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Another thread about sex - I've been asked if I would try something new.

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screwedup · 04/03/2008 14:15

Anal sex.

Never done this. Terrified that it will hurt but I am curious iyswim.

Have any other ladies out there tried it?

I really need advise on this one before I go for it. Please help.

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expatinscotland · 08/03/2008 16:30

Oh, I do, mumcentre.

Everyone knows that.

I actually think it's because of porn that so many men now seem to be into this.

But honestly I can't for the life of me see why anyone can get any enjoyment out of taking it up the shitter.

But hey ho, to each his own!

Mumcentreplus · 08/03/2008 16:41

I really agree with you there...it has become almost expected by younger men I read in an article a while back...but we are both on the same page when it comes to dick up tha jaxy action ((shudder))..lol

Kimi · 08/03/2008 16:50

It hurts, you get nothing out of it, and he will be forever pestering you to do it again (so I am told )

dittany · 08/03/2008 16:51

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Judy1234 · 08/03/2008 18:35

That's your view dittany but what consenting adults do it up to them and plenty of people are sadistic and masochistic. It's just part of human sexuality just like some people are gay.

expatinscotland · 08/03/2008 18:44

keep digging, Xenia! you're on a roll .

expatinscotland · 08/03/2008 18:44

keep digging, Xenia! you're on a roll .

dittany · 08/03/2008 18:51

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expatinscotland · 08/03/2008 18:52

how do you have an orgasm from taking someone's dick up your arse?

i'm still trying to figure this one out.

no, never mind.

KerryMum · 08/03/2008 18:53

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expatinscotland · 08/03/2008 18:55

i just keep remembering that thread where the OP started talking about how she took up the arse the night before and it was 'a bit sore' but that day she went to fart and shat herself.

had to throw some jeans away.

gross.

KerryMum · 08/03/2008 18:56

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expatinscotland · 08/03/2008 18:57

oh, it was a good one .

turquoise · 08/03/2008 19:11

It was one of the original and most jaw dropping.

River Island jeans, iirc.

KerryMum · 08/03/2008 19:16

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dittany · 08/03/2008 19:20

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Judy1234 · 08/03/2008 19:47

Yes, but there's a huge lot more to sex than just a means of having an orgasm.

Also there are plenty of submissive men around.

And finally I didn't like anal sex with masochism, although it might be linked for some people with that. In fact I said it ought not to hurt if you do it right

expatinscotland · 08/03/2008 20:11

Well, for me it isn't going to hurt at all.

Because it isn't going to happen.

I've had men who asked me to try it, I said no and if they kept on they went to the kerb.

evie99 · 08/03/2008 22:12

lol at your posts expat.

Poo and pain- not my cup of tea either.

It doesn't appeal to all men. The only time I've "offered it" was to someone I was obsessed besotted with but he didn't seem interested thank goodness.

dittany · 08/03/2008 22:19

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expatinscotland · 08/03/2008 22:22

it's apparently the thrill of some bloke telling you he's going to fuck you up the arse tonight and the feel of a foreign object up your rectum.

sounds really fun and exciting, doesn't it?

soapbox · 08/03/2008 22:29

PMSL - have just stumbled across this thread - and I am almost weeping with laughter

I love the John Leslie quote!

babbi · 08/03/2008 22:31

Just poured myself a drink - have never laughed so much on MN - thanks expat .......... also John Leslie quote is classic .......

Lulumama · 08/03/2008 22:36

this isn't even in chat, so it is here for ever more!!

Judy1234 · 09/03/2008 07:55

"Really Xenia? So if an orgasm isn't the compensation for pain and uncontrollable pooing with anal sex, what is?"

You don't get uncontrollable pooing from anal sex.

I don't want to link it to pain because I don't think it ought to hurt, but other sorts of sexual pain if you're that way inclined you don't need a "compensation" for, do you?