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Deletions - These are ludicrous

1550 replies

Hullygully · 29/05/2012 09:26

Ok, that's enough now MNHQ

Stop it with the mad deleting.

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Hullygully · 29/05/2012 15:08

But Rebecca surely you can see how ridiculous this is becoming?

We are all intelligent adults, sometimes we get into a good old ding dong discussion and argue fast and furiously. Youcan't just stop in the middle of a discussion and report report.

There would be no conversations on MN at all apart from what pushchair to buy.

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LRDtheFeministDragon · 29/05/2012 15:08

shirley - spot on.

ShirleyKnot · 29/05/2012 15:09

Excellent then. SO if someone says something racist, I suspect that we have to couch it all in nice language in order to get around the guidelines not be deleted...

SO "That view you have espoused may be considered to be a racist one" rather than "That POV would make you a racist", or even, GOD FORBID a post with some humour in it.

It's ARSE.

SuePBlovesaDiamondJubilee · 29/05/2012 15:09

It's a goading minefield.

IMO, taking the piss out of someone is not goading, neither is being sarcastic or a little rude Grin

Starting threads like AIBU to think that posters with names like HullyTully are responsible for everything bad in the world is goading.

It just seems that goading could actually describe 90% of posts on MN, but the only ones to be deleted seem to be the prolifics atm.

Pan · 29/05/2012 15:09

just exactly how much rope would you like Rebecca?

"Just tell the truth. It always comes out in the end anyway......."

Thumbwitch · 29/05/2012 15:09

Dear Rebecca - tethers was implying, you were inferring. I know that another lovely PP has already had this discussion with Honeydragon earlier - it's a bugbear of mine too. :)

OracleInACoracleocus · 29/05/2012 15:09

yes, tell us and we will delete and have a word. There is no need to call someone racist on a thread. Ignore and report.

well, in that case I'll go and start a nice fluffy thread about which teabag is best. since thats what MN is now apart from the AIBU-dwellers

Empusa · 29/05/2012 15:10

So could we put together an approved list of responses?

ShirleyKnot · 29/05/2012 15:10

Ignore and report again?

There'll be no boards left soon enough. Everyone will just be ignoring and reporting - Good luck with that HQ. I'm sure that you've enough staff to deal with even more reports.

AbsofAwesomeness · 29/05/2012 15:10

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tethersend · 29/05/2012 15:10

""How is it RACIST to infer that someone's point is like the KKK?"

Because the KKK is racist?????"

Indeed. Which would imply that the other person is racist, rather than the person drawing the comparison.

SuePBlovesaDiamondJubilee · 29/05/2012 15:11

Gah Shirls, slippery slope that. We'll all be btching and skirting round the swers like the H*nners next. F.U.C.K. T.H.A.T.

Hullygully · 29/05/2012 15:11

Pehaps a thread Empusa woudl help. Approved responses to racists, sexists etc.

Go. (I've started all my quota today)

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RebeccaMumsnet · 29/05/2012 15:11

@Thumbwitch

Dear Rebecca - tethers was implying, you were inferring. I know that another lovely PP has already had this discussion with Honeydragon earlier - it's a bugbear of mine too. :)
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OracleInACoracleocus · 29/05/2012 15:11

shirley, yep, I mean, its not like MRA/misogynistic/disabilist/benefit bashing posts are left to stand for weeks is it?

cardamomginger · 29/05/2012 15:11

Hully
Gerrof
Tethers
Empress
Showy
Jacqueline
Rhubs
Bibbity
LtEve
Exit
Berry (unruly fucker)
LemarchandsBox
ripsishere and used to be kreecherlivesupstairs.
Pan
Custy
The man over the road with the dog
The nice neighbour who lurks on MN and drinks wine with me
Spot the hamster
The dead baby bird in our garden
Gilbert
Norris
Engleberk Humpsadick
The Queen aka Her Maj
Nessie the seamonster
The Nac Mac Feegles
Peppa Pig
Barbarawoodlousefeckityfuck
Suenotwobbly
Stratters
Disabilists
Wankers
Tossers
Cunters
Tantrums
WuzzyFuzzysummat
Twunters
His Royal Twatness
MC Flame in Da House Yo Bitch formerly known as the Olympic Flame
ChuckUFarley
OTheHugeManatee
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get0rfm0iland · 29/05/2012 15:12

PLEASE can someone explain the deletion for 'disingenuous'.

I cannot report the post or thread because both were bastarding deleted.

TantrumsAndBalloons · 29/05/2012 15:12

Yes tethers, you must ignore the allegedly racist person(they were racist btw) leave the thread and report.
Then the thread would be full of ignorant, racist twats agreeing with each

Isn't that much better?

And then all the people who think its ok for your partner to have sex with you whilst you are asleep can all be on another thread agreeing with each other.
And so on....

Of course there will be no debate, no conflicting points of view, no actual advice but deletions either.

That reminds me of another parenting website......

LRDtheFeministDragon · 29/05/2012 15:13

Oh ... to add to the madness, I am curious as to why it's ok to claim someone was banned when they've actually namechanged. Surely that is a kind of personal attack?

Chubfuddler · 29/05/2012 15:13

It's not a personal attack to call a racist a racist. Haven't you ever heard that a person cannot be defamed with the truth?

get0rfm0iland · 29/05/2012 15:14

HOW on earth can you square the 'leaving racist/disablist/sexist contentious posts up because MNer's will 'educate' those people with such views' with the fact that you can't fucking well infer anyone is racist/disablist/sexist without being bloody well deleted?

BigFatSpider · 29/05/2012 15:14

Waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaah Hully tutted at me, it's a personal attack, I feel victimised and that I have no recourse but to report.

Not really, I'm just shit at following instructions.

Hully
Gerrof
Tethers
Empress
Showy
Jacqueline
Rhubs
Bibbity
LtEve
Exit
Berry (unruly fucker)
LemarchandsBox
ripsishere and used to be kreecherlivesupstairs.
Pan
Custy
The man over the road with the dog
The nice neighbour who lurks on MN and drinks wine with me
Spot the hamster
The dead baby bird in our garden
Gilbert
Norris
Engleberk Humpsadick
The Queen aka Her Maj
Nessie the seamonster
The Nac Mac Feegles
Peppa Pig
Barbarawoodlousefeckityfuck
Suenotwobbly
Stratters
Disabilists
Wankers
Tossers
Cunters
Tantrums
WuzzyFuzzysummat
Twunters
His Royal Twatness
MC Flame in Da House Yo Bitch formerly known as the Olympic Flame
ChuckUFarley
OTheHugeManatee
AbsofAwesomeness
BigFatSpider

Thumbwitch · 29/05/2012 15:14

WHY is calling someone who holds racist views a racist, however obliquely, a personal attack? They probably are a racist, they probably accept that - how then is it insulting to call them one?Confused And if they don't know that they're being racist, then it's a good wake up call for them if they don't want to be seen as one, therefore it's "educational" and should be left to stand.

Hully
Gerrof
Tethers
Empress
Showy
Jacqueline
Rhubs
Bibbity
LtEve
Exit
Berry (unruly fucker)
LemarchandsBox
ripsishere and used to be kreecherlivesupstairs.
Pan
Custy
The man over the road with the dog
The nice neighbour who lurks on MN and drinks wine with me
Spot the hamster
The dead baby bird in our garden
Gilbert
Norris
Engleberk Humpsadick
The Queen aka Her Maj
Nessie the seamonster
The Nac Mac Feegles
Peppa Pig
Barbarawoodlousefeckityfuck
Suenotwobbly
Stratters
Disabilists
Wankers
Tossers
Cunters
Tantrums
WuzzyFuzzysummat
Twunters
His Royal Twatness
MC Flame in Da House Yo Bitch formerly known as the Olympic Flame
ChuckUFarley
OTheHugeManatee
AbsofAwesomeness
Thumbwitch

BerryLellow · 29/05/2012 15:15

It seems that MN is trying to be something different now, and the talk forum is only a tiny bit of it. All of us here calling people cunty chops and having the temerity to not believe everything every poster says is probably harming the brand.

tethersend · 29/05/2012 15:15

Is calling someone racist a personal attack?

Where does that end?

Is calling someone a Tory a personal attack?

Or a socialist?

Or a Liberal Democrat?

Actually, scrap that last one.

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