haychee you asked me the following. your comments are in '' and mine come after, for ease I'm broken it up into chunks
'By haychee on Sun 09-Sep-07 22:42:32
Its discovering others views opinions and thoughts on an issue close to all our hearts. I wanted to explore it further because my dh is against them and i am for them. '
How many times do people really need to read 'I think they did it' or 'I disagree'. If your dh already disagreesm, you already get that debate at home. How much real information, as opposed to speculation do you need?
'It doesnt do anybody any good i agree, but is worthy of discussing given light of the recent developments.'
What is worthy of discussion/ Nothing has been proved?
' It is all about a mum accused of harming her own child, on a parents website it seems perfectly reasonable to be discussed here. '
But what possible help can there be to anyone on this board by speculating the means by which the potential 'deed' could have been done? We don't even know what, if anything was 'done'. Who does it help....no-one? If you want to solve crimes play cludo, don't play mind games over a real life situation which has the potential to hurt real life people.
'I do agree the detialing to such a degree was disgusting, but then there alot of news events that are disgusting, but we cant control that. Unfortunately none of us know what has exactly happened, hopefully time will tell us all. But my view is, that nothing is impossible, anything may of happened. It may turn out they are guilty, what do any of us know for sure - nothing!'
But the fact that people can be disgusting is hardly new! Who needs to be reminded that people can be vile? How does that help the family and friends of this poor child, or the police or anyone? And I didn't notice any of the posters on that thread who were 'pro' discussion complaining over the vileness, everone who was pro was having a fine old time. There wew some note worthy exceptions like MalloryTowers and MaEdam, and they were being slapped down my the Ghouls.
'I want to apologise again as i always do, i was involved in the thread yesterday and allowed the hideous descriptions to pass me by. I was furious over the "poopants" incident and the bumping that ensued. I had had a drink (small but very effective as im useless at drinking) and i said somethings that im now ashamed of. It appears MB that you are infact a well grounded person who has alot of respect on here. Therefore, i am a little astounded that you havnt been aboe to hear me correctly all day & night. '
well that is all well and good, but to be quite honest I don't give a shit how long people have been posting, if they act like an arse, they are acting like an arse. This isn;t about newbies and old hands (much as some people would like to paint it that way) You shouldn't have slapped anyone down as you did me, new or old poster
'I think you are doing the right thing, you wanted it known, that you all disapproved at the highest level and were told you could not sabotage threads the way that one was. This thread has done what you wanted it to. You have disassociated yourselves form the mm threads as you do not want to be percieved as having them same hideous views.
I however, strongly believe there is no good that can come from burying your head in the sand. Life is full of grim twists and turns, none of us like it but thats the way it is.'
Well I'm glad you think this was the right thing for me to do, its nice that we agree on something. you didn't seem to thank that in your earlier posts on this thread
But one point should be made clear. none of us are burying our heads in the sand, we are all aware of what is happenening in this case, how could anyone with ears or eyes not know? But there is a world of a difference between knowing what is happeneing and wallowing in shit.
I think that at best your championing of these threads is misguded; your gloating about having 'won' was one of the least palitable things I've seen a poster do, you lacked style IMHO. And if you dine with the devil, take a loooooooooooooong spoon. Those posters were vile and had wallowed in the shit, I'd make sure none of it rubbed off on you, if I were you.