@EweCee this is a pretty stressful process and hopefully this is an outlet and a way to go on this journey together ("quite a journey" indeed).
Beyond which schools our kids are at, which schools we have applied for / favour or how we are approaching things, we are trying our best in a pretty opaque and uncertain environment - like you, I am finding lots of comfort in this group (of people that I have not met but that are not any longer strangers)