@lavendersweetly Spare me 🙄
It may not be 'nice', as in, nobody wants to consider that another person would be with them when they're not attracted, but it's a logical possibility nevertheless.
I didn't say it to be rude or nasty. Furthermore, being kind sometimes involves withholding opinions from others to spare their feelings, but sometimes, it also involves sharing them or not overly softening something. I guess you didn't consider that approach when reading my response.
Online addiction especially with how algorithms work is a real thing, yes, but I think we do men too much of a kindness by overly diagnosing them with addiction, when actually they don't have one.
Some men are simply overly preoccupied by other women. They have a roving eye and it's deeply ingrained. They would be that way even if they didn't have access to porn.
Other men have seen so many women that ordinary women seem unattractive in comparison - technically, that is not an addition but an affect of overexposure.
Note that he doesn't like kissing to the point where he seems to have an aversion to it. This is highly unusual for men and kissing doesn't even require an erection, so I don't think this is the result of an addiction as such. Over exposure maybe, or that plus simply not being attracted to OP.
Doesn't mean she should settle for it. Lord knows there seems to be an epidemic of incredibly average or even unattractive men out there who seem to be fixated, even entitled, to getting a woman who looks like a model despite not looking that attractive themselves.