it happens so often on here, but I opened his mobile bill by accident and guess what?

[AreYouCallingMeDarling]

yep

up to 30 texts a day to number that I find out is another woman

Just friendship says he

hahahahaha

I am a regular btw. Just don't want my mum reading this and knowing it is me. Or anyone else I know

I feel so feckin stupid

It is the middle of the night and I probably won't get any answers. But that is fine

stooooopid stooopid fecking dick led men

oh ffs
what a cunt

Honestly
I have no idea what goes on in men's minds
sometimes

No dcmd are you ok?
Shit do hoping things could progress
Fuvkity fuck

I would kick him out
even if temporarily

Did he volunteer this information?

I'm so sorry, he really sounds dreadful

So sorry for you

It's the end, isn't it?

He slept with her on Monday? After knowing all the hurt he's caused you?

Do you really think he cares?

I'm sorry to sound brutal but do you really think he does?

Bloody hell.... at least mine had the good sense to cut off all contact.

has he lost you now??

If i was you I' woudl be shreddinng the marriage certificate now.
Actually...I'd make him do it.

wanker

er no you would need your marriage certificate to get a divorce btw

utter twunting dickgerm
What the FUCK was he thinking

hang on

If he still wanted to fuck her and thought he had lost you why was he telling her it was over?

Talk about hedging your bets..

"he fucked her again on monday

when he was telling her that they were over"

Oh dear god.

That defies belief.

My jaw is actually on the floor.

"because he thought that he had already lost me"

and his reaction to this was that he had to get his end away?? FFS.

Does he have any sort of better explanation? What on earth are you going to do?

shred his knob then.

yes much better idea

I can't think of any use for that TBH

It might jam the shredder though

Unless he wasn't telling her it was over.

Unless he was saying that she has to wait and see until Darling decides what to do.

Or wait until the dust settles and then they can resume their merry affair.

For your own self respect and worth further down the road he needs to go now and let you think about what you want and what he has actually done here.Total disrespect for your marriage

Darling what are you thinking/feeling?
I am gutted for you

That is just shocking. I am speachless.

I am crying now

I have had enough

oh sweetheart

a terrible thing has been done to you

a terrible, terrible thing

do you have someone who can come round and be with you?

I agree you need friends and support he has behaved appallingly.

Shit. This is worse. You must be struggling to understand what's really going on here.

Have you asked him if there have been any others?

I have been watching this thread, I don't have any advice to offer on top of all the great advice you have already had.

I just wanted to add my support.

He truly is a fuckwit.