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Dear black people of mumsnet

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PatricksRum · 10/09/2020 17:24

Ideas for a black section on mumsnet.

Should we have separate sections i.e black hair and beauty, black parenting, black cooking or a general black section?

Link to previous

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/_chat/4018383-black-section-on-mn

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PatricksRum · 13/09/2020 21:03

@AMemeByAnyOtherName

I'm going to start reporting the repetitive faux concern comments as spam.
Remember we've only lost one__ black life. I could have sworn it was more but wrong again.
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OverTheRainbow88 · 13/09/2020 21:03

@MostPalonel

Please just fuck off. Thank you

PatricksRum · 13/09/2020 21:06

PEOPLE get killed everyday by terrorism, getting killed because we’re not Muslim and the ONLY people to make something of it and start a movement was Tommy Robinson with EDL and you know what, I don’t see you as any different.

This is hilarious.
I wasn't aware terrorists picked and chose based on religion who they were going to attack.

Ah, yes, I'm alike to Tommy Robinson GrinGrinGrinGrinGrinGrin

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AMemeByAnyOtherName · 13/09/2020 21:09

@PatricksRum all of these people were one man.

And Maggie shot Mr. Burns.

The Titanic sinks.

Bruce Willis was dead the whole time.

Dear black people of mumsnet
doadeer · 13/09/2020 21:12

I'm honestly in disbelief that the OP who has asked for a forum to discuss black experiences, opinions and advice has been compared to Tommy Robinson leader of an extreme right wing hate group.

The world has truly gone mad.

PatricksRum · 13/09/2020 21:12

[quote AMemeByAnyOtherName]@PatricksRum all of these people were one man.

And Maggie shot Mr. Burns.

The Titanic sinks.

Bruce Willis was dead the whole time. [/quote]
You'd think they'd make it easier by not using different coloured markers!
From afar, it really does look like multiple people.
Of course, we now know it was a single person but that picture really adds to the confusion.

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PatricksRum · 13/09/2020 21:14

@doadeer

I'm honestly in disbelief that the OP who has asked for a forum to discuss black experiences, opinions and advice has been compared to Tommy Robinson leader of an extreme right wing hate group.

The world has truly gone mad.

You don't see the similarities?

He's also part of a minority... Proud racists.
Though he certainly now has another participant to aid.

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nitsandwormsdodger · 13/09/2020 21:21

What us black parenting ? how is it different from white? Do black people get their children to sleep etc differently?

EchoCardioGran · 13/09/2020 21:24

[quote DeegeeDee]@EchoCardioGran thought of mentoring as a pp (sorry not to remember who that is), mentioned their studies at an Oxbridge university and I thought education could be widened. Importance as may be useful for students looking at future education and work opportunities, a network for advice as graduates look for careers.[/quote]
@DeegeeDee
Sorry I'm late back to this. My turn to do the packed lunches for morning.Yes, I remember pp mentioning it way back too.

Education is key, definitely. I'm from a poor working class background (tiny violin playing) and there were three of us back in the day on my course at Uni, two young women and me the "mature" student ( 24! lol !) with a child. From the same part of town. I really struggled and one good friend dropped out, sad to say.

All the first in our families to go to uni and not a clue how to navigate it all. No one to give us a heads up. Everyone seemed to have connections and money behind them except us. That was decades ago, but not much has really changed. Still about who you know in a lot of areas it seems.

It would be great to have this on a topic as I'm very keen on it. At the very least I'd love to see a thread initially on mentoring and black students in this new section. Anywhere else on MN sections too, SEN, disability, all have their dimensions here, don't they?

One size doesn't fit all in Education. Great idea.!

C8H10N4O2 · 13/09/2020 21:24

Remember we've only lost one__ black life

Well, one which can't be glossed over and rubbished easily. The rest don't matter after all.

I like Black Sisters (Black MumsNet feels a bit clunky, Sisters feels more familiar) but name is a detail - it just needs to exist.

AMemeByAnyOtherName · 13/09/2020 21:24

@nitsandwormsdodger

What us black parenting ? how is it different from white? Do black people get their children to sleep etc differently?
Find out all this and more by lurking in the black parenting threads.
C130 · 13/09/2020 21:25

Lord help us.

PatricksRum · 13/09/2020 21:25

@nitsandwormsdodger

What us black parenting ? how is it different from white? Do black people get their children to sleep etc differently?
Yeah. We swing them from trees.
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PatricksRum · 13/09/2020 21:26

@C8H10N4O2

Remember we've only lost one__ black life

Well, one which can't be glossed over and rubbished easily. The rest don't matter after all.

I like Black Sisters (Black MumsNet feels a bit clunky, Sisters feels more familiar) but name is a detail - it just needs to exist.

I'll add that choice in
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Dastardlythefriendlymutt · 13/09/2020 21:27

Wow....just one black person hey. And we are also dickheads. Wow.

Also i thought the biggest growing group of terrorists were white supremacists and Neo-Nazis, as well as school shooters (who tend to be young white males). If I'm not mistaken they have a higher body count in the US than "Muslim" extremists. I will be sure to update my definition of terrorist to just Muslim.

Wow MN. Just wow. I'm not surprised actually but wow hey. Think the only thing missing from your bingo card was - nothing actually.

Wow.

And 4he other poster please dont bother with BLM as obviously small things like your irritation over hearing us Express our needs are more important than what Black people actually want and need. You are doing us and yourself no favours as we never genuinely had your support or you as an ally.

AMemeByAnyOtherName · 13/09/2020 21:29

@doadeer

I'm honestly in disbelief that the OP who has asked for a forum to discuss black experiences, opinions and advice has been compared to Tommy Robinson leader of an extreme right wing hate group.

The world has truly gone mad.

Don't worry doadeer. I would honestly ignore comments like these after 9pm. They're trolls who will be banned by morning.

DeegeeDee · 13/09/2020 21:31

Giving kudos to other posters, seen education mentioned a few times as I had posted without rtft at the time Echo but glad it and the nuances suggested gives us more than just education to consider. Your story also resonated with me, also first to uni without a scooby. So career advice Which I gather is still as rank as it was back in the day may be a good topic. And is pertinent across the social strata.

Good luck with the lunches.

EchoCardioGran · 13/09/2020 21:35

I only went to make some butties and Patrick's allegedly joined the EDL?
Some confusion here with Black Klansman, the Spike Lee movie surely?
Why didn't you tell us you were in it? I'd have brought popcorn.

AMemeByAnyOtherName · 13/09/2020 21:37

Oh my goodness, I'm too scared to post a link but has anybody seen the comedy sketch with the blind black klansman? I couldn't take it, I had to watch it in parts to wipe the tears from my eyes from laughter 😂

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PatricksRum · 13/09/2020 21:41

@Notanapplelover

No, you shouldn't have 'black section'! Why should you? Because, I am sure, we are not going to be allowed to have a 'white section'. Call me 'not wake', but this segregation has to stop! I am sick of it!
I'm sure the phrase is woke not wake.

Are you black?

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AMemeByAnyOtherName · 13/09/2020 21:41

The sketch was by Dave Chappelle. I may or may not be rewatching it now.

Also

Name the section poll here.
strawpoll.com/fr4juk62w

rambleon1 · 13/09/2020 21:41

@Notanapplelover

No, you shouldn't have 'black section'! Why should you? Because, I am sure, we are not going to be allowed to have a 'white section'. Call me 'not wake', but this segregation has to stop! I am sick of it!
Is this a joke?
PatricksRum · 13/09/2020 21:42

@EchoCardioGran

I only went to make some butties and Patrick's allegedly joined the EDL? Some confusion here with Black Klansman, the Spike Lee movie surely? Why didn't you tell us you were in it? I'd have brought popcorn.
To be fair the application process was swift.

They just asked for my best phrases.

I only said:
I'm not racist but

And they immediately accepted

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EchoCardioGran · 13/09/2020 21:42

Lots of spam here, will make more Sandwiches ( posh voice).
Chill all.

Name the section poll here.
strawpoll.com/fr4juk62w