Husband is MASSIVELY pee’d off with me

[Blackjack2002]

I had lip filler done today but didn’t tell my husband as I know he hates it.
I pranked him a few years back by sticking my top lip up with face glue as an April Fool, and he went mad. At the time, I said I’d never have it done. I’ve never been confident about the way I look, I’ve just turned 48 and thought why not?

I’ve only had a small amount and they are quite swollen, they will settle down in a few days. But he says he can’t look at me and that I look like a clown. He’s been angry and shouty but now getting the silent treatment. We rarely have a cross word so today has been no fun.

Not sure what to do. Any advice please?

Or he might cook trout for dinner!

Again OP's body her choice, my ex didn't want me to get botox but it didn't stop me, saying that i've only ever noticed the overdone lip fillers, hhmm maybe i need to google this.

Thank you for the balanced replies. My husband isn’t controlling in the slightest. I’ve gone and done something I know he hates and didn’t tell him, because I knew he’d react that way. I can see his point of view. But it isn’t permanent.

Interesting that your preference would be for your husband to poss on the kitchen floor, but horses for coarses…

(I do, however, agree with your username)

What the fuck are these first replies? It's the op's body and it's her fucking choice. If her husband doesn't like it then it's just tough. Who are all of you posters telling her she should abide by her husbands preferences, get them dissolved, do what he wants. Quite frankly I am disgusted with the lot of you.

Me too.

I know it's your body and all that but at 48 you will not be in need of enhancements, not that I think anybody necessarily is.

Lip fillers look fake and ugly.

If a man tried to tell me what to do with my own body, I’d kick him to the kerb.

You fully knew his reaction as you have literally done a trial run in the past. Shouting isn’t on though, I’d be annoyed if someone shouted at me for something I’d done to MY body. I don’t know why you wouldn’t warn him though? Hopefully the swelling will go down and he’ll get used to it. But at the end of the day you’ve gone behind his back to do something you know he won’t like. Of course it’s your body, but that’s not great for trust

Or you can have a really subtle result that looks great. Not everybody has duck lips.

Or he leaves her.

I agree with you!

The trash often takes itself out.

Well then she is well rid if he is that shallow. Jeez

Hmm.

What?

My husband is against it too but i couldn't care less. I don't tell him how to look so wouldn't tolerate it from him.

I'm guessing you didn't realise how bad the swelling can be & thought he wouldn't notice. Can you show him some before and after swelling pics? They come down ALOT.

Not a single person except me noticed mine so ...

if he left her over this then she's better off anyway.

I've just googled celebs with natural lip filler and they all look obvious

Am sure he wont leave her. Gosh, the drama.

Just to add that I haven’t gone for “duck lips” as I dislike that look. I’ve gone for a small amount for a natural-looking result. They do look swollen at the moment, which will subside. I think he thinks they will look swollen forever, which of course they won’t.

I can really empathise with why she kept quiet, fearful he would talk her out of her own right to make her own decision so I'm completely compassionate to why she felt the need to remain silent on this
No mystery & most surely no surprise or anything odd about it
God Bless Her🙏

OPs been back with a good, calm update but here we are, frothing at the mouth about a controlling man.

Completely Concur With You 💚🥰🙏