Being open about penis size with male partners

[BobOn]

Just wondering how many people are open about penis size preferences with their male partners?

DW is now very open about what she likes, however it’s taken her years to get over the “lie to protect his fragile male ego” upbringing.

We now have a much better sex life as a result.

so, for women that have a preference, just wondering how open you are about this? or for blokes, do you feel you’d want to know?

I wonder if it’s the same person who writes all the posts that all men hate small boobs 😂

i love boobs of all shapes and sizes....

The male ego is a fragile thing.

If he has a big knob tell him you love big boys and that they feel so much better.

If he doesn't have a big one tell him size doesn't matter and it's just a porno trope that doesn't fit for real sex.

And women are perfect angels according to the feminist gynocentric propaganda. That’s why women cheat more than men today, and initiate 75 % of all divorces after already finding a better man. Or the picture I wasn’t allowed to post here since it’s negative against women. A tinder experiment, picture of a model guy. Bio said he was a rape convict, child abuser, and that women were wortless sluts. He was bombarded with matches women inviting him to come straight over to their place to sleep with them. Women of all ages and backgrounds. Wonderful dating market. And men are evil 😁

the female ego isn’t fragile? You can demand what you want from men. If I demand that a woman is not overweight and young, then I’m a evil misogynist.

If he doesn't have a big one tell him size doesn't matter and it's just a porno trope that doesn't fit for real sex.

Pro tip from a man: If it's not big, still tell him it's massive.

I think you’d look quite mad if you did that 😂

if a guy was telling me my boobs were massive when I know perfectly well myself they’re not I think I’d have to dump him for lying! Or just being an odd human being

I stand by what I wrote! 😁

Yeah, I'd rather it just wasn't mentioned. I'd rather have silence than bullshit.

Or just being honest but still lovely about what we are rocking?! Agree @AtYourPleasure

i think this thread demonstrates really well that a partner who is terribly insecure about how they look (presumably needing constant reassurance and maybe to be lied to) isn’t a suitable partner. They need to first do the work on themselves to have any hope of forming a relationship.

I wouldn't openly patronise a guy by saying he was hung like a buffalo while he was poking around with a 3 incher, I'd rather just pass it off as no big deal.

As far as bedroom chat goes "you've got a pretty average cock but it's no big deal" wouldn't work for me, maybe I'm unusual.

Fortunately I am hung like a Buffalo, so not an issue for me. 😁

Let's just say you weren't hung like a buffalo 😉.... and you're well aware of that fact, how does a woman lying to you about it make it better?

Surely it's better to just enjoy the moment?

I'm insecure about my boobs. I know there are better out there. I know that, the guys know that. I don't need reassurance that they're fab. I'd rather they just weren't mentioned.

OK, let's hypothetically imagine that, despite how ludicrous the idea is....

In the bedroom it's still much more exciting to hear positive things. That pretty much the definition of a compliment. I doubt anyome would consider being literally truthful with every compliment. Nobody wants to hear "You look average." or "You look slightly below average.".

i do understand what you’re saying.

my boobs are probably my least impressive feature. My partner is a boob man (he would deny but he really is!). He’s still incredibly enthusiastic about my boobs. He’s never called them big (because they’re not!). But he’s still lovely about them. I think part of being in love is loving each other even the none perfect bits?

A 3 incher !!??? Thankfully I'm bigger than that. Phew! I have a chance yet.

A compliment needs to be truthful. Otherwise it's just a lie.

It's not about being bluntly truthful, believe me I can complement and turn a guy on without patronising him and lying.

I'm not going to say his little stumpy is like a porn stars when he'd clearly know it wasn't.

But telling him how good it feels, how nice it looks, how nice it is to suck, how it's able to hit the right spot in my fanny and how fun it is will turn him on. Trust me I speak from experience.

@NCForThatForumM..

The definition of a compliment is a genuine expression of appreciation or admiration. If you can't genuinely compliment, then say nothing.

Someone telling me "Your tits are amazing! And those beautiful nipples...." means piss all if it isn't genuine.

All tits are amazing regardless of size, shape, so any boob related compliment is always genuine and literally true.

"Your tits are amazing - just like everyone else's" isn't much of a compliment either!

It's better than I ever get. 😭

Well you’ve said you’re in a sexless marriage but won’t leave. So that is part of what you have accepted?

There's nothing to stop random women stopping me with "Hey NCForThatForumM, you're almost certainly packing the tackle I'd expect on a buffalo."

Would that really be too much to ask? 😭

I mean, I hold doors open and give up my seat on trains...

Randomer comments about you are meaningless.

but a partner getting joy from you because you are you is wonderful. Definitely shouldn’t be tainted by outright lying!!