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Flippin WANKER

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StercusAccidit · 13/04/2009 15:48

DP has broken my mothers day present from DS2 in a wobbly about not being able to find a screwdriver to fit his xbox controller He had the bloody things modded and spent all morning moaning about them, then the button stuck on one so he asked about the screwdriver he had brought specially for them, i couldn't find it (had a mad tidy up the other day cos his mega fussy dad was coming) so he flipped out.

Fucking tosser pulled the fire surround off the wall as well, AND the gas fire which i will now have to replace because its a council house.
AND pulled a set of shelves off the wall breaking a very old clock and damaging some of my ornaments. WTF is wrong with these people???

I am ANGRY and UPSET about the present from DS...its the first thing i have ever had for mothers day that i didn't have to buy for myself.

He has said he will buy a new one but i said no as it wouldn't be the same.

I'm on the verge of tears as i'm writing this. What a nobber

Why do they always break MY things? My ExP was the same...None of his things got damaged ffs. I didn't trash HIS stuff when i found out he had cheated on me numerous times when i was PG and before as well.
Add to that (haven't left it till last as it isn't important because it IS) when he was chucking this wobbly DS was in his chair on the floor in the living room FFS anything could have hit him i am soooooooo angry what a twat

I feel like i have no one else to talk to posting on here is probably the wrong thing too

I thought he had changed. OBVIOUSLY NOT.

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pottycock · 15/04/2009 21:12

Don't let him in.

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StercusAccidit · 15/04/2009 21:16

As if His voice is whiney enough muffled by being outside, don't think i could stand it inside.

Doesn't help that the dog loves him so is going barmy

Stoopid dog maybe i'll chuck him outside too and they can keep each other warm as he is stating that he is going to stay 'right where he is' until i talk to him.

Shame cos i'm going to bed in a minute

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StercusAccidit · 15/04/2009 21:34

It must be cos i'm flogging all his stuff on ebay hehehe

I need an emoticon with devil horns please.

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Doha · 15/04/2009 21:37

Go girl

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StercusAccidit · 15/04/2009 21:42

Because it really is rather funny....and the downside is i have just got the SS off my back so if i phone the police they will have it on record and the SS get their mitts on it....

I just don't want to take that risk.

Anyway his stuff is up to 117 quid now.. nice new gas fire and some stuff for DS i think

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KiwiKat · 15/04/2009 21:44

Well done - you've got style!

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Doha · 15/04/2009 21:54

Have a vision of him sitting with the dog in some street corner selling the Big Issue....

Deserved on not

pottycock · 15/04/2009 21:55

He'll end up getting angry. Do be careful.

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StercusAccidit · 15/04/2009 22:01

He's already called me a cunt.
I said he's not helping his cause and laughed at him then shut the curtains.

Whoever invented double glazed windows was obviously a female and a genius.

He'll get bored soon and bog off. He's got more to lose than i have so not fussed.
He's lucky cos back in the day he would have had a bucket of water over his stupid head.

Worked on ExP who tried to get me done for assault only to be told by the police that because it was dirty water, and not clean (mop bucket was the only thing handy) that it wasn't assault, don't know the technicalities but i guess they may have been snorting with laughter and fibbing on my behalf as he was well known to them for beating me up.

Off to bed now anyway. Apparently he has nowhere to sleep, so is going to sleep in the car.

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Doha · 15/04/2009 22:01

Pottycock is right

Is he still there?

You really can't go to bed while he is doing hir Romeo and Juliet number. It wouldn't be safe. Is there anyone who can comw round and persuade him to leave. I'm a but concerned that he will try to get in when you're not responding.

Also be careful of his reaction to you selling stuff on ebay. Does he know you have the stuff that you are selling?

AnyFucker · 15/04/2009 22:07

please be careful

you are winding him up, and he certainly has the potential to be dangerously violent

just shut the curtains, double-lock everything, turn all the lights off and go to bed with the police on speed-dial

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TrillianAstra · 15/04/2009 22:11

Hope you're okay.

You've done well getting rid, remember to be strong and I hope he goes away peacefully.

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StercusAccidit · 15/04/2009 22:31

Hmm i do agree really but he knew i was putting the stuff on, his idea was to put it on mine so (if anything goes wrong i get the bad feedback) i could use the money to get things for his car DS.

I told him i will be buying a new gas fire to replace the one he ripped off, and he can have the change.

He won't come being an arse he has too much to lose. The SS already mentioned him leaving his son outside the police station which i didn't know about, it was a few years ago..but enough to keep him on a leash.

If he wants war he can have it. Nothing like a shitty ending to keep you from wanting them back eh.

He can do his gorillaesque chest banging and namecalling as much as he likes.
He's a dickhead.
Night all !!

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Doha · 15/04/2009 22:47

Oh SA

I'm so glad you are being strong but l am still a bit worried about you.

Try just to ignore him and dont inflame the situation.

Please take care..

LuluisgoingtobeanAunty · 15/04/2009 22:53

one of your neighb0urs will pobably call the police if he is out there swearing and i hope they do

FannyWaglour · 15/04/2009 22:59

It is very good that you have left him. But what if he reports his belongings, those that you are selling, stolen?

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pottycock · 16/04/2009 07:26

Morning Stercus. Hope everything is okay and you got some uninterrupted sleep last night?

ladylush · 16/04/2009 09:10

Stercus hope you are ok. What a nasty piece of work he is. Calling you the C word so soon after saying you're the best thing in his life says it all.

ObsidianBlackbirdMcNight · 16/04/2009 09:21

I know you have negative experience of SS but please don't let it put you off calling the police if he's threatening. For one thing, unless it's domestic violence that you call them for I doubt they would contact SS, and for another, you have done exactly the right thing by your kids so they wouldn't be out to give you trouble, even if they did visit.
We aren't ogres

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StercusAccidit · 16/04/2009 15:20

Hi...i'm ok been to court today about contact for DS1 sorry not been around.

Right.
I have every right to sell the bits i am selling because if the police want, they can have my ebay records saying the items were brought, or most of them, on my account
cos either i paid for them, or he asked me to pay and gave me the money back.

Who's the thick cunt now? hehehe

Erm...he was STILL here this morning, apparently DSIL has told him he had better put right what he's done wrong, and won't let him in the house there either, infuriated to hear that he threw a tantrum and all the damage he did. Apparently his car isn't as comfotable as he claims. Cos he looked like crap this morning. But i on the other hand have had a brill nights sleep stretched out in bed with DS2 feeding happily, and also kicked bottom in court.

Things are looking up as they say.

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