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Do these trousers look ridiculous on me?

193 replies

catteabook · 13/09/2026 11:11

Picture pending, but reasonably voluminous balloon legged trousers on short woman.

please be honest but not mean.

For context - 45yrs, 5’3”, slightly ‘alt’ leaning style but far from full on alternative/goth/emo.

don’t say ‘if you like them that’s all that matters’ or similar because I can’t decide if I like them, and that is why I’m posting.

Do these trousers look ridiculous on me?
OP posts:
WildFatball · 13/09/2026 11:45

I don't like gray but the style looks fine.

Cherrytree86 · 13/09/2026 11:45

Awful

Cardhey · 13/09/2026 11:46

Awful. Sorry

DrumsPleaseFab · 13/09/2026 11:46

People who advocate a slim Jean and the need for things to look neat and flattering always bring Miranda’s mum to my mind 😂

Sparrowsandbudgies · 13/09/2026 11:47

I think they’re going to really divide people - lots of the people saying they’re hideous would probably never set foot in the type of shops that sell them like Lucy and Yak, Asos, shops aimed at a more alternative / younger look (for want of a better word). I like them, I would wear them with a boxier t shirt rather than something tight fitting and I’d probably pair them with some platform doc martens or chunky trainers. I’m 45 and a size 18 and these are the kind of things I like to wear. Others would probably think I look awful 😂

Airyfaerie · 13/09/2026 11:48

They're not my style but they definitely don't look ridiculous on you. I probably wouldn't give you a second look if I saw you in the street.

On the other hand the Disturbia ones someone posted upthread aren't nice at all (which is only my opinion, and I think goes to show we all have different tastes and that's absolutely fine!)

allthingsinmoderation · 13/09/2026 11:48

i think it only really matters what the wearer thinks (or anyone whose opinion they appreciate).
But as you asked, i think they look clown like.
Having said that i have a very similar pair....

MrsBatshitRatshit · 13/09/2026 11:48

They are not flattering.

Namechange26andabit · 13/09/2026 11:49

I’ve decided if I have any doubts that are a no. If they were a yes you wouldn’t ask.

ItsAlwaysTwins · 13/09/2026 11:50

I like a balloon leg and over the summer I wore 2 pairs from Oysho on repeat.

But these ones do not look good. I think they’re too voluminous and the pattern is nasty.

ladyofroo · 13/09/2026 11:51

Bloody hell- you're risking arrest from the fashion police there.

You'd easily get life imprisonment for those monstrosities

GETTINGLIKEMYMOTHER · 13/09/2026 11:53

To me they’re ugly, but then a lot of (to me) ugly trousers are evidently fashionable now. The other day a young woman at the bus stop was wearing brown cord barrel leg crops, which to me were the ugliest I’ve seen so far, but each to her own…

viques · 13/09/2026 11:54

Lilypad34 · 13/09/2026 11:16

If say you were a juggler and needed some trousers for your act then great, I’m guessing you aren’t so no.

I was going to suggest that they might be popular with shoplifters. You could stuff a lot of baby milk, cheese and batteries in those bad boys.

BlackCat14 · 13/09/2026 11:54

I think they’re fine, something different for sure. I’m just not keen on whatever shoes you have on with them, I don’t think they look right.

MagicThanks · 13/09/2026 11:55

Try with top tucked in, then I think they’ll look good

FlatWhiteExtraHot · 13/09/2026 11:57

I really like them on you, but then I loathe the word “flattering” with a fiery passion. It smacks of needing to look a certain way in someone else’s opinion to even dare to exist 😒.

However, if you don’t really love them, they will just sit there reproaching you until you take them to the charity shop, so in that case you may as well return them and buy something you’re going to wear.

PhaedraTwo · 13/09/2026 12:00

My opinion on the trousers is irrelevant. If you have to ask on here, they're not for you.

Examtime · 13/09/2026 12:00

I really like them and wear similar. i love the extra volume of material, it’s what makes them different. Your boots need to be chunkier and laces showing all the way up to the top. The top needs to be edgier. Still fitted, but something more modern/with a little bit of drape. Grey rather than black. I have a good one from forgotten tribes, long sleeved and in a dark grey fine knit that I find versatile to wear with this style of trouser.

that’s just my views and all very individual so go with your instincts and what feels comfortable and makes you feel good! What it looks like to other people is not really relevant in my book!

thats what I’d

Sassylovesbooks · 13/09/2026 12:01

At 5ft 3, they swamp you. There's so much fabric, it's difficult tell where your legs are in them!!!

PhaedraTwo · 13/09/2026 12:01

Namechange26andabit · 13/09/2026 11:49

I’ve decided if I have any doubts that are a no. If they were a yes you wouldn’t ask.

Exactly.

RogueFemale · 13/09/2026 12:02

Not terrible, but they don't flatter you, look frumpy, and the grey check is dreary. I'm sure you can find better baloony pants.

DollopOfFun · 13/09/2026 12:03

I don't think they're awful on you, but I wouldn't wear with the vest like that. It needs a shorter, boxier top (I know that goes against all the 'rules' we were taught) or at least the vest tucked right in

Notsosweetcaroline · 13/09/2026 12:04

They look like they should on you. Which is in my opinion not a good look. I’d say they look sort of grungy cheap and not very stylish. However I’d not double take looking at you or anything.

OtterlyAstounding · 13/09/2026 12:04

FlatWhiteExtraHot · 13/09/2026 11:57

I really like them on you, but then I loathe the word “flattering” with a fiery passion. It smacks of needing to look a certain way in someone else’s opinion to even dare to exist 😒.

However, if you don’t really love them, they will just sit there reproaching you until you take them to the charity shop, so in that case you may as well return them and buy something you’re going to wear.

I see 'flattering' in clothing cut as just being what suits your body shape, and makes it look well-proportioned and balanced. It's a bit like one's colour season - it's handy to know these things, but not at all necessary to follow them!