Boyfriend unable to get erection but masturbating to Instagram models

[TheInfamousGrouse]

To the women on here, how would you feel if your boyfriend couldn't get an erection, but was using Instagram models and such like to masturbate regularly?

We've only been seeing each other for 7 months....

He told me he uses that material to masturbate, yes.

Chuck that one back.

He is making a choice. Someone decent would say something along the lines of - I’ve been single too long and got used to wanking to x,y and z. But I can see it’s affecting our sex life so I’m going to stop now.

Yes, thanks.

When we did talk it through, he said he would stop, I said try for at least one week to not use online stuff and not masturbate and when I saw him around 6 days later, he said he hadn't. Of course when I sneaked onto his phone, he had lied to me....

Bin him off and look for a real man.

Grim, just grim.
So he disrespects you by wanking to these young women in your home.
He is not willing to stop.
He has lied to you about what the notifications were.

He has zero respect for you OP. Why are you questioning what you should do?

Not every single middle aged man has these traits. There are some good men out there, you deserve better. You know you do.

Ffs get rid of the wanker. It will never get any better. He’s a porn addict looser. 🤮

Have you dumped him? He's not worth your effort at all. There isn't a shortage of men out there.

Throw this one back.

Reality of dating in 40s. Op you cannot change someone in their 40s. I believe people can change but has to be led by them. He has no real interest in changing.

My only advice is do not explain when you dump him. I am always the one before they find the one and its because I give them too much useful info. Just be honest you don't have feelings anymore, bye and block.

Interesting but I don’t think that super skinny, young girls is the most popular type of porn is it? I personally don’t watch but this is the top 30 most popular porn searches from last year.

1. Milf
2. Pinay
3. Lesbian
4. Anal
5. Big ass
6. Latina
7. Anime
8. Asian
9. Femboy
10. Step mom
11. Japanese
12. Creampie
13. Threesome
14. Cosplay
15. Animation
16. Massage
17. Trans
18. Big tits
19. Blowjob
20. Gangbang
21. Pov
22. BBC
23. Ebony
24. Indian
25. JOI
26. Cheating
27. Squirt
28. 3D
29. Korean

Why are you using this threat to be outraged. Bugger off somewhere else and only click on things that won't offend you. The relationships board clearly isn't for you.

Good grief, was the list really necessary?

Well, exactly, let alone it could be made up by the OP just as an excuse to put the words on here while they all faux outrage about why men like 'skinny girls', which of course they all are, and derailing the thread by doing so.

So he's still doing it and he's lying to you about it
Have you dumped him yet?

Well it wasn’t PP who brought up porn, lots of other people have.

Porn is irrelevant given he‘s wanking to clothed IG models who seem to be his preferred type, not online porn (as per the OP)… not sure how this has devolved into body shaming and porn.

It was because 1 or 2 posters got upset that they were skinny and that they were healthy and got all outraged because the OP put "Most of them are super young, super skinny, almost like anorexic teen skinny. I'm a healthy, curvy 40 year old"

Well because its a public forum and im replying to something that outraged me?

I did also contribute to the thread as well 🤷‍♀️

Wasn't the OP just stating what this man of hers prefers to her, that she looks very different to them and he would rather be having sex with them and not her? I didn't get that she was body shaming?

She wasn't just a couple of posters decided it was offensive to slim women and derailed the thread

The body shaming refers to posters who went on a porn tangent about ill skinny looking women who look like little boys, apparently. And also OP called the women she feels jealous of anorexic, which is definitely body shaming. Oh well.

May I just state that I am not jealous of anyone. Nor am I body shaming anyone.

The women that my now ex enjoys masturbating to, well, quite frankly, some of them look as if they really need a good meal. Ribs showing, very thin legs. The only time I was ever that thin was when I was, in fact, a very sick and anorexic teenager who counted every single crumb and almost exercised herself to death. He clearly likes the look of very thin young women.

I'm not shaming these women for looking anorexic. I'm stating a fact. And I battled anorexia a very long time ago.

Thank you, precisely that.

Get rid, wouldnt be suprised if he uses escorts too