Being open about penis size with male partners

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Just wondering how many people are open about penis size preferences with their male partners?

DW is now very open about what she likes, however it’s taken her years to get over the “lie to protect his fragile male ego” upbringing.

We now have a much better sex life as a result.

so, for women that have a preference, just wondering how open you are about this? or for blokes, do you feel you’d want to know?

99.999% of women aren't making relationship decisions based on sex at all. Unfortunately. :(

• because women want more than sex and men only want sex. What a revelation.

I was over 30 before I realized women typically had different life goals to men. Until then I honestly thought women wanted to have fun, party, go on great holidays and avoid settling down. Nobody tells us! It should be taught in school, learning the hard way sucks.

And I was replying to someone who has been educated about women exclusively by porn and thinks women are typically prioritising 7.5 inch cocks with the girth of a coke can over family life so it may be news to him!

@AtYourPleasure can you PM me? No problem if you can't, I've just realized something.

You only want sex from the badboy good looking dude who gave you the best sex of your life in your youth. You want more than sex with the boyfriend guy who needs to man up and do the right thing and marry, have kids, etc etc etc. I bet the 32 brittish airways flight attendants who stood in line to jump in to bed with that f1 driver back in the 70s during 24 hours at a hotel in Singapore, they didn’t want more than sex.

that is why men use porn, some nurse strips and it’s on. That is mens simple fantasy. Womens fantasy? Look at Netflix top rated stuff. Sex / life = keep your stable nice kind husband whilst humiliating him and fcking the bad boy from your past at the same time. He also has a horse size dick. 365 is about dumping your average husband for a smoking hot italian mafia boss. With a huge dick.

or the latest where a young woman cheats with her soon to be husbands father since he is a powerful surgeon in London. And yes, the movie is made by a woman, and watched mostly by women.

this is due to the little secret of cucking. It is proven scientificly that women as a group are turned on by cucking one man against a more sexually poweful man and this is pshycological. Not something that happens.

that is why on average, womens nightmare is that their LTR cheats by having feelings and engaging in a relationship with another woman. That meant potential death on the savannah. Men however, cheating is the sex. That is why there is so much pressure on womens past history because it is related to securing your own dna being passed on. That is why both men and women tend to shame women that sleeps around. This is not tate stuff, this is evolutionary psychology. I’m liberal, so do as you want as long as you don’t hurt anyone. Its just how it is. Not puting aby value into it.

I’m just saying that for a guy like me, one night stands will not be fun for the woman. And LTRs will not be fun either since I don’t add up. Todays dating market is brutal, for evertbody involved.

Different life goals? Yes young women like to party and prioritize coke can thick dicks and hot sex. When women pass 30 most of them want family and kids and so they start prioritizing kindness, stable job, father qualities etc. You just saw women in two different periods of their lives.

it seems to be that the man that becomes the husband is not the best sex she has had though and I think that is a bad deal for that man.

that leads to forum thrads like “women, are you honest to your men about dick size?”

and from what I’ve read in this thread most most women don’t telk their ltr that a past partner felt way better in bed. Another group are lucky to have a well endowed ltr. And a small minority doesn’t seem to care about Dick size.

I just found in this forum! A woman believing she has found the perfect guy in all ways, just as you mention here, kind, communication, humor etc. There is one problem though. She doesn’t feel pleasure in bed since his cock is smaller than what she is used to. So she doesn’t know what to do. Now men don’t feel less pleasure depending on the vagina. They all feel the same. So this is a thing only for certain men. Now why would any man with sanity go into an LTR knowing statistically that you would be in the bottom half of her partner history. Would be interesting to hear the men answer here as this is a male problem women don’t seem to grasp for obvious reasons, not having a dick or a male sexuality.

I've told my husband just about everything I can recall about my experiences and preferences-- he's very interested in it. His size, shape, and hardness are ideal for me, even though I've had much larger and smaller.

It’s difficult because being with someone is about so very much more than this, and off you love someone then you just have to get on with what size they are, imo. Also how do you go around testing size before you buy, as it were?

If you mention it because it’s not very big then surely you risk totally undermining the guy?

For me I would have sex early. I need to know that’s all good before feelings start to cloud my judgement

How early in the relationship would you have sex?

6am probably. Maybe 530

AVIow - was every woman you ever slept with better than the one before? Was Pamela better than Angela? Was Rita better than Sandra? Was Erica better than Monica? And if not, were you honest with them? Did you tell them? "So listen babe, to be honest.... you should know my last lover was so much better than you. Her tits were bigger and excited me much more."

Look, I get it. I get your train of thought. I sometimes get consumed by the thought than men are only interested in sex, that they aren't interested in "me" as a person, that they sometimes only stay with women because they're too chicken-shit to dump them. I think men are always on the lookout for someone else. I think they'll fuck another woman at the drop of a hat. Why do I think this? Because I've been told so - by men - directly to me. I once told a guy I was looking for a guy who wanted me for me and not just sex. He told me "he doesn't exist. Men don't want that". On a men's forum I read there was a thread about love - do you know how many said although they were perfectly happy with their wives, they didn't actually love them? Most. They said the only woman they ever loved was an ex GF and their wives didn't quite live up to that. Do you think that's a nice thing for those men to do? You could ask, why would any woman get into a LTR knowing that her partner might actually be hankering for someone else?

That early!

Joking aside. Would you have sex on the second or third date in as many days?
As this discussion is about penis size it's a bit off topic so apologies for that. I'd disappoint as I'm barely 5 inches erect and not as girthy as I've been reading. A comment my ex said about my size was soul destroying especially after 25 years of marriage and 7 children. The psychological damage has been done so like another guy on here I've withdrawn from anything that might involve intimacy with a woman.

Well I’m not dating so not really relevant. But can’t imagine I’d go beyond date 3. No way weeks or months!

Thanks for replying. Look I don’t hate women. But I am afraid to write about negative thins since I will be viewed like Tate. Women are hypergamous. This is according to psychology. Meaninh that women date up in terms of status etc, but also registers the best sex. That is why women here write that they are unhappy with dick size. When I was still dating I slept with blondes, brunettes, big tis, small tits. Tits have nothing to do with sensation on your genitals. Penis size does. I can’t really tell the women apart. The best was the girl I had feelings for, not the hottest or with the biggest boobs. But I can’t tell them apart. Women don’t do much in bed. As men we can only recall if a woman gave oral or not etc. Vaginas? All feel the same.

look. The only thing I would want is to have a relationship with a nice cute normal woman. To share stuff, do stuff together. But I am too small. I don’t want to be in a relationship where she tells me you are fine but secretly knows she can’t experience the same pleasure in bed as a bigger ex. That is living a lie. So I have to accept that I will be alone. Maybe someday penis enlargment will be a possibilty. Who knows

Was Pamela better than Angela? Was Rita better than Sandra? Was Erica better than Monica?

This didn't get the recognition it deserved! Outstanding work.

You know there are other ways to please a woman? You have a tongue, you have fingers. Some women never orgasm from PIV.

You say women don't do anything in bed. You cant tell them apart. Men can only recall if women have given head. You need to start treating women as individuals with different sexual triggers and responses and not just as someone who is there for you to stick your dick in.

I’m just saying that for a guy like me, one night stands will not be fun for the woman. And LTRs will not be fun either since I don’t add up. - perhaps. But to be honest, it has fuck all to do with the size of your dick and everything to do with your attitude towards women.

According to what ”WOMEN” write here, you are wrong. I don’t but that attitude towards women bullshit. I’ve seen my exes as individuals, I’ve done exactly as you should do as a good boy. It was never enough since my dick is too small.

in the end as a man you need to have son many things going for you in order to be attractive. Height, charm, money etc. Women need to look pretty. I would cut 10 cm of my height for a bigger dick. I would sacrifice a lot of things for a bigger dick. Fingers and tounge is not enough. Just read the forum

As a man i have no problem with people voicing preferences about things and whatnot, but when people cite size preferences and inches without measuring i roll my eyes and it makes the whole conversation defunct.

No need to measure. Those big Ds in porn that women say are too big. For some reason women go absolute bananas over the men I know with huge Ds. A friend of mine said that a girl was scared at first but then went absolute mad about being filled up as she said, and she had orgasms like never before. I’ve seen text messages from women about his dick. Again read the womens answers in this thread.

Well. Urgh.

After a couple of weeks off, he's back to keep the big dick chat alive 😆

Keep the big dick alive!