@Ninkanink - I have more darker bags, but most of my bags are big. My eye is drawn to big totes, which will make my shoulder problems worse...
I need to carry a purse, phone, kindle/A5 sized notebook, one pen, a lip balm and my keys - and my work pass on a work day. I need to get it in my head I don't have babies who require me to carry a suitcase sized bag around anymore, and I dont need to carry a shit tonne of stuff with me "just in case".
Therefore I require small bags of all seasons and to accept the very little amount I need.
(This isn't helping with the decision making process)