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DLA WAIT TIMES THREAD 48

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OneGreenBird · 30/06/2024 14:40

Time for a new thread ready for another week of waiting.
Hopefully lots of us get the results we're so desperately awaiting 🤞🏻❤

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PollyH3 · 03/07/2024 16:11

Shazzle88 · 03/07/2024 15:59

Im still on bloody hold x

Did you get through?
We've been awarded middle rate care. I think she qualifies for hrc, but as we haven't got an official diagnosis I'm pleased with the outcome xx

MotherAndDSon · 03/07/2024 16:28

ArtfulJoker · 03/07/2024 15:33

@Mamof2devils @MotherAndDSon no update I didn’t call I chickened out, my little one poorly today so been occupied all day not sure if Covid very sniffly temp and coughing it’s keeping my mind busy right now but I’m deffo going to call on Friday if I haven’t anything! I will keep use updated if I hear anything I will post on here 💕💕

Oh no, hope you're child gets well soon 🙏🏻

Twinmummyplus2 · 03/07/2024 16:42

award text just received 🥳 12/3 scan date for this claim!
will ring in the morning to find out the rate

both my claims are finally done and I’m hoping tomorrow I get told it’s the right claim and I don’t have to fight it 🥰

congratulations for all the awards today and fingers crossed for everything tomorrow hopefully lots of awards x

Emma2345 · 03/07/2024 16:43

Finally had acceptance letter for Autism assessment for my 5 year old , does anyone think this is enough information for dla , evidence sent to them is 2 speech and language reports letter from school, school filled in the someone who knows the child part of the dla form , I’ve sent her iep (individual education plan) both mine and schools referal forms to the social communication pathway and the acceptance letter received today for autism assessment which I will send tomorrow tracked, and letter from GP stating high dosage of drowsy piriton for sleep issues (this doesn’t work tho ) have to wait to see Camhs to prescribe something stronger such as melatonin I’m starting to get so nervous and anxious now feel like I haven’t filled things in in great detail or I haven’t sent enough 😩x?

Emma2345 · 03/07/2024 16:44

Twinmummyplus2 · 03/07/2024 16:42

award text just received 🥳 12/3 scan date for this claim!
will ring in the morning to find out the rate

both my claims are finally done and I’m hoping tomorrow I get told it’s the right claim and I don’t have to fight it 🥰

congratulations for all the awards today and fingers crossed for everything tomorrow hopefully lots of awards x

congratulations on your award 🎉 🤞 it’s the rate your Lo deserves ❤️❤️ can I ask what evidence you sent in please x

Shazzle88 · 03/07/2024 16:50

PollyH3 · 03/07/2024 16:11

Did you get through?
We've been awarded middle rate care. I think she qualifies for hrc, but as we haven't got an official diagnosis I'm pleased with the outcome xx

Yes hun she got high rate care xx

PollyH3 · 03/07/2024 16:52

Shazzle88 · 03/07/2024 16:50

Yes hun she got high rate care xx

Amazing. So pleased for you ❤️

Emma2345 · 03/07/2024 16:53

Shazzle88 · 03/07/2024 16:50

Yes hun she got high rate care xx

Aw brilliant news I’m so glad your LO got what she deserves ❤️❤️

ArtfulJoker · 03/07/2024 16:54

Wow lots of awards today congratulations everybody 🥳 ❤️

Herecomestheson0106 · 03/07/2024 16:58

MumOf6Beauts · 03/07/2024 14:36

@Herecomestheson0106 my scan date is 20/03, so 15 weeks today! But she said on the phone quite rudely that they are trying to catch up on the back log but everyone is calling to be told to wait 15 weeks, so I told her it's been 15 weeks I was told 8 weeks from the get go then 11 now 15, I have a right to call and know! So I'll call next Friday if Iv heard nothing, as they won't text with an MR either, we were completely declined too! I'm hoping with extra evidence she'll get what's she deserves, fingers crossed for us both xx

ah thank you my nerves are gone! I wasnt aware we didn't get a text that's really disappointing as I didn't want to have to call. I called last time and they said he had been declined and I know I'll be a nervous wreck waiting for an answer! I have been told 8 weeks, 4 weeks, 11 weeks and 15 weeks it's ridiculous especially when it's MR and you've already been through it! I hope you get the outcome you deserve!

PollyH3 · 03/07/2024 17:14

So once you get the back pay, are the payments then every 4 weeks from the award date?

Now onto the wait for my son, I've worked out it will be sometime in November for a decision for him so going to forget about it for now and enjoy not having to constantly listen to that awful hold music every day lol x

MumOf6Beauts · 03/07/2024 17:34

@Herecomestheson0106 thank you I hope you do too! Yes I know it's so long! 34 weeks so far, let's hope it's soon for both 🥰 x

Mamof2devils · 03/07/2024 17:47

ArtfulJoker · 03/07/2024 15:33

@Mamof2devils @MotherAndDSon no update I didn’t call I chickened out, my little one poorly today so been occupied all day not sure if Covid very sniffly temp and coughing it’s keeping my mind busy right now but I’m deffo going to call on Friday if I haven’t anything! I will keep use updated if I hear anything I will post on here 💕💕

Oh hope little ones better soon x

Kell85 · 03/07/2024 17:56

TheSnappyTurtle · 03/07/2024 16:10

@Kell85 Put in a complaint. I did for my youngest daughter on a monday and it was sorted with money in my bank by the friday.

https://makeacomplaint.dwp.gov.uk

Can’t guarantee it’ll work but if you’ve put messages, they’re missing deadlines and it’s been weeks of waiting go for it. I’ve been getting more responses this time so I’m holding off until Monday for complaint.

Thank you I have now put in a complaint. They have sent me a letter saying they have accepted the change of circumstances but the back dating is still with a decision maker

DLA WAIT TIMES THREAD 48
Twinmummyplus2 · 03/07/2024 18:07

Emma2345 · 03/07/2024 16:44

congratulations on your award 🎉 🤞 it’s the rate your Lo deserves ❤️❤️ can I ask what evidence you sent in please x

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Thank you ☺️ I’m hoping so. His twin brother got HRC and I believe he’ll have the same as some of his needs are more than his brothers.

I just sent all the paperwork from CDC, School and everyone involved.
schools senco wrote in our forms too and explained the boys school needs and that they’re awaiting a EHCP in sept when they go to full time if they can. She explained they expect a reduced timetable as they do school nursery 3 hours and struggle x

TheSnappyTurtle · 03/07/2024 18:20

@Kell85 ive put my complaint in aswell. I thought id told them on the 29th but i looked back and it was 22nd May. So once id realised it was 6 weeks i thought no chance. It should only take a month to sort. I complained at 4 weeks last time, someone advised from a different thread for child disabled element and it worked! Let me know how you get on! Hopefully your letter with payment amount soon! ❤️

MVhx · 03/07/2024 18:37

Emma2345 · 03/07/2024 16:43

Finally had acceptance letter for Autism assessment for my 5 year old , does anyone think this is enough information for dla , evidence sent to them is 2 speech and language reports letter from school, school filled in the someone who knows the child part of the dla form , I’ve sent her iep (individual education plan) both mine and schools referal forms to the social communication pathway and the acceptance letter received today for autism assessment which I will send tomorrow tracked, and letter from GP stating high dosage of drowsy piriton for sleep issues (this doesn’t work tho ) have to wait to see Camhs to prescribe something stronger such as melatonin I’m starting to get so nervous and anxious now feel like I haven’t filled things in in great detail or I haven’t sent enough 😩x?

Hey I sent this for my 3 year old son- he got awarded MRC today and I’m sending more evidence as he meets HRC criteria. I’ve written 9 pages of detailed behaviours etc daily routine! 🤞🏼

Emma2345 · 03/07/2024 18:51

MVhx · 03/07/2024 18:37

Hey I sent this for my 3 year old son- he got awarded MRC today and I’m sending more evidence as he meets HRC criteria. I’ve written 9 pages of detailed behaviours etc daily routine! 🤞🏼

Thankyou so much hun for your reply ,,, yeah I am worried about rates too I believe she should qualify for HRC LRM as she has no sense of danger or directions needs supervision prompting and assistance throughout the day and both the night as she doesn’t sleep if she does it’s an hour or 2 max on and off every night,, she is extremely impulsive and violent and deliberately burns herself where she has required hospital treatment and also excessively climbs And will try to climb on and out of the upstairs windows she has split her head open once through this luckily this was the down stairs window and not the top window this time ,, she will run off try to elope the house excetra it’s honestly such hard work and so draining xx

VLR · 03/07/2024 18:54

our scan date is 14/3. I rang yesterday and just got told to wait 20 weeks so not to call before 4th of august !

MotherAndDSon · 03/07/2024 18:57

Congratulations on the awards everyone 👏🏻 wow so many today 🎉🎊

MVhx · 03/07/2024 19:06

Emma2345 · 03/07/2024 18:51

Thankyou so much hun for your reply ,,, yeah I am worried about rates too I believe she should qualify for HRC LRM as she has no sense of danger or directions needs supervision prompting and assistance throughout the day and both the night as she doesn’t sleep if she does it’s an hour or 2 max on and off every night,, she is extremely impulsive and violent and deliberately burns herself where she has required hospital treatment and also excessively climbs And will try to climb on and out of the upstairs windows she has split her head open once through this luckily this was the down stairs window and not the top window this time ,, she will run off try to elope the house excetra it’s honestly such hard work and so draining xx

Yea sounds so similar to my son hun. I spoke to his nursery she said you need to go into every little detail- as it normal daily life for us and we do it without thinking, it’s easy to forget writing down everything and all the care they need that’s isn’t typical behaviour for someone their age non ASD. I’ll let you know if I hear back (sending special delivery tomorrow morning!) good luck xx

MVhx · 03/07/2024 19:10

@Emma2345 (Sorry if that sounded blunt) long day! 🤦🏻‍♀️ really hope your daughter gets the outcome she needs- that sounds so tough! You must constantly be worried. My son is ok with danger it’s more hitting himself and frustrated as he’s non verbal. So hard for them and us. Def get that extra evidence in it can’t hurt ! Xx

Asdmamalou · 03/07/2024 19:15

Shazzle88 · 03/07/2024 02:30

Congratulations 🎉 What evidence did you send hun xx

Thank you! I sent autism diagnosis breakdown from psicon (sorry can never spell it!), his school senco filled in the ‘someone who knows your child’ part of the form, CSP’s from school as he doesn’t have an EHCP, sleep diary and prescription details of sleep/anxiety meds and also copies of a few emails about him running off school property during meltdowns and details of lessons he’s excused from (PE and food tech). I literally threw every single piece of info I could scrape up as I was worried we didn’t have an EHCP. I didn’t even realise he had proper CSP’s in place until I asked the school for help with defining his needs for the form! I thought the adjustments we planned together were just informal decisions so it’s definitely worth double checking! Good luck lovely, hope this helps x

Garfield456 · 03/07/2024 19:52

congrats on the awards 😊

Lindsey89 · 03/07/2024 21:00

MVhx · 03/07/2024 14:15

Thank you hun! Hope you hear really soon ❤️ No, she said if I get extra evidence over within 2 weeks it’ll go straight back to the DM for it to be reconsidered. His nursery haven’t provided much tbh and haven’t been that helpful so I’ve asked them to do a detailed report and I will also add written extra evidence. Good luck!

I wonder if that's why the dm. Told. Me. Get my reports from next week's apps over ASAP as he had made his decision awaiting for his manager pass off then he said send in further reports... Still. Not had decision BTW spoke. To him yday