Please help my husband left today VERY NEWEST THREAD

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New thread here. Hope you find it BW.

Getting a bit worried now. Happywoman, have you heard? do you have her 'phone no?

Hoping all well with BW.

No i havent heard either - nor any reply to my email.

I suspect he is following the script - he is the victim and cant bear to be reminded of his failings and yet still feels so bad and so continues to see ow. He projects his guilt onto BW saying that if she talks about it, it makes him feel bad and so has persuaded her to just carry on - meanwhile bw understandably feels confused and untrusting and yet dare not say anything for fear of him rejecting her.

Unless/until he really realises what he has done he will continue unfortunatly . Once he does he will willingly read the thread and do everything he can to make amends.

BW if you are still there i truly hope you are not so lacking in self esteem as to not feel able to do what you know is right for you.
I am hoping that he has changed his ways and is still on the floor begging and begging for your forgivness and has arranged childcare and whisked you off somewhere for the well deserved rest and pampering your so deserve.

I have to admit to being a bit worried after 'panadol night'. I googled 'mother of five suicide' earlier - nothing came up thankfully.

have had email - her dd has been ill with chicken pox - hopefully bw will update soon.

Thanks Happywoman.

I have posted a couple times as my dad did the same as bw h did. But I always check to make sure BW is ok.

BW

I hope your dd isn't suffering to much in this heat and hope she better soon.

Oh of course - I forgot the others might get it too. Chicken pox in this heat - how horrible.

So glad she is OK

ooh, nasty pox in the heat.
Thanks for update Happywoman, hope BW is OK

Still thinking of you, BW. Poor DD, hope she feels better soon. Lots of cool baths and cold calamine lotion are in order!

I, erm, suppose DH has already had the pox?

You are still in my thoughts bw, its just one thing after another for you at mo' isn't it? Praying for you both.

We haven't all gone away BW. Those of us who have supported you through these last 9 weeks still wait to hear that you are well.
When you can, please let us know that you live to fight another day.

Hello BW. Numal is right. I am sure that there are plenty of us still thinking of you and keeping an eye on the thread for any news from you. I so hope and pray that day by day you and DH are rebuilding your relationship and your poor broken heart is slowly healing. I wish you both well for your Relate appt on Monday.

Do stay in touch with the Durham Mumsnetters and hopefully you will also begin to build a network of friends for you and your family too.

I hope your DD is recovering and feeling better too.

Hoping all is going well for you BW.
Trust your silence is a code for everything being put back together for you, and
understand that you want to put all this behind you.

Good Luck, let us know when you can.

Wishing you all the best BW x

Long time lurker on this thread. Hope all is well BW. Always check if you have updated and hope you will soon.

Boilerwoman - Pleased for you, I presume no news is good news????????????

I check every day but no news yet.

Really hope your ok BW. Do pop in to say hi, would like to know how your feeling. I hope your happy.

I check every day too, wish BW would let us know how she is!

Me too. Happywoman, have you heard anything?

Someone has started a thread asking about BW too.
There was talk that she was a troll , but other MNers who have been in similar situations have explained that they didn't come back for a while.
Am hoping that rl is good for you BW

i had an email promising to update me and the thread but nothing yet. Just hope she is keeping busy and enjoying life again.

Still hope to hear from you when you are ready BW. Stay strong and live well, the best balm for broken hearts.