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Being open about penis size with male partners

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BobOn · 28/06/2023 23:26

Just wondering how many people are open about penis size preferences with their male partners?

DW is now very open about what she likes, however it’s taken her years to get over the “lie to protect his fragile male ego” upbringing.

We now have a much better sex life as a result.

so, for women that have a preference, just wondering how open you are about this? or for blokes, do you feel you’d want to know?

OP posts:
littlepinkbow · 09/05/2025 15:46

@AVlow yoir view on sex, and women in general appears really unhealthy, I’m not suggesting your a bad person in any way, and I suspect you have been hurt badly on the past, like most of us here.

However, you have bleated on in this entire thread how you’ve got a tiny dick, almost insinuating you have a micro penis and then you come out with your size, which is actually a little larger than average. I really don’t get it.

MaxTalk · 09/05/2025 15:53

This thread is comedy gold...love the male inputs. :)

AVlow · 09/05/2025 17:57

Well I guess I’ll never get a clear answer. It seems here on this forum and series etc, literature that 80-90 % of women enjoy a bigger one way more than mine. And I’m not good enough. Girth is below average and girth is the most important thing. I’d say as a man today you are good with 7 inches in length and somewhere around 5.7-6 inches in girth. Average is not enough. Back in the days when you got married at 18 it was. Now that women have 60-100 partners before marriag, is not any more. Add erectile dysfunction and stuff to that. If only I could find a way to be at peace alone.

daphney · 09/05/2025 20:02

AVlow · 09/05/2025 13:56

A shame you won't answer the rest. But fine, women I have been dating? Most of them lie, just like women here say they do. "Oh you are just fine" Except for the ones that cheated on me. So I am not asking them no. I would like to know from women here that have nothing to lose by being honest. Do I stand a chance or not, or more importantly, would women like to have men with my size in the dating market at all or should men my size or smaller just exit it alltogether.

I don't think your cock size is an issue babe, but due to your impressively tiny mind, yeah I would leave the dating pool. I don't know if maybe the Tate brothers are starting up their own tinder, id wait and see, and maybe re-enter the dating pool then.

AtYourPleasure · 10/05/2025 09:54

"Well I guess I’ll never get a clear answer." - because there is no clear answer. You wanted to know if women on here would prefer your size... and like I said, one might think it was great, 3 others might prefer bigger.

It's completely irrelevant what women on here prefer - you aren't dating any of them.

bulletproof1979 · 10/05/2025 11:18

AVlow · 09/05/2025 17:57

Well I guess I’ll never get a clear answer. It seems here on this forum and series etc, literature that 80-90 % of women enjoy a bigger one way more than mine. And I’m not good enough. Girth is below average and girth is the most important thing. I’d say as a man today you are good with 7 inches in length and somewhere around 5.7-6 inches in girth. Average is not enough. Back in the days when you got married at 18 it was. Now that women have 60-100 partners before marriag, is not any more. Add erectile dysfunction and stuff to that. If only I could find a way to be at peace alone.

Trust me when I tell you it's your overwhelming self pity, penis obsession and habit of using phases like "gynocentric worldview" that are infinitely bigger hurdles for you to overcome than your dick size.

dogfishman · 10/05/2025 13:26

Am an entirely average sized bloke and agree with bulletproof. AVlow, at least 99% of women you meet will never get the chance to take a view on your todger because your utter negativity and self-indulgent self-pity will repel them well before they ever come near it. Lighten up considerably and you'll find that women, like men, are a varied bunch and many take a much broader view of potential partners than you give them credit for.

AVlow · 10/05/2025 14:20

dogfishman · 10/05/2025 13:26

Am an entirely average sized bloke and agree with bulletproof. AVlow, at least 99% of women you meet will never get the chance to take a view on your todger because your utter negativity and self-indulgent self-pity will repel them well before they ever come near it. Lighten up considerably and you'll find that women, like men, are a varied bunch and many take a much broader view of potential partners than you give them credit for.

Oh well It’s impossible to get a date anyway so I don’t need to think about it. When you optimize your dating apps and pay for premium membership only to get close to zero matches, that flake on you or never answer, that takes a toll on you. Weekends are for work so only option would be to stop women on the street which is no use and just harassment. Bye

littlepinkbow · 11/05/2025 22:50

AVlow · 10/05/2025 14:20

Oh well It’s impossible to get a date anyway so I don’t need to think about it. When you optimize your dating apps and pay for premium membership only to get close to zero matches, that flake on you or never answer, that takes a toll on you. Weekends are for work so only option would be to stop women on the street which is no use and just harassment. Bye

BYE BYE!!!!

AtYourPleasure · 12/05/2025 08:34

I actually really feel for @AVlow. I don't like his attitude towards women (he's not alone in that way of thinking) and also I kinda get where he's coming from with not wanting to be lied to/not feeling good enough.

I hope you find peace AV.

Snoozysnoozy · 12/05/2025 09:25

AtYourPleasure · 12/05/2025 08:34

I actually really feel for @AVlow. I don't like his attitude towards women (he's not alone in that way of thinking) and also I kinda get where he's coming from with not wanting to be lied to/not feeling good enough.

I hope you find peace AV.

I don't. According to him he has a penis at the larger end of and tipping into above average but still claims the women he's slept with tell him he's too small. In fact I don't believe him at all.

daphney · 13/05/2025 11:19

It's a shame the OP is so toxic, as the basic question is kinda interesting. Historically I wasn't honest with new partners. I wouldn't lie, just avoid the question or deflect. Now I'm fully honest

Snoozysnoozy · 13/05/2025 13:19

daphney · 13/05/2025 11:19

It's a shame the OP is so toxic, as the basic question is kinda interesting. Historically I wasn't honest with new partners. I wouldn't lie, just avoid the question or deflect. Now I'm fully honest

Mary I ask at what point it comes up and to what end you feel the need to be honest?

I mean does a guy find out he's too small before sex is on the cards?

daphney · 13/05/2025 13:27

Snoozysnoozy · 13/05/2025 13:19

Mary I ask at what point it comes up and to what end you feel the need to be honest?

I mean does a guy find out he's too small before sex is on the cards?

I don't mean that I've ever told a man he's too small for sex 😂that would be too cruel.

I mean more with partners, when you're more open as it develops. My husband is the kind of guy who wants to know everything, and so over time I've indulged that. But some guys tend to have a tendency to ask if they've been "the best" or the "the biggest" .

AVlow · 14/05/2025 23:26

I get it, that I annoy some people here that just want to have som fun and read a few comments. But, not that it matters, it really hurts to see people writing that I tell lies. Yes I say that I won't post anymore, and then I hope that the forum just goes back to women writing about what they prefer etc. But then people quote me. In reality I have nothing better to do. I would have prefered to spend this evening with a woman. I would have prefered to live my life instead of posting here. But what am I telling lies about? I've spent almost 5 years without any female contact whatsoever. Not because I wanted to or didn't try. I did, after a toxic relationship where my ex dismantled my self-esteem totally, something I am still trying to recover from. After putting money and time into dating apps only to, like so so many men, find that you are not wanted. I have no belief in myself, I don't look myself in the mirror anymore. Do women here understand what it takes for a man to get the courage, talk to a woman, take her out, say the right thing there, don't fck up there, do this here etc etc etc etc. What more am I telling lies about? My size? No that is my true size. Surely length is about average yes. Girth is below average. And more importantly, average is not enough. Women prefere somewhere around 7-7.5 inches and it should be thick, that is the most important thing. My thing is thick as a glue stick. And yes I have seen the look on ex partners faces. My ex went on about it for 2 years, how great bigger dicks are. After reading this forum, It is clear to me that Dick size is very important to women, and that women in general lie about it as not to hurt their partners. But in the end this is something women won't grasp. Because yes, both men and women look good or bad. Some men look good, some bad, same with women. But I believe that if you find someone with the right charm and personality, someone you feel attraction to, then sex with that person is amazing. If I would find a girl that I am attracted to today, and have feelings for, sex with her would be great if she puts effort into it on her side. Boobs, hair, noses, eyes etc are all looks. A pair of boobs doesn't give me stronger orgasms. But a women can clearly remember different partners dicks. I can't, and I am 100 % sure no man can remember or feel the difference between vaginas. It doesn't matter whatsoever. We remember the level of attraction yes, we remember the personality etc yes. But I can only judge the sex on basis of how much I was attracted to a person. The best sex I had in my life was when I was 22. Because I was heads over heels in love with that girl. She wasn't the cutest I've had or had massive boobs or anything like that. But apparently for women they have some partner that is their best because it feels way more, way better, and gives her stronger orgasms. and smaller partners don't compare to that bigger dude of her preference. Now imagine living with that, that your partner, now that women in my age 30-35, have had 60-100 partners in her youth, is problably writing on a forum somewhere that I don't quite feel as good or as much as the dude twice my size but she won't tell me as to not hurt my feelings. It is obvious to me. The vagina is a hole. And it has nerve endings that are responsible for sensation. My nostril is a hole. If I stick a pen into it it doesn't feel that much. If I stick a cucumber in it, it will feel quite a bit more. Same with vaginas. A girthy dick around 7 inches of pushes on the right nerves way more than someone my size. So even if I am average or just below average, it's not enough anymore. That is why guys ask you if they are the best or biggest. Because they are not stupid. They understand on a primal level that it makes a massive difference. That is confirmed by this threads existense! Why would their even be a thread like this othwerwise?? I can asure you that there is no thread whatsoever on the internet talking about "do you tell your wife the truth about vaginal size" where men write "my ex was 2 inches deeper and felt way better. I have talked to guys that are well endowed. they have even showed me text conversations with women. They write about how amazing his dick is, how big it is, how they miss it. A common thing seems to be that for bigger guys, women seem a bit scared first but then they go absolute crazy about being filled up by a thick big dick. I have never received a single positive comment about my dick. Mostly I hear nothing. On occasions women have comfort tested me because they obviously prefer bigger. My conclusion is that it is a massive deal for women and that life for them would be 100 % times easier if men would walk around with their size on their foreheads. So that women could discard 80 % of men for not being big enough. In the end, according to statistics, 25-30 % of women in the us, in a surve, have dumped their men for being to small, but never telling him that is the reason. 0 % have dumped their men for being to big.

sxform · 14/05/2025 23:35

@AVlowYou’ve derailed what was a fun and interesting thread. Start your own thread for your incel nonsense

AVlow · 14/05/2025 23:47

sxform · 14/05/2025 23:35

@AVlowYou’ve derailed what was a fun and interesting thread. Start your own thread for your incel nonsense

Its always nonsense when it’s a man pouring his heart out. Go back to the fun then, sorry for disturbing you with my nonsense life. It’s fun for women to read this yes. Rest asured. Now it’s no more writing. Bye bye and so sorry

Snoozysnoozy · 15/05/2025 06:37

What's the most popular sex toy for women? I suspect it's one that vibrates so perhaps size isn't a factor there. If that's the case then what's the most popular size of dildo?

yorkshireteabagman · 15/05/2025 09:23

Blimey this penis guy is making more come backs than Tyson Fury

GreenCrow · 15/05/2025 09:49

In all seriousness @AVlow, I would try to get some therapy to help you manage your feelings and how they impact your life.

I'm not in the same situation as you (married guy with kids) but I have still spent a large part of my life feeling incredibly negative towards many aspects of myself (in all cases there is nothing wrong with me, I'm just not perfect) and going down all sorts of internal self hating spirals.

Therapy didn't get rid of these feelings but has helped me learn how to catch them, manage them and stop them developing into those spirals to the point you can't see anything other than what you've convinced yourself of.

dogfishman · 15/05/2025 12:47

Sage advice from @GreenCrow, IMO. Self loathing and feelings of inadequacy are a powerful force in many people which is often utterly irrational or a complete distortion of the truth. Men are at least as likely as women to suffer from them if the MH stats are anytung to go by. @AVlow they don't have to rule your life!😀

BackGammon3 · 19/05/2025 18:04

sxform · 14/05/2025 23:35

@AVlowYou’ve derailed what was a fun and interesting thread. Start your own thread for your incel nonsense

That isn’t helpful/intelligent/astute/kind. Clearly AVlow is struggling with processing his feelings, and as GreenCrow alluded too, it’s good to direct him to some support, fair play.

Gymbunny2025 · 19/05/2025 18:25

Nonsense he’s been posting the same thing over and over for 6 months. Some of it very misogynistic. He’s been signposted to support many times but just ignores. It wouldn’t be acceptable to do this in real life can you imagine! Of course people are fed up of it here too.

BackGammon3 · 19/05/2025 19:05

Gymbunny2025 · 19/05/2025 18:25

Nonsense he’s been posting the same thing over and over for 6 months. Some of it very misogynistic. He’s been signposted to support many times but just ignores. It wouldn’t be acceptable to do this in real life can you imagine! Of course people are fed up of it here too.

First time i’ve come across it. I’m new here, so i respond accordingly. My post isn’t ‘nonsense’ from my perspective - did you think of that?

Gymbunny2025 · 19/05/2025 19:09

true but neither was @sxformpost not helpful or intelligent or kind!

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