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Flippin WANKER

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StercusAccidit · 13/04/2009 15:48

DP has broken my mothers day present from DS2 in a wobbly about not being able to find a screwdriver to fit his xbox controller He had the bloody things modded and spent all morning moaning about them, then the button stuck on one so he asked about the screwdriver he had brought specially for them, i couldn't find it (had a mad tidy up the other day cos his mega fussy dad was coming) so he flipped out.

Fucking tosser pulled the fire surround off the wall as well, AND the gas fire which i will now have to replace because its a council house.
AND pulled a set of shelves off the wall breaking a very old clock and damaging some of my ornaments. WTF is wrong with these people???

I am ANGRY and UPSET about the present from DS...its the first thing i have ever had for mothers day that i didn't have to buy for myself.

He has said he will buy a new one but i said no as it wouldn't be the same.

I'm on the verge of tears as i'm writing this. What a nobber

Why do they always break MY things? My ExP was the same...None of his things got damaged ffs. I didn't trash HIS stuff when i found out he had cheated on me numerous times when i was PG and before as well.
Add to that (haven't left it till last as it isn't important because it IS) when he was chucking this wobbly DS was in his chair on the floor in the living room FFS anything could have hit him i am soooooooo angry what a twat

I feel like i have no one else to talk to posting on here is probably the wrong thing too

I thought he had changed. OBVIOUSLY NOT.

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TheHedgeWitchIsNAK · 16/04/2009 17:51

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FannyWaglour · 16/04/2009 18:27

"Who's the thick cunt now? hehehe"

Is it me you are calling a thick cunt?

Anyway, good luck to you.

mrsboogie · 16/04/2009 18:34

err fannywaglour I believe she was referring to her XP - being a thick cunt.

Well done STERCUS you are an inspiration to ladies encumbered with irredeemable tossers everywhere!

FannyWaglour · 16/04/2009 18:48

That is fine, I did not take it personal. I just wanted to know.

Alambil · 16/04/2009 18:53

Yes, the XP is the thick cunt.... panic not!

I'm so proud of you - you seem so incredibly strong

Kick ass, woman - you're doing great!

Comewhinewithme · 16/04/2009 20:17
ladylush · 16/04/2009 21:06

Glad you are ok Stercus. Stay strong.

StercusAccidit · 16/04/2009 21:12

fanny.... sorry.... i wasnt referring to you lol its something he called me when he was having the tantrum and i was using it to describe him using my ebay to buy his stuff, thinking it would be to his advantage if i got the bad feedback/had to pay for stuff he 'realised' he didnt have the money for, could he just 'borrow it' .....

I am so sorry if you thought it was aimed at you, i would NEVER call anyone (him excepted) that AWFUL word.

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StercusAccidit · 16/04/2009 21:17

Thanks all.
He's in his usual position outside

Probably missing his xbox and wondering if he looks pitiful enough i'll let him in.
Tch.
Wonder how long he can keep this up...

OMG yes, SIL really ripped into him which is unusual for her, she is so laid back she is almost horizontal and puts up with all kinds of crap..

I do declare she thinks the world of me but more likely is totally shocked at finding out the extent of his behaviour.
Nowt like an eye opener but 'tis unfair on her IMO to be worrying about him, she's got enough on her plate to be honest.
I'm going to see her tomorrow she's coming over to town near me so we'll have a coffee and i can exchange presents and cards.. he obv thinks i'll have to go through him to give DSS his present, and thinks that will allow him back into my vicinity affections. Got a shock coming then lol.

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StercusAccidit · 16/04/2009 21:18

OOOOOOOO yes.
Forgot to say. Ebay total so far is JUST short of 300 quid.

Thanks DP!!

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TrillianAstra · 16/04/2009 21:19

Stay strong

jennieflower · 16/04/2009 21:29

You Mean XP and not DP don't you?

lilac21 · 16/04/2009 22:04

Stercus, I've read many of your other posts over the last five months or so and I'm so delighted you finally got rid of the 'flippin wanker'! Go girl!

ChippingIn · 16/04/2009 22:21

Excellent news

I'm glad he's pissing you off, as you say, makes it much easier not to give into the 'just one more chance' routine....

Alambil · 16/04/2009 22:22

oooo £300 is a good sum... keep going!

StercusAccidit · 17/04/2009 08:39

Jennie..till i've got my paws on that money and made sure our kids have all had something from it he's DP THEN he can be XP

Its all the bits off his manky subaru..god there are blokes out there dafter then him when it comes to buying bit for a car..but then i bet most of them are kids with no responsibilites

He's still a nob

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JuxaLOTmoreChocolate · 17/04/2009 15:39

Really glad you're OK and the wanker's out the door.

He really is a tosser isn't he? Hope he goes very far away.

StercusAccidit · 17/04/2009 23:18

Me too.

'Tis his kids i feel sorry for

DS's brother and sister, poor things, thank GOD they have his sister looking out for them, she won't let him give them shit.

Thats all i was worried about.

My DS is protected by his mummy, ok a bit shoddily and i am ashamed i needed so much of a push but those kids have no caring protective mum.

On another note of the parents from hell, SHE hasn't bothered even phoning to see how they are for the past three weeks, XDSIL has had to call her...and its DSS's b'day as i have already said no doubt lol .. she's got him nothing not even a card so the ebay money will get a nice card and present off 'mummy' written by my sister so DSS doesnt recognise the writing

Jeez i cant believe i got mixed up with a bloke with such a wank attitude and a wank XP as so-called mother of his kids

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TheHedgeWitchIsNAK · 19/04/2009 11:04

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KiwiKat · 19/04/2009 21:45

Just wondering how you're doing?

ChippingIn · 20/04/2009 00:29

Just checking in too - how are you holding up??

StercusAccidit · 20/04/2009 22:36

Hi..things are ok

Thank you.. been so busy couldn't even MN hehe
DSS liked his cards and present

XP got a birthday mouthful Angry tall bird is NOT something he'll risk confronting again!! And took the kids to the park as he was too much of a twatter to do anything interesting with his own kids.

I am guilt tripping tho
In my moment of anger as well as telling him he nearly killed DS, in front of his whole family, i also told the kids i felt sorry for them because they "must have done something REALLY bad in a previous life to deserve the shitty parents they got"

I was angry in my defence and i didn't mean it against the kids, it just..came flying out

Me n my big gob.

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BitOfFun · 20/04/2009 22:45

He's a prat, anything you say rashly pales in comparison-don't give it a thought! < manly brisk reply >

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