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The bi women thread that doesn’t get deleted…

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OneOfEachPlease · 07/04/2026 12:13

There have been several bi women threads on here over time. But they have always got deleted. I thought I would try and start one that doesn’t. Aspiration in the title!

I have done this under my usual username so it’s clear as it can be that I am what I say I am.

This is a thread for any bi woman or any women loving women in any circumstance. So you’ve know all your life and had multiple female (and male?) partners to you’ve only just realised. All are welcome. Maybe you want to act on it, maybe you don’t. Just a general chat and support thread!

My circumstances are that I have probably always known I was bi but put it away in a little ‘that doesn’t matter’ box in my brain. Reader, it did matter. Having got divorced (not related to my sexuality) I have wanted to act on it but I get worried about being inexperienced, body confidence and life getting in the way! I have had sex with women but only twice (2 women, 1 time each). I imagine, for understandable reasons (ex husband, boyfriends, lack of blue hair 😉 …), me being bi wouldn’t cross people’s minds so I am unlikely to just bump into either bi friends or more.

OP posts:
maxiemouslady · 08/09/2026 21:46

GloriaNow · 08/09/2026 21:39

Surely that was an invitation. So you have invited her for coffee and a chat.
I like your phrase, "happens to be a lesbian"

Edited

Sadly (for me!) she’s married so I don’t think so. Her wife is lovely too, she came to a summer event the business had last year.

LadyVienetta · 08/09/2026 21:51

"surely that was an invitation" - based on how she dressed is nonsense we berate men for. I think an invitation is an invitation.

NJ515 · Yesterday 20:06

Is there anyone here, particularly women in perimenopausal/menopausal stage who've now accepted in later life that they're bi-curious/bi-sexual and are married/long term partnered to a man, whether they've shared this with them or not and their reasons why?

Happy to be dm'ed. Thank you for reading.

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