Being open about penis size with male partners

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Just wondering how many people are open about penis size preferences with their male partners?

DW is now very open about what she likes, however it’s taken her years to get over the “lie to protect his fragile male ego” upbringing.

We now have a much better sex life as a result.

so, for women that have a preference, just wondering how open you are about this? or for blokes, do you feel you’d want to know?

I won't tell her she's lucky 😆We met late teens so her basis for comparison is rather small

Exactly. If you were married to NC and reading his comments about compliments not being 100% truthful you'd now be wondering if everything nice he ever said to you was actually just a lie.

@Gymbunny2025 hey.✊🏿 I’m sure you can relax enough and find a way to enjoy us girthy types….if the man knws how to relax his gyal , she will find a way or position to enjoy! Btw..it’s designed to push out a babies head so I’m sure it will accommodate! Good luck✊🏿

Well perhaps it can accommodate to push out a baby’s head but it’s not exactly pleasant 😂.

Sometimes “big” can truly be “too big”.

I know right 😂😂 I have never once wanted to relive childbirth!! Especially when I don’t get a baby at the end 😂

plus I know from experience 8 inches makes certain positions uncomfortable. I much prefer 6-7.

Yes! Absolutely 😂.

The inside is only so long/wide as well, it doesn’t expand limitlessly no matter how turned on or relaxed you are, and it can really hurt. I much prefer average size too; and I think some men thinking women want BIG is all in their porn addled minds.

Having said that, I’m sure there’s plenty of women out there who like a footlong, so I definitely don’t speak for everyone.

I think some men thinking women want BIG is all in their porn addled minds.

hmmm not sure if I totally agree with this, you only need to read back the first couple of pages on this thread ( before it got derailed ) to see that bigger is often seen as better.

I would also argue that a lot of mainstream porn isn’t with guys with massive dicks, nor is it with women with huge fake breasts anymore.

That’s ok, I don’t mind if you disagree 😊, just my own thoughts, and as I said, I in no way spoke for all women, just my own personal view.

I physically cannot take bigger because I am not “made that way” so to speak (I’m tighter than average). We’re all made differently and plenty of women can accommodate more than I can.

@AlexandrinaH has become a lore more attractive to a lot of men after that description

Exactly. You can't beat a tight port to dock in

@AlexandrinaH hi, not disputing what you saying, as long as it’s mutually beneficial no matter the size, it’s the immense pleasure that is far more important! I have been with a women who were just curious to see and feel big..but there was no passion or pleasure from her..so I agree what u say, plus I like your honesty and yes I’m sure childbirth is painful

@littlepinkbow its how it’s used too, mutual exploration and pleasure is far more important even though we may have little extra ! from your experience you enjoy girthy but there are many who enjoy pleasure from average..✊🏿

Thank goodness for that!

@Gymbunny2025 exploring different positions for comfort and pleasure is fun! I totalky respect your honest opinion✊🏿

I’m sure it is painful but thankfully I had a C Section so never had to find out 😂

It might have made it easier for me to accept bigger if I’d had a natural childbirth, as I’ve always been “small” so to speak (even had medical professionals make comments on it, some inappropriate like “ohh, you have a lucky boyfriend 😱). I’m happy with how I am, and luckily my husband is the perfect fit for me and I can orgasm from penetration in a few minutes.

I had 2 NVD and am still very tight down there @AlexandrinaH so I’m not sure that makes much of a difference! I’m told that having strong muscles generally helps though

@AlexandrinaH , hey I like your sense of humour…🤣👍🏿. Btw tht heath professional was out of order with his comment, totalky unprofessional. Keep enjoying the ‘seismic explosions’, there are many out there who nvr do as you know.
@Gymbunny2025 regular exercises in all its forms including pelvic tightening and thrusts are fun 😉 and keeps you fit ✊🏿

Thanks 😊, I intend to!

To women here, not men that think they know. With my stats of 6 inches and 4.5 inches girth, do I stand a chance or should I just continue to stay clear of the dating market? What would women prefer? I am not interested in being some womans third best etc. If I can't give my partner equal sexual pleasure in bed at least, to previous partners, then I have no interest in dating. If I am attracted to a woman and feel in love with her, the shape of her vagina will have absolutely nothing to do with the pleasure I feel in bed.

I would stay away from dating. Not because of your size but because of your view of women and all the previous things you've said about them here.

Interesting that you won’t answer my points then. My view? Based on women here saying larger cocks feel much better? Based on tinder experience, surveys? Psychological research? But women that think all men are animals, rapists, abusers, that is a nice view to have about men?

Your other point being... what would women prefer? I guess that could only be answered by the woman you were dating.

To women here, not men that think they know. With my stats of 6 inches and 4.5 inches girth, do I stand a chance or should I just continue to stay clear of the dating market?

10/10 for a valiant attempt to get women online to talk about your tackle. Respect. ✔️

A shame you won't answer the rest. But fine, women I have been dating? Most of them lie, just like women here say they do. "Oh you are just fine" Except for the ones that cheated on me. So I am not asking them no. I would like to know from women here that have nothing to lose by being honest. Do I stand a chance or not, or more importantly, would women like to have men with my size in the dating market at all or should men my size or smaller just exit it alltogether.

"A shame you won't answer the rest." You asked 2 questions - "With my stats of 6 inches and 4.5 inches girth, do I stand a chance or should I just continue to stay clear of the dating market? What would women prefer?" - both of which I've answered.

The thing is, I could say I'd be more than happy with that. The next 3 women could say they would prefer bigger. So where does that leave you?