Anal fisting (sorry)

[Bumfunname]

I don't know where else to ask this. Apologies if it puts you off your dinner.

Over the past year or so Dh and I have been pushing boundaries with each other further and further. A combination of our youngest child sleeping through reliably and more free time in the evenings, I suppose. We've always enjoyed anal sex together and a fair bit of bdsm type activities. Lately the spanking and the like has increased, which we are both happy with.

Last night took a turn for the proper perverted, as we (fully consensually and to great mutual enjoyment) ended up with him actually fisting my anus. It was all very slow and careful and an incredible turn on, but today I have freaked myself out with thoughts of fissures and tears etc

It kind of feels like the last taboo and certainly isn't something we'll do daily, but I did wonder just how dangerous it is and if there's anything we can do to make it safer.

I know it's not the most mainstream of practices (and I'm more than a bit mortified to be posting about it) but I wondered if any aficionados might be around to reassure me that fine right it can be safe.

A thousand thank yous to anyone who can help.

Them nice sandals threads are really fucking filthy

Well we did it again while he double penetrated me and slapped me round the face a few times while I was in handcuffs. This will be my last foray into the sex section, it's clearly not for me. Ta ta.

You wish.

bum those that insist they don't appreciate "over sharing" seem to gravitate to the sex board
And a pp who said they get a great laugh reading the topics on the sex board.. You're an arsehole

"Minimise the risk" my arse

Ok. I'll repeat my advice (lest someone is concerned). Don't. Risk.Damaging.That.Area.

Who knew eh?

double penetrated me and slapped me round the face a few times while I was in handcuffs
I can't work out how he did that without falling over. I think there would be so much 'hang on, if you move your leg a bit then I can shove my hand up your arse, no bit more to the left, up a bit, that's it. Now stay there so I can get my cock in too', that I would lose the mood.

Bye then

He fisted you while 'double' penetrating you and while slapping you?

That's not a man, that's an octopus.

It's all one piss take. Not to be taken at all seriously

So you've decided that for us all have you?

Simples....reverse cowgirl position, one hand in the rubber glove, one hand holding a very long flyswatter...as Gordon Ramsey would say...

Done.

I was taking the piss a bit with my last post. But I am very much on the level. You can ask HQ if you like, I'm very much a regular. In fact you 'know' me quite well.

This thread has highlighted for me that the sex topic doesn't really work. And i don't mean because it attracts unsavoury types. I personally think that a bit of mild pisstaking is fine but shutting down conversation and assuming every OP is trolling is just not on.

I don't think it is assumed that everyone is a troll. It's that some / manypeople cannot tolerate women talking about sex.

Wally who was slapping her face sexily in that case?
Nah op that didn't happen

AF - I don't know anything about the op, but this topic was brought about so that 'adult conversation' could take place off the busier more active boards. That's a good thing surely? - or do you think women shouldn't talk about sex at all?
I don't know whether you've lived a sheltered life or just think anyone talking about sex is making it up, but people do have sex, all kinds of sex, & sometimes they may want to discuss it on a board designed for that very purpose. I think your attitude will put people off posting tbh, & that's not great is it.

Yes, of course. People who see a problem with trivialising the physically damaging effects of procedures like this have "lived a sheltered life" or "don't like sex"

That's totally it. And a total cliche.

It's fine to talk about the risks of sexual practices, and to express revulsion or bafflement, but constant attempts to shut down discussion are tedious.

I think that anyone who replies to a thread asking for advice with a comment about the homelife of the queen is trivialising the topic.

I found it funny, but we've got an interest in kink and was also interested in the op. I think it's a shame when it's derailed/shutdown /questioned motives for asking.

There were posters who replied seriously.

I believe all those answers suggested 'lube' and 'be careful'.

A regular fist up the arse may result in long-term injuries. I don't think there is a way round that.