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The Dating Thread 61 - High Summer High Jinks 🍾πŸ₯‚

626 replies

Nosdacariad · 19/07/2026 14:47

The Rules:
-The first rule about the dating thread is don't talk about it with people you're dating
-Develop a thick skin
-Do not invest emotionally too soon
-It’s all BS until it actually happens
-Trust your gut instinct
-People vanishing, lying & being generally weird is not your fault
-Know your worth
-If it's not fun, stop
-Loo update is mandatory
-No dating the thread
-Treat others as you'd like to be treated
-Any relationship you have that could get ruined by having a conversation about your feelings, standards and/or expectations wasn't really stable enough to begin with
-The things you choose to ignore/ tolerate now are the reasons you will break up in the future
If you're wondering if you're being too picky/should give another chance after the second chance/should try harder - the answer is invariably NO! You're not and you shouldn't. If this, now, is as good as it's going to get, the A game, then do you want what comes next?!
-OLD can get very time consuming. Keep doing other activities you enjoy Optional: Please give your irons (potential dates you are talking to) nicknames like Mr Scottish. Initials are allowed (Mr S) when you are an item*

OP posts:
Ilovelurchers · Yesterday 22:59

Just reported someone on Bumble - we were chatting about how his hamster had died recently - totally normal chat, a bit jokey, a bit sweet, and I said he should consider tropical fish. And he said (and I quote) "Fish ent the best for holding my nuts deep in their mouth".

Sorry, you what now? Who goes from pet death chat, to that????

I hope they ban him. I asked Gemini and she seems to think they will......

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