Thanks cherries! Just marking my place... Fell asleep on the sofa last night (whoops) or I'd have started a new one!
So sorry to hear that justi. 
. Its all crap, isn't it...but your DD sounds lovely - what a nice thing to do! Yy to making sure all our loved ones know they are loved and cherished. The only time DS writes anything to me it's to ask for something... usually a chippy (or a "chipy" - really need to work on his double consonants).
Hope the medication is working miffy and you managed some sleep from your horrible ear. And gin - fingers crossed the hormones let you get a sensible amount of sleep too!
I'm off to get my ears hosed out. Yay to being able to hear across the entire auditory spectrum...