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Mother of the groom- can I wear this???

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Kenworthington · 10/02/2022 20:15

Before you all say don’t be ridiculous, you’ll look like the bride- there is no bride- it’s a gay wedding. I love this. lOVE it. Could get the floral one but of COURSE I want the cream one. Can I???????

www.needleandthread.com/products/genevieve-ruffle-gown-champagne

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Kenworthington · 11/02/2022 18:08

Hahahaha COlleen Rooney. I couldn’t be less wag if I tried

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NoneOfYour32Potatoes · 11/02/2022 18:08

OP, only another 500 or so comments to go, then it will end.

Kenworthington · 11/02/2022 18:08

Ive shown other mother of groom. She loves it too

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Mimilamore · 11/02/2022 18:09

Bloody wear it, the boys will love it!!!

Mumof3confused · 11/02/2022 18:09

Get the red one

LovedayCL · 11/02/2022 18:10

@pictish

“There isn’t a bride!” There is now.

I personally don’t care about wedding outfit etiquette so if you like it and you think your son won’t mind, go for it. Nothing wrong with a bit of flamboyance.
I think it looks far better in the black than any other colourway though.

This. It is stunning though, and I can see why you’d like an occasion to wear it. Maybe a skirt in this style with a simple top and incredible shoes.
Kittysummer · 11/02/2022 18:11

We don’t know how old you are? If your son and partner are happy for you to wear it then go for it but be prepared to others peoples opinions like the ones you have had on here.

uncomfortablydumb53 · 11/02/2022 18:12

I'm sure the grooms would wish the attention was on them, not you.
It's a no from me

RemusLupinsBiggestGroupie · 11/02/2022 18:12

Surely you knew when you started the thread that people would have opinions, otherwise why bother starting the thread?

Some people like it. Some think it's a huge mistake. So what? You'll clearly do you anyway. Hide the thread if you don't want to read it anymore.

Ineke · 11/02/2022 18:13

It’s a beautiful dress but somehow, not quite Mother of the Groom material unless they are going for wear anything, free style. It’s not really wedding guest, more Oscars, and also, dare I say it, a younger persons dress. My son asked me to wear a Channel style trouser Suit! I would have like to but am not tall enough. Bought a lovely dress and Bolero Jacket form Hobbs. Have fun at the wedding. Remember it is their day, not the proud mum’s.

Kenworthington · 11/02/2022 18:13

If you rtft @Kittysummer you would know!

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Kenworthington · 11/02/2022 18:13

I’m 106. Will it be ok then?

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MayBMaybenot · 11/02/2022 18:13

Gay wedding or not, just a big fat nope from me. Way over the top.

LovedayCL · 11/02/2022 18:15

Not this cardigan but you get the idea.

Mother of the groom- can I wear this???
Blossomtoes · 11/02/2022 18:15

How the hell can I get this deleted. It’s driving me BATSHIT

You’re loving it.

Clawdy · 11/02/2022 18:15

@harriethoyle

Oh God - it looks like a toilet roll dolly from the top of the loo!
Exactly!
LovedayCL · 11/02/2022 18:16

I dint care what age you are though - and if I did - I’d say the older the more flamboyant we should be, personally!

BestIsWest · 11/02/2022 18:16

@Kenworthington

When I read a really long thread- I highlight al the ops posts and read just them. Does NOOnE else do this?!

Fml

Anyway I am KNOWN for mad dress sense. It will NOT be a surprise.. it would be WEIRD if I wore a traditional mother of the groom outfit. I am even considering what boots I can get away with it.
Anyway that’s it.

I HAVE BOUGHT THE FUCKING DRESS

I do this too. In fact I just did it and enjoyed it so much I had to comment. Love the dress.
LovedayCL · 11/02/2022 18:17

@Kenworthington

I am the mother of the groom. I know almost everyone who will be at the wedding. No one will think anything weird about it. They may think it’s hideous but no one will think it’s weird in the way anyone is thinking here. I am PAYING for the wedding. I have ordered it. I am WEARING it. Seriously. How the hell can I get this deleted. It’s driving me BATSHIT
Whoops, missed this. Have fun, you’ll look great. Just don’t come back to the thread. All is good!
Faevern · 11/02/2022 18:17

I’ve read the thread.
I can’t get toilet roll dolly out of my head.
I love the dress.

Kenworthington · 11/02/2022 18:17

@Blossomtoes I wouldn’t mind if people would just READ it . It’s frustrating. So no. I’m not actually.

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Lillabet · 11/02/2022 18:17

I love it - it's not my style but you love it, your son loves it and the other MoG also loves it, can't go wrong Grin
I'm so pleased you've bought it and Wine and/or Gin for you to cope with those who have RTFT!

Alwaystheplusone · 11/02/2022 18:18

The first one is a no, but the second one would be great :)

LovedayCL · 11/02/2022 18:18

I usually do read all the comments, but not on a fashion thread 🤷‍♀️

Madjakelmum · 11/02/2022 18:18

Omg! Are you bloody mental! This is full on a bridal dress imo.

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