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Show me your non traditional wedding dress!

301 replies

AmilyChestnut · 31/07/2023 15:48

Can I see everyone's non traditional wedding dresses please.

Or any dress you'd love to get married in, or wear to a special event.

I am getting married and don't know what I want, but know I don't want white or traditional.

Thank you!

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ModestMoon · 31/07/2023 22:14

Izzabellasasperella · 31/07/2023 17:06

This was mine. Only £50 from EBay😀

Wow this is amazing! It's so unique and regal in an almost sci-fi way, yet clearly you're the bride. Fantastic choice.

allthelittleangelsriseupriseup · 31/07/2023 22:20

@whatafaffage Thank you!
Her suit was bespoke, black wool trousers and a gold wool waistcoat and jacket - it cost more than my dress!

ReginaPerrin · 31/07/2023 22:21

I’ve got my eye on this dress for when I get married next year. Just need to lose a few pounds and develop a waist!

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SammyScrounge · 31/07/2023 22:22

Saisong · 31/07/2023 16:44

This was mine (stock photo tho, that's not me!!). From Phase 8, got it in the sale too.

That dress is just lovely.

viktoria · 31/07/2023 22:24

RooRooCooChoo · 31/07/2023 19:52

This one was mine!

Absolutely love this dress

ModestMoon · 31/07/2023 22:25

Scirocco · 31/07/2023 20:12

Delightful. You really felt the need to criticise a dress someone has already worn for a special occasion and said that they still wear and love? That's rather rude.

Actually, I got lots of compliments about it in real life and still do when I wear it. Even my mum liked it and she usually despairs over my post-goth addiction to black.

The nun comparison is quite funny, though. There was nothing nun-like about our wedding. Unless you know some very strange nuns.

I think your dress is lovely, ignore that poster - they're just being a dick for the sake of it.

The whole point of this thread is alternative wedding dresses, and then you get some utter idiot complaining that it "doesn't look like a wedding dress". I mean, no shit! That's literally what this thread is about!

JulesJules · 31/07/2023 22:28

GeorgeSpeaks · 31/07/2023 21:55

@JulesJules you looked amazing, like Maid Marian! Was it the mid 90s?

Haha yes 1994! So 30yrs next year.

Shambol1c · 31/07/2023 22:34

Love seeing all the excellent unique and quirky choices. People have such diverse styles when they veer away from convention!

Here’s mine from Monsoon. On the ‘last chance’ rail! Under £100. In real life it’s more of a pinky raspberry shade. Not yet worn it again but hope to!

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CointreauVersial · 31/07/2023 22:37

Such a lovely thread!

Mine was a burgundy crushed velvet bias-cut slip dress from Jigsaw. One of those dresses that just fits, and makes you feel like the best version of yourself. My mum made DS and DD1 (who were toddlers at the time) a matching shirt and dress.

My mum designs wedding dresses for a living - thank heavens she wasn't offended that I didn't ask her to make my dress!

21 years later, the dress still fits me, still incredibly flattering, and I've worn it several times since. DD2 dug it out of the loft recently and put it on, and it brought tears to my eyes.

Tartopommes · 31/07/2023 22:41

Not going to share actual wedding pics as incredibly outing, but I got married in a floor length sequinned evening gown from Phase 8.

I really, really wish that there were more / better options for women wanting to get married in a fabulous dress that isn't white/ivory/cream/blush. Certainly when I was looking, if you googled 'non-traditional wedding dress' you'd get loads of images of dresses that were tea-length, but white. I eventually realised that eveningwear was closest to what I was looking for.

Hope you fnd your perfect dress OP.

AIBUDandB · 31/07/2023 22:49

Wedding anniversary today! I was 26 here in 1999 and wearing virginal white seemed ridiculous. I wanted to look like the centre of the day but also recognisably me.
The hat was a bit much but it was a red hot day.
Posh & Beckham had got married the week before and my cousins just poured over Hello magazine. Should have got a throne.

It's Droopy & Brown, gold silk @Defiantlynot41 & @londonmummy1966 wasn't their stuff amazing, still have a few waistcoats.

My dd has just worn it for Prom and nobody rumbled what it was originally bought for.

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Clarabe1 · 31/07/2023 22:53

This is such a lovely and interesting thread. I am really enjoying looking at the photos. The dresses and suits are fabulous.

AIBUDandB · 31/07/2023 22:56

Waves at @allthelittleangelsriseupriseup.
I sealed the receipts in an envelope which I have kept but never reopened.

Museya15 · 31/07/2023 22:58

Don’t know whether it uploaded but if it did, this was mine.

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Kleptronic · 31/07/2023 23:00

This was mine.

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Punkkitty · 31/07/2023 23:01

Full blown red/burgundy gown with black bridesmaid.
I’m not a white dress kinda gal..

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twilightermummy · 31/07/2023 23:01

June628
That is absolutely stunning 😍

belcarra · 31/07/2023 23:03

I was 50 years old and it was our 2nd marriage, 11 years ago in Autumn. My dress was dark red and I wore silver sparkly shoes. Sorry I cant get a better photo.

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belcarra · 31/07/2023 23:04

sorry thats not the photo I meant to post, it's huge

SageRosemary · 31/07/2023 23:05

I never dreamed I'd walk down the aisle in a long white dress. But, the wedding got a bit bigger than I intended and it seemed easier in the end. Picked up a pre-loved dress that was someone else's dream and it really suited me. Short engagement, found the dress shopping stressful, only one dress actually fitted me, looked amazing on but I felt the style was too young for me.

These are white but not traditional, by an Irish designer, priced in euros.

https://www.dunnesstores.com/c/women/our-brands/joanne-hynes-at-dunnes-stores/view-all

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View all products by Joanne Hynes, exclusively designed for Dunnes Stores.

https://www.dunnesstores.com/c/women/our-brands/joanne-hynes-at-dunnes-stores/view-all

MMorales · 31/07/2023 23:07

Loving looking at all these gorgeous dresses

Some absolutely amazing choices!

SapphireSeptember · 31/07/2023 23:13

I got married in this beautiful Monsoon dress, that I got for £12.50 from a charity shop! I no longer have it, but it was gorgeous and really suited me. I don't have the husband anymore either! Next time I get married (hopefully) I'm going to wear this dress. https://www.thedarkangel.com/collections/gowns/products/417-kelmscott-gown
It's what I originally wanted to get married in, and then I bought it a few years ago to wear to a LARPing event I went to. So I already have it!

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Totaly · 31/07/2023 23:24

Loving all the dresses ladies!! So much better than standard strapless white gowns!

If love to go to a ball where we could all wear them again!

AtrociousCircumstance · 31/07/2023 23:30

@Saisong That is absolutely stunning 🤩