HUsband hit me this evening

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Husband hit me 4 times this evening

please tell me there is no going back from this and I need to leave

Sorry to hear this. I hope you’ve called the police?

There is no going back from this and you need to leave.

sorry OP 😢

Hope you have real life support and a place of safety.

call the police from a safe place

Im so sorry OP. You need to call the police asap or you'll have no evidence. And yes it is the end.
There is absolutely no coming back from this...you will end up dead.

OP you've been assaulted. Get to a safe place and call the police. No coming back.

Oh love, are you safe where you are right now? Can you go to friends, or family, and call the police from there?

I am so sorry. There is definitely no coming back from this. Are you somewhere safe?

You know that you need to leave, well done for posting. Where are you now and where is he? Are there any kids? Are you safe? Do you feel you can call the police or go to the station?

Don't just leave, call the police.

Cunt Ltb

Are you safe now OP?

If you don’t feel like you can call the police right now are you able to take photos of any injuries? Please make sure your device isn’t linked to any other before you do this.

Is it the first time he’s hit you?

No, there is definitely no coming back from that. Are you safe OP? Can you take photos of any injuries? Is there a family member or friend you can call for support?

Op are you safe now? Call the police and please get to family/a friend. This is never ok

I'm so sorry this has happened to you, you have to leave, when it's safe. Hone police, family, friends get others involved ASAP. Do you need seen by a Dr? Record every injury daily. You do need help

Just spoken to my grown DC and my DM, I am going to go to DM's house , and come back only after DC's dad has moved out (if ever) - not till then. Almost Grown DC but still live at home at times and come back summers

I feel muddled, but first step is getting to DMs house asap.

I have locked myself in the spare room

Call the police. You need help to leave safely. We are all here supporting you.

Things have been rocky and unhappy in phases

but still shell shocked by this

He calls me fat a lot , the past 4-5 years and just seems to have lost any ounce of respect overall

I think he finds some women in our community / a woman perhaps even - attractive. I do not know. I don't think I ever will

DC do not want me to call the police, and would be very upset if I did.

They also think their dad was 'pushed to it' as per what he told them, though they agree not acceptable - they are okay with me going to DM

In a very very long time yes, not the first in the 25 years we have been together since I was 20, though

There is never a justification for resorting to violence. This is not your fault. It is his. It sounds like you may well need the police to get out of there safely.

Op, why would they be upset? This is worrying behaviour on their part.

So sorry this has happened to you OP. Your DC are wrong to be justifying what their dad has done, there is no excuse for violence. Please ignore them and call the police anyway, and get to your DM’s as quickly as you can. Perhaps call the police from there.

they do love their dad, tho they love me too