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What do lesbians wear to weddings?

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Pluvia · 02/08/2022 20:52

Enquiring on behalf of a lesbian friend who's doing my head in. In three weeks time she's attending a formal traditional wedding where most women will be doing the frock and fascinator number.

She's 5'1" and a size 6-8. She's very androgynous looking and won't wear a skirt or heels. Very pale skin and white-blonde hair in a pixie cut. She doesn't do wide trousers, patterns, animal prints, pussy bows or anything that hints at girliness. Likes fitted and sharp. She will wear pink and bright colours. The plan was to find a sharp ankle-grazing suit and wear a plain whit t-shirt and tennis shoes with it.

I'd thought that Hobbes or Whistles or any number of other places would have a neat little fitted trouser suit, or Chanel-style jacket, which she'd look fab in, but they only seem to do them in black, grey and navy for workwear. The current fashion is for long, wide-cut jackets. She's tried a couple in the high street stores and even their petite sizes drown her.

Any thoughts? Max budget is £200.

OP posts:
SarahAndQuack · 07/08/2022 23:37

BeachTree · 07/08/2022 18:01

@Pluvia I read the thread. I did not add to 'general homophobia'
I asked a genuine question, because I did not understand. Thanks for your most helpful response though.

Well, clearly, not only did you not read the thread, you couldn't even be bothered to read this reply properly. I'm not Pluvia, and the 'genuine question' has already been answered in the thread.

BeachTree · 08/08/2022 08:02

Anytimeiseeit · 07/08/2022 21:56

If you’d read the thread properly then you’d understand why it is relevant. The op has explained it well.

Incorrect.

Anytimeiseeit · 08/08/2022 08:38

BeachTree · 08/08/2022 08:02

Incorrect.

It’s really not but this is all so stupid. Several days and pages into this thread we’ve STILL got people saying “comedy” things like “clothes” “dungarees” “why is her sexuality relevant op?” It’s a bit pathetic really. Op has explained more than once why she asked the question and it was perfectly valid.
im glad some people have actually tried to help and provided outfit ideas.

Nothappyatwork · 08/08/2022 08:57

megapint · 02/08/2022 21:17

I asked my colleague & her wife. They suggested assless chaps & a black leather cap

I’m actually seriously tempted to turn up in that to my ex is fourth wedding

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