for me, if you are at home I'd go into the garden take a video of you walking in them and then decide.
I do that alot. The wind dictates how clingy or flappy or breezey my clothes look 80% of the time!

handsdownthebest · 13/09/2026 14:27

I don't dislike ballon trousers with the right styling.
I would have a look on trend styling online. There are some really cool looks x

RemindMeIn15Minutes · 13/09/2026 14:28

I think they look alright (I’d iron them and maybe have the vest shorter/tucked in, though). Your figure is good!

IDontHateRainbows · 13/09/2026 14:31

Yes.

localnotail · 13/09/2026 14:45

I erroneously bought a similar pair and never wore them. They just dont go with anything.

dizzydizzydizzy · 13/09/2026 14:49

Mmm….: they just look sooo big! I’m wondering if you need a smaller size? Or a slightly less voluminous pair?

Aluna · 13/09/2026 14:51

OtterlyAstounding · 13/09/2026 13:34

Wow, they look like entirely different trousers on the model - the length/height makes such a difference.

They don’t look good on the model either.

catteabook · 13/09/2026 15:05

pigmygoatsinjumpers · 13/09/2026 13:27

OP, are they these?

https://www.primark.com/en-gb/p/check-balloon-trousers-multi-991181886935

These are gathered at the hem. Yours look too long, and it may be the angle of the photo, but they look bunched up over the footwear because they are too long on you and don't really show the gathering at the hem. They look better on the model (if this is the same item).

Edited

Yes these are they.
There’s now another pair in stock, because I’ve taken them back.

None the richer though, because I took my teen DD with me who immediately found something to spend the refund on.

OP posts:
Bestfootforward11 · 13/09/2026 16:06

Think they look nice, could try a shorter top and different shoes.

pigmygoatsinjumpers · 13/09/2026 16:16

Bestfootforward11 · 13/09/2026 16:06

Think they look nice, could try a shorter top and different shoes.

OP has returned them.

Seajaye · 13/09/2026 16:17

I'm 5'3" too, size 8 to 10.. I would not choose to wear these. Id love to find some fitted high wasted moderately wide trousers in plain fabric or a mottled fabric, to update my look for this winter , but it wouldn't be these. I think the pattern and gathered harem ankle cuffs would not suit a shorter person. Possible might work better with high waist and a nice white shirt tucked in

WecanbeheroeslikeBowie · 13/09/2026 16:18

pigmygoatsinjumpers · 13/09/2026 12:44

I don't think they would look good on anyone and the top does not work with them, either.

Have you looked at Forgotten Tribes Harem pants?

https://www.forgottentribes.com/collections/harem-pants-uk/products/harem-original-plain-colour-high-crotch-superior-rayon-fabric

I would love to see the responses on aibu.

AquamarinePearlGold · 13/09/2026 16:26

catteabook · 13/09/2026 11:27

I was considering leaving the house in them, yes 😅

This link is is the kind of thing I want them to be, but you’re right, they’re too voluminous.
also, I’m not tall enough, and my DM,s are not high enough!

I’ll return them and look for maybe similar with less fabric.

thanks for the sanity check!

Hush hareem pants are good “balloony” trousers op. Loads on vinted.

Illegally18 · 13/09/2026 16:30

catteabook · 13/09/2026 11:11

Picture pending, but reasonably voluminous balloon legged trousers on short woman.

please be honest but not mean.

For context - 45yrs, 5’3”, slightly ‘alt’ leaning style but far from full on alternative/goth/emo.

don’t say ‘if you like them that’s all that matters’ or similar because I can’t decide if I like them, and that is why I’m posting.

They don't flatter you at all