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Boyfriend unable to get erection but masturbating to Instagram models

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TheInfamousGrouse · 23/09/2026 14:14

To the women on here, how would you feel if your boyfriend couldn't get an erection, but was using Instagram models and such like to masturbate regularly?

We've only been seeing each other for 7 months....

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JazzyJelly · 25/09/2026 18:49

What a wanker. Don't be his company while he gets his jollies from young women who would be revolted by him if they ever saw him. Let him be as lonely as his actions dictate.

TheInfamousGrouse · 25/09/2026 18:53

grbj · 25/09/2026 14:39

Well it wasn’t PP who brought up porn, lots of other people have.

Porn is irrelevant given he‘s wanking to clothed IG models who seem to be his preferred type, not online porn (as per the OP)… not sure how this has devolved into body shaming and porn.

It isn't actually porn, provocative poses, mainly scantily clad but Instagram doesn't allow nudity I don't think? I don't use it at all, I sort of don't see the point. But yes, he's wanking to mainly very thin, very young women with a certain look.

Anyway, he can wank away for all I care. I deserve a real man who will respect me!

OP posts:
TheInfamousGrouse · 25/09/2026 18:57

... and something else.... when we initially met, I do remember him telling me (he was married for a good number of years), that he never cheated on his wife but it was really hard for him to stop himself from "having sex with other attractive women, like it is for most men".... no wonder she left him!!!

OP posts:
SmallDFartyCarNRG · 25/09/2026 20:15

TheInfamousGrouse · 25/09/2026 18:57

... and something else.... when we initially met, I do remember him telling me (he was married for a good number of years), that he never cheated on his wife but it was really hard for him to stop himself from "having sex with other attractive women, like it is for most men".... no wonder she left him!!!

Urgh!
Keep that in the "Why He Is A Wanker" bank.

Gentlydoesit2 · 25/09/2026 20:58

Run 🚩🚩🚩🚩

Cantbefucked · 26/09/2026 01:07

Glad to read he is your ex OP! You've saved yourself a lot of shite x

RowsOfFlowers · 26/09/2026 05:59

TheInfamousGrouse · 25/09/2026 18:57

... and something else.... when we initially met, I do remember him telling me (he was married for a good number of years), that he never cheated on his wife but it was really hard for him to stop himself from "having sex with other attractive women, like it is for most men".... no wonder she left him!!!

He sounds like a complete pervert. He isn’t deserving of a relationship imo.

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