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Should I I keep this dress? Help me decide!

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pharmachameleon · 17/05/2024 09:14

I bought this dress online from Me and Em about two weeks ago so I need to decide soon if I should keep it. I can't decide!!! I like it on me-the colours suit me and my chest area is awful (skinny, flat chested and uneven skin tone) so it's good this dress hides that area. But is it frumpy?
I really don't know any more. It's not for anywhere special, maybe wearing on holiday or out for dinner. Tell me straight if I should send it back please!

www.meandem.com/linen-blend-lace-midi-shirt-dress-belt-lilac-red-cream

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KomproMatilda · 18/05/2024 09:53
Hmm
CottonbudQueen · 18/05/2024 09:54

Love it, keep it

katepilar · 18/05/2024 10:37

The dress is fine, but how are people supposed to know what it looks like you? Keep it if you feel good in it, return it if you have doubts and choodse something where you feel its right.

KomproMatilda · 18/05/2024 10:44

Heavens above! You have already won the internet prize for today, @katepilar.

Loving your work!

SchoolQuestionnaire · 18/05/2024 11:17

pharmachameleon · 17/05/2024 19:05

I've tried it on again and tried a tan belt. Hmmm.

I didn’t like it at all until I saw the pics but it looks lovely on you. I’m not sure about the tan belt, I think something less neutral would be better, but the colour of the dress really suits you. I’d keep it.

Trainsplanesautomobiles · 18/05/2024 13:47

wandawaves · 17/05/2024 10:00

Oh dear, I think it's really awful, sorry OP.

And the price is equally awful!

Agree 🤦‍♀️

Perfectpots · 18/05/2024 13:56

Fab dress !
You don't have to wear it done up to the neck

Barney16 · 18/05/2024 17:44

It's gorgeous. If I had £325 I would buy it like a shot. I love their stuff. There's a gorgeous pink tank toppy thing I have my eye on.

Catandsquirrel · 18/05/2024 17:57

It looks nice on you but if I'm honest, it's not special enough for the money. The colours suit you well. Maybe a vintage liberty or Laura Ashley print from eBay for something a bit different?

There's a nice quite hippy boho boutique called All About Audrey based in Brighton that I've had a couple of dresses off that might be worth a look if you like the pretty floral vibe.

pharmachameleon · 18/05/2024 18:40

@Barney16 oh is it the pink wool one? Bloody love that too! It's on sale but I've resisted as I think it might be too warm to wear just now.

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Barney16 · 18/05/2024 18:48

pharmachameleon · 18/05/2024 18:40

@Barney16 oh is it the pink wool one? Bloody love that too! It's on sale but I've resisted as I think it might be too warm to wear just now.

This top and the pants the model are wearing, I just love them
https://www.meandem.com/cotton-boucle-halterneck-vest-dusted-blus

https://www.meandem.com/cotton-boucle-halterneck-vest-dusted-blus

pharmachameleon · 18/05/2024 19:35

That is nice!

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Sureaseggs44 · 18/05/2024 23:41

PerfectTravelTote · 17/05/2024 17:42

I've come to the realisation that if you don't love it right away you should send it back.

I really like it .

Malbecmoron · 19/05/2024 01:22

Jegersur · 18/05/2024 09:00

I really don’t like it, sorry, and it’s very expensive for what it is. Me and Em have nicer stuff.

They have great trouser suits for instance

Mummyoflittledragon · 19/05/2024 05:49

I see you’ve sent the dress back and I don’t love it either. You have a lovely figure btw… It appears too light in colour for you but perhaps it’s the photo as you say you suit this sort of colour. Have you had your colours done?

Grammarnut · 19/05/2024 08:35

A bit from from my pov, but I believe that's currently fashionable. If you like it and it looks good keep it.

pharmachameleon · 19/05/2024 10:30

@Mummyoflittledragon I haven't had my colours done but it's something I'd really like to do. I have blonde hair, pale skin (but wear fake tan and bronzer) and blue eyes. I feel I suit pale blue and lilac and a white, white (not cream).
In the photos the dress looks pink but it's more a lilac in real life.

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pharmachameleon · 19/05/2024 10:32

I bought this dress on Vinted earlier which you may all hate too 😂
I feel it's a bit less frumpy as my arms are on show. They are probably the only part of my body I don't hate!

Should I I keep this dress? Help me decide!
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Animatic · 19/05/2024 10:36

I think it can look beautiful depending on your complexion and height.
On me it would look like grandma's nighty hence I would pass

Animatic · 19/05/2024 10:36

pharmachameleon · 19/05/2024 10:32

I bought this dress on Vinted earlier which you may all hate too 😂
I feel it's a bit less frumpy as my arms are on show. They are probably the only part of my body I don't hate!

The blue one is nice and I would have bought it

KomproMatilda · 19/05/2024 14:08

The blue dress looks fine, @pharmachameleon - but surely fulfills a slightly different purpose?

Anyway … Look! [ Please note that whatever you as a reader feel about prices the OP has said she is perfectly easy about this price point.]

https://uk.ajeworld.com/collections/new-arrivals/products/madeleine-belted-midi-dress-lilac

Isn’t this your original dress, perfected? More sophisticated, more crafted, more - wow?

Madeleine Belted Midi Dress

Shop the Madeleine Belted Midi Dress in Lilac online at Aje. Express Shipping via DHL. Easy and fuss-free returns.

https://uk.ajeworld.com/collections/new-arrivals/products/madeleine-belted-midi-dress-lilac

pharmachameleon · 19/05/2024 15:11

@KomproMatilda why did you show me that dress?!?!?!?! It's gorgeous ♥️

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Cyclingmummy1 · 19/05/2024 15:35

I know this is polyester (and quite sheer) but it's 25 quid.

Early 50s, size 10, get lots of compliments when wearing it 😉

Pink Floral Malika Midi Shirt Dress

Pink Floral Malika Midi Shirt Dress

https://www.nobodyschild.com/products/pink-floral-malika-midi-shirt-dress?queryID=94ddf715075a5f1ebd97fef7ffe7a67c

KomproMatilda · 19/05/2024 15:46
Grin

Just came across it by chance and remembered your thread!