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Dear black people of mumsnet

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PatricksRum · 10/09/2020 17:24

Ideas for a black section on mumsnet.

Should we have separate sections i.e black hair and beauty, black parenting, black cooking or a general black section?

Link to previous

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/_chat/4018383-black-section-on-mn

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EDSGFC · 13/09/2020 19:01

AMemeByAnyOtherName

Actually it wasn't just white people who said they didn't think this was a good idea.

elppaenip · 13/09/2020 19:04

Sorry so you think all black people have the same opinion?

No, of course not. Smile I merely mentioned that another person on this thread had voiced a different opinion from yours. I wouldn't expect either their opinion or yours to be held by all black people.

I don't make assumptions about anybody based on the colour of their skin.

AMemeByAnyOtherName · 13/09/2020 19:05

@RedRumTheHorse sorry, it works on my app so I've copied it from the web: https://www.mumsnet.com/Talk/amiibeingunreasonable/3342628-afro-black-hair-help

AMemeByAnyOtherName · 13/09/2020 19:06

@EDSGFC

AMemeByAnyOtherName

Actually it wasn't just white people who said they didn't think this was a good idea.

And I didn't say it was. So I don't see what your point is.

EchoCardioGran · 13/09/2020 19:09

Mentoring is really important DeegeeDee.
Any suggestions about what aspects of it you would like discussing, or why you feel it is important?

EchoCardioGran · 13/09/2020 19:17

Name the section poll here.
strawpoll.com/fr4juk62w

Crankley · 13/09/2020 19:23

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AMemeByAnyOtherName · 13/09/2020 19:27

Name the section poll here.
strawpoll.com/fr4juk62w

EchoCardioGran · 13/09/2020 19:33

Curses discovered!

Justine is paid in Jelly babies. They are left in a dead letter drop near the British Library. Third bench on the left. 5.30am on Mondays. Hide behind the London Plane tree with a Daily Mail reporter. Guaranteed a scoop.

EchoCardioGran · 13/09/2020 19:34

Name the section poll here.
strawpoll.com/fr4juk62w

AMemeByAnyOtherName · 13/09/2020 19:37

@EchoCardioGran

Curses discovered!

Justine is paid in Jelly babies. They are left in a dead letter drop near the British Library. Third bench on the left. 5.30am on Mondays. Hide behind the London Plane tree with a Daily Mail reporter. Guaranteed a scoop.

😦

Traitor!

AMemeByAnyOtherName · 13/09/2020 19:42

Name the section poll here.
strawpoll.com/fr4juk62w

Crankley · 13/09/2020 19:43

@EchoCardioGran

Curses discovered!

Justine is paid in Jelly babies. They are left in a dead letter drop near the British Library. Third bench on the left. 5.30am on Mondays. Hide behind the London Plane tree with a Daily Mail reporter. Guaranteed a scoop.

I knew it Grin
EchoCardioGran · 13/09/2020 19:44

Traitor
Sigh. Sorry comrades, I needed the money to pay of Marco Pierre White.
He was threatening to post another another " Jamaican" recipe on youtube.

On the brighter side. We haven't had the word traitor so far. Anyone got it on their bingo card?

EchoCardioGran · 13/09/2020 19:48

Name the section poll here.
strawpoll.com/fr4juk62w

What if there is a tie?
Totally on the edge of my seat here....need my inhaler....Shock

AMemeByAnyOtherName · 13/09/2020 19:50

Name the section poll here.
https://strawpoll.com/fr4juk62w

As it was me that used the word, it wouldn't be fair to dab it off @EchoCardioGran Grin. I have all the others though!

Mixedandproud · 13/09/2020 19:58

I think it’s a great idea having a Black MN. I personally would start with one section with that heading as several other people have suggested and see what topics are most popular before creating more headings. After all the subject heading gives you the detail you need anyway.

@PatricksRum - You stated in a reply earlier:
“The reason you find it rude is because you're deeply uncomfortable with accepting your privilege and accepting how white people have treated us”.

I think it is unfair to make the statement “how white people have treated us”, not all white people are racist. Some of your comments sound like you are very rigid in your thinking and come across in a very unpleasant way. Many of the statements you have made sound like you harbour some discriminatory views about white people.

I applaud you for making all this effort to encourage MN to have a black section but I’m not sure I entirely agree with the way you are doing it. That’s just my opinion obviously. BTW I am mixed race Black Caribbean / White if that makes any difference to anything.

EchoCardioGran · 13/09/2020 20:00

I think the section should be called Fred.
I had a pet tortoise called Fred.RIP. The only pet I was ever allowed.Sad
He was a Rastafarian I believe.
Lovely nature. He took a long time fetching sticks, though.

Good on you AMeme that's very honourable of you.

Name the section poll here. Vote early vote Fred Wink
strawpoll.com/fr4juk62w

DeegeeDee · 13/09/2020 20:15

@EchoCardioGran thought of mentoring as a pp (sorry not to remember who that is), mentioned their studies at an Oxbridge university and I thought education could be widened. Importance as may be useful for students looking at future education and work opportunities, a network for advice as graduates look for careers.

MostPalone · 13/09/2020 20:20

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midgebabe · 13/09/2020 20:21

Power to the people

AMemeByAnyOtherName · 13/09/2020 20:29

Name the section poll here.
strawpoll.com/fr4juk62w

AMemeByAnyOtherName · 13/09/2020 20:34

In the event of a tie, I vote for Black Perspectives. Or Fred Grin (RIP)

MostPalone · 13/09/2020 20:35

👌

PatricksRum · 13/09/2020 20:35

I think it is unfair to make the statement “how white people have treated us”, not all white people are racist.

No shit? Shock
Why didn't someone tell me this earlier?!

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