Anal fisting (sorry)

[Bumfunname]

I don't know where else to ask this. Apologies if it puts you off your dinner.

Over the past year or so Dh and I have been pushing boundaries with each other further and further. A combination of our youngest child sleeping through reliably and more free time in the evenings, I suppose. We've always enjoyed anal sex together and a fair bit of bdsm type activities. Lately the spanking and the like has increased, which we are both happy with.

Last night took a turn for the proper perverted, as we (fully consensually and to great mutual enjoyment) ended up with him actually fisting my anus. It was all very slow and careful and an incredible turn on, but today I have freaked myself out with thoughts of fissures and tears etc

It kind of feels like the last taboo and certainly isn't something we'll do daily, but I did wonder just how dangerous it is and if there's anything we can do to make it safer.

I know it's not the most mainstream of practices (and I'm more than a bit mortified to be posting about it) but I wondered if any aficionados might be around to reassure me that fine right it can be safe.

A thousand thank yous to anyone who can help.

Lololol AF

I dunno OP. I don't think it'd be good to do often.

What is it with the fisting threads and the typos?

Fish in your Anus

Everybody goes all wobbly and their arse falls out

Hence the typos

Usual you kinky thang!

AF
Who knows? There's more to Queenie than meets the eye, I reckon. Although this may be a bridge too far indeed.

I would be worried about stretching or damage like if it was done on a regular basis.

TMI but after anal for a day or so everything definitely feels looser which is why it's only a now & again activity in our house.

My piles are itching

I just can't get past the fish. Am dying. What a classic autocorrect fail.

I hope it wasn't a fucking piranha.

Ouch.

MN at it's finest.

I suppose it's better than a fiat!

This was posted in the Sex topic. If you don't want to read the details of other people's (real or imagined) sex lives, then guess what? Don't read the sex topic.

A couple of safety tips OP:

• nails should be short and filed smooth

- douching beforehand can help prevent fecal matter from entering the boodstream via any small tears in the intestinal wall

• your DP should be wearing gloves for the entire procedure to prevent infection from any cuts, inflammations, whitlows etc. on his hands
• loads of lube, keep reapplying
• go slowly both ways (penetration and withdrawal)
• if you experience persistent pain or dark or discoloured bleeding, go straight to A&E

Stay safe, OP!

Don'tlaugh, Oh I know

I have oft speculated about that rather pained look in Liz's eye

I recall reading Shirley Conran's Lace as a teenager and the Arabian prince/goldfish scene - had a flashback with the fish comment.

Each to her own, but why carp on about it on a public forum? It's really not the plaice.

I am, much like our aforementioned dear Queen, horrified to see this thread in 'Discussions of the Day'. Right there. On my screen. Unbidden. I was, and still am, so shocked that I have dropped my glass anal juicer - a gift from the Queen of Tonga that was much treasured up to now.

Shocking.

Not bad OhForCodsHake but cod do batter

OP, I think you really should mullet over a bit loner

*longer

If it's well known that it isn't a safe thing to do and you're worried after you do it perhaps don't do it? Or research the 'safer' ways of doing it on a website that is dedicated to such matters.