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Fluffytoebeanz · 01/02/2026 14:46

When we got married my mum dressed like herself and that's what mattered, I'd be worried if she'd turned up in Jacques vert and a massive hat and would have staged an intervention. She was smart and looked fantastic but not conventional.

Now I'm 58 and I love that dress. Sod what other people think. If it was me I'd be wearing nice flats (dodgy knee) in silver or bright pink etc. But you choose what you feel

RemusLupinsBiggestGroupie · 01/02/2026 14:53

If you do want flats OP there are lots of very cute Mary Janes around. Where do you usually like to get your shoes from?

dancingkween · 01/02/2026 15:13

I do want heels - happy to have a pointed toe or almond toe. Either lilac/purple or the green in the dress I think

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Horses7 · 01/02/2026 15:23

Depends on the type of wedding your daughter wants - it’s a lovely dress but you are MOB and imo need to get something really, really special - someone else could easily be wearing the same dress!!
My daughter wanted me to ‘dress up’ and have a great hat - so I did and she came shopping with me, we had a fab time shopping and at wedding.
Do you want to look like any another guest or MOB? Discuss with daughter.

BoudiccaRuled · 01/02/2026 15:44

This looks beautiful!

BoudiccaRuled · 01/02/2026 15:46

onetrickrockingpony · 01/02/2026 09:47

Stunning dress. I strongly disagree with navy shoes - you’ll drag your look straight back to the 90s and navy is very work-wear.

Try a colour or gold/silver depending on your jewellery. Cream would be better than nude.

Don’t listen to PPs regarding hats - they really aren’t necessary for a modern wedding, and they get in the way. An fascinators just look silly. Best to just get your hair done and wear beautiful jewellery.

Yes! Unless hats really suit you, then avoid. They really don't suit glasses either, too much going on. And fascinators look ridiculous on most people.

SkelatorIamNot · 01/02/2026 16:32

That’s gorgeous, good choice OP!

SnipThoseApronStrings · 01/02/2026 16:38

I really like the dress. I think navy shoes and a different coloured bag would be very nice together. I'd probably get a navy bag because I'm boring like that.

Winederlust · 01/02/2026 16:45

savvy7 · 31/01/2026 21:48

If you look at this similar Rixo dress I think it looks better with a paler shoe

rixolondon.com/products/kaila-dress-layla-mix-navy

That dress is beautiful but those shoes don't go with it at all.
OP the Hobbs dress is perfect for a MOB look if it's your style and navy shoes would be great.

pigmygoatsinjumpers · 01/02/2026 16:59

Horses7 · 01/02/2026 15:23

Depends on the type of wedding your daughter wants - it’s a lovely dress but you are MOB and imo need to get something really, really special - someone else could easily be wearing the same dress!!
My daughter wanted me to ‘dress up’ and have a great hat - so I did and she came shopping with me, we had a fab time shopping and at wedding.
Do you want to look like any another guest or MOB? Discuss with daughter.

I think it is a beautiful dress and entirely suitable.

PoFacedStare · 01/02/2026 17:10

Thank you for not choosing the hideous shift dress/matching coat option 🙏
You will look lovely!

PoFacedStare · 01/02/2026 17:13

Yes, contrasting shoes to match the flowers. Or maybe silver. And when I rule the world, I will make all nude shoes illegal; I hate them!

GrillaMilla · 01/02/2026 19:27

Gorgeous dress, and perfect for a wedding

Molleeeee · 01/02/2026 19:55

I ordered this for my daughters wedding and had to send it back. It looked like a nightie on me and did not work at all. I 5ft 8 and it was very long. It has some weird buttons down the front

LadyRoughDiamond · 01/02/2026 20:34

Absolutely gorgeous - classic, beautiful fabric. So much classier than those dreadful mother of the bride outfits sold in occasion wear shops.

I’d opt for a nude or metallic shoe, then let the weather and hair preference decide your hat. If it’s a warm, sunny day, you may be glad of something with a brim.

Tallulahbelle1038 · 01/02/2026 21:01

It’s perfect! And I hope you feel a million dollars wearing it! Pick out any of the colours in it for shoes/bag/hat. It’s really elegant!

Oakiedoakie · 01/02/2026 22:01

I love it, go for it!

Suec254 · 01/02/2026 23:20

yes it's lovely

Onthemaintrunkline · 02/02/2026 02:25

Don’t be confused OP, you are on to a real winner here, an absolute winner!

Beautiful dress, with either a pale green similar to that in the dress and bag to match. Old school perhaps, but I like the shoes & bag to match.

Randomuser2026 · 02/02/2026 06:51

I’m going to suggest caution. Look how long that dress is on the model, are you of a similar height and build?

I think if you have even a hint of apple to your shape, then it has severe potential for dumpiness. Please be super careful as to how it fits you personally.

Having said that I do think it is a lovely dress and you be inclined to pick out the pale pink for a hat/jacket/shoes.

AlleycatMarie · 02/02/2026 07:54

I think it’s gorgeous and very appropriate!

Molleeeee · 02/02/2026 08:51

Op I really hope that you like it. The material is a real disappointment. Yes it is silk but feels more like polyster the flower pattern is printed on to the fabric and looks very cheap in real life.

I was so disappointed in it as I had hoped my search was over!

Gall10 · 02/02/2026 09:57

I don’t usually like dresses that posters show on here….but I think that’s perfect for the wedding & you’ll look a million dollars! Hope you have a great day.

BIossomtoes · 02/02/2026 10:03

Molleeeee · 02/02/2026 08:51

Op I really hope that you like it. The material is a real disappointment. Yes it is silk but feels more like polyster the flower pattern is printed on to the fabric and looks very cheap in real life.

I was so disappointed in it as I had hoped my search was over!

There’s always one who loves pissing on your chips. 🙄

FlowerFairyDaisy · 02/02/2026 10:15

Gorgeous dress, OP!

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