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Show me your non traditional wedding dress!

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AmilyChestnut · 31/07/2023 15:48

Can I see everyone's non traditional wedding dresses please.

Or any dress you'd love to get married in, or wear to a special event.

I am getting married and don't know what I want, but know I don't want white or traditional.

Thank you!

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RitzyMcFitzy · 01/08/2023 21:21

MyOtherCarisAFerrari · 01/08/2023 21:17

This is as traditional as they come though?

the hemline, mini at the front and maxi at the back, is hardly traditional

MysteryBelle · 01/08/2023 21:21

@LauraDLoves such a lovely and timeless wedding ensemble. Your mother made the top ❤️ together, the skirt and top are perfection. It speaks to what I connect with style wise and just everything.

I am loving this thread. All the dresses 😍 I wore a traditional white dress but it was the only one I liked, all the others were so heavy and oppressive feeling. Mine was light as air, lace and tulle. I still have it and I still love it.

I love the idea of a light clear pink or a very pale blue dress. Enjoying seeing all the different styles and colors. So fun!

MyOtherCarisAFerrari · 01/08/2023 21:22

Tartopommes · 31/07/2023 22:41

Not going to share actual wedding pics as incredibly outing, but I got married in a floor length sequinned evening gown from Phase 8.

I really, really wish that there were more / better options for women wanting to get married in a fabulous dress that isn't white/ivory/cream/blush. Certainly when I was looking, if you googled 'non-traditional wedding dress' you'd get loads of images of dresses that were tea-length, but white. I eventually realised that eveningwear was closest to what I was looking for.

Hope you fnd your perfect dress OP.

These days you can find loads on etsy if you search by colour, e.g. 'red wedding dress'.
Look at these stunners

https://www.etsy.com/uk/listing/1219035462/scalloped-lace-high-low-midi-dress-red?ga_order=most_relevant&ga_search_type=all&ga_view_type=gallery&ga_search_query=red+wedding+dress&ref=sr_gallery-1-1&frs=1&organic_search_click=1

https://www.etsy.com/uk/listing/1479285506/elegant-lilac-sweetheart-evening-dress?ga_order=most_relevant&ga_search_type=all&ga_view_type=gallery&ga_search_query=purple+wedding+dress&ref=sr_gallery-1-29&frs=1&organic_search_click=1

Scalloped Lace High Low Midi Dress Red Wedding Guest Dress - Etsy UK

This Womens Dresses item by FashionByGoddiva has 165 favorites from Etsy shoppers. Ships from United Kingdom. Listed on 19 Jul, 2023

https://www.etsy.com/uk/listing/1219035462/scalloped-lace-high-low-midi-dress-red?frs=1&ga_order=most_relevant&ga_search_query=red+wedding+dress&ga_search_type=all&ga_view_type=gallery&organic_search_click=1&ref=sr_gallery-1-1

WeWereInParis · 01/08/2023 21:22

I wore this maternity dress (the picture is not me). We had a very casual wedding.

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Goldencup · 01/08/2023 21:25

Coast 2005

Goldencup · 01/08/2023 21:26

Try again

Caktwenty · 01/08/2023 21:29

HerRoyalNotness · 01/08/2023 20:31

This is stunning!

Aww thank you, wish I could do the day all over again!

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Goldencup · 01/08/2023 21:33

Finally

Show me your non traditional wedding dress!
Saisong · 01/08/2023 21:35

MyOtherCarisAFerrari · 01/08/2023 21:15

This is beautiful - what's the style called?
I wanted a dress like this but don't have the words to search

Phase 8 do lots of lovely dresses that pass well for weddings, quite a few have popped up on this thread. My one was called Oralie, from the petite range. I spotted it originally in a Debenhams concession (IIRC) but ordered directly from Phase 8 in their sale.

Adrianna Papell does very similar styles too.

SweetyMcSweeterson · 01/08/2023 21:37

Astonesthrow · 01/08/2023 19:44

This was mine if tartan is your thing. Handmade by me in silk dupion with silver paper lame underneath. I struggled to find a traditional dress that I liked

I'm so impressed with all the handmade dresses. They are stunning and super creative!! Love the tartan one.

Treesinmygarden · 01/08/2023 21:39

londonmummy1966 · 01/08/2023 10:17

Their wedding dresses were eye watering although the day wear was a bit more reasonable - it made up most of my work wardrobe pre DC. Now DD2 has requisitioned a lot of it on the understanding that it never appears on her depop account! Pink silk and pearls sounds lovely - mine had a floral embroidery of pearls and crystals all over a big wide collar (very 1990!!). I did have a navy wool going away dress from D&B though.

1990 here too! And with the most mahoosive bow across my butt!! There was some silver embroidery on it too and the bridesmaids were in silver.

MyOtherCarisAFerrari · 01/08/2023 21:39

Saisong · 01/08/2023 21:35

Phase 8 do lots of lovely dresses that pass well for weddings, quite a few have popped up on this thread. My one was called Oralie, from the petite range. I spotted it originally in a Debenhams concession (IIRC) but ordered directly from Phase 8 in their sale.

Adrianna Papell does very similar styles too.

Thanks, jsut had a look!
There was a Turkish (I think) designer who made beautiful dresses in a similar style, I came across her by chance but couldn't' find the page again.

Elodie09 · 01/08/2023 21:41

@LauraDLoves So lovely! The soft gentle jumper, satin skirt and the simplicity of your flowers is gorgeous.
I love these wedding dresses , so amazing and a fab thread.

RunAwayTurnAwayRunAwayTurnAway · 01/08/2023 21:43

GonnaGetGoingReturns · 31/07/2023 19:58

No photos as she’d kill me but DM got married in a Victorian lace ivory/white long wedding dress, quite slim fitting and long sleeves. She always wanted me to get married in it.

She also made an 18th century floor length cream/ivory slim fitting smocked wedding dress as she had a company that made smocks for sale in late )0s. This was for a client who ended up not getting married. She wanted me to wear that too.

You HAVE to share pics!

MyOtherCarisAFerrari · 01/08/2023 21:49

RitzyMcFitzy · 01/08/2023 21:21

the hemline, mini at the front and maxi at the back, is hardly traditional

Sorry - I might have overdone it by saying 'as traditional as they come' but having been wedding dress shopping for the better part of a year I've seen quite a few like that. They're called 'asymmetrical' and are all the rage apparently.

I thought non-traditional was something that wasn't clearly a wedding dress, if not colour, the cut. That dress is white with a big , sweeping skirt, unmistakeable as the bride.

No beef with PP btw. It's a beautiful dress (and of course was just the inspiration). But definitely looks like a wedding dress to me.

3luckystars · 01/08/2023 22:06

I have to say this thread is making me very happy!

such beautiful work @ValBiro

FunnysInLaJardin · 01/08/2023 22:17

I wore a silk/linen midnight blue shift dress from Joseph in the late 90's with a cream stole and blood red roses

TheMadGardener · 01/08/2023 22:22

Mine was this sort of shape but the top had gold beading and embroidery all over it, the skirt was ivory and calf length. Register office wedding.

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SaturdayGiraffe · 01/08/2023 22:23

One from here https://www.facebook.com/JoanneFlemingDesign but she seems to have disappeared after many poor reviews. A shame.

Facebook

https://www.facebook.com/JoanneFlemingDesign

ShinyHappyTits · 01/08/2023 22:25

My dress was by needle and thread, quite non-trad but if I did it again I'd wear this by Safiyaa. Very much loving the cape!

Show me your non traditional wedding dress!
Nutterjacks · 01/08/2023 22:57

I'd love something like either of these two but I wouldn't do the dresses any justice 🙁

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Show me your non traditional wedding dress!
DinaFox · 01/08/2023 23:05

LauraDLoves · 31/07/2023 20:36

I wore a silk skirt and my Mum knitted me a jumper (was chilly early spring day so perfect for the weather).

This is stunning @LauraDLoves

Ineedwinenow · 01/08/2023 23:36

Mine was a traditional style, but I went for white & claret.

It’s very similar to this photo except the front of the dress had a section of claret going down the front too, It sounds awful but it was beautiful, I wanted a full claret dress but couldn’t find one.

Nowadays you can get any dress you want in any colour you want so if I redid my wedding now I think I’d do a long black evening gown but I really still do love this “wedding “ style gown

Show me your non traditional wedding dress!
Threenow · 01/08/2023 23:38

@Izzabellasasperella - your dress is gorgeous!

Threenow · 01/08/2023 23:48

@LauraDLoves - I love your wedding outfit, so elegant and classy.

It's been lovely looking at the different dresses, and they are all gorgeous, and so much nicer than most traditional bridal gowns.