Read this before you have a baby with your partner...

[MsGrumpytrousers]

Because if he doesn't get that this is how he ought to feel, maybe he's not cut out to be a father.

https://goodanger.substack.com/p/on-whether-having-a-baby-ruins-your?utm_source=substack&utm_medium=email

Christ, that was a load of twee bullshit.

CBA to read all that

WTF is "good anger" ?

I'd say read THIS before having a baby with someone

https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/am_i_being_unreasonable/5349755-dh-refuses-to-measure-bottles

or this
https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/am_i_being_unreasonable/5349310-cancelling-the-kids-plans-because-hes-thrown-a-wobbler-aibu

or this
https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/am_i_being_unreasonable/5349757-to-be-absolutely-fuming-with-mil-and-dh-over-this

or this
https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/am_i_being_unreasonable/5349319-to-think-its-not-ok-for-dh-to-nip-out-to-the-shop

or this
https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/am_i_being_unreasonable/5349531-to-think-my-dhs-approach-to-crying-baby-was-completely-wrong

or this
https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/am_i_being_unreasonable/5348870-am-i-being-unreasonable-to-think-dh-resents-our-ds