I do that almost on a daily basis ujjayi yesterday I wore a cream vanessa bruno shirt dress that goes well with knee high boots and ankle ones, took me forever to make my mind up,and when I put my coat on I decided that it looks wrong, and need to change boots again!
We have no valentines day plans whatsoever But we did go out for run this morning, and had a quick breakfast afterwards , was freezing,but sunny, so refreshing to sit out by the lake with coffee after a run, so calm at that time , skipped the cafe's dubious looking muffin and had Greek yogurt and banana instead, feeling virtuous ,
marsha i can't ask dh to decide,as he has really classic taste, plus he hated my chloe loafers and made silly juvenile remarks about them which made me feel awful , so I know better than to ask him about shoes stuff, 
amber I don't see any need for Botox too, you look great.