Another thread about sex - I've been asked if I would try something new.

[screwedup]

Anal sex.

Never done this. Terrified that it will hurt but I am curious iyswim.

Have any other ladies out there tried it?

I really need advise on this one before I go for it. Please help.

...sounds more like her man wants to imo..

She just said she's like to try it but is apprehensive.

I'd second the finger idea first too.

lube up and go for it cant be bothered either to name change

start with fingers and condoms if the ick factor is bothering you then go for it gently with more luube

yo have to relax and push as they enter

but my god its worth it !!!!!!

most underated if you ask me

go for it

i love it

hi ya madamez btw the way i left my hubby and found my self a fabbo dom!!!!!!

my friend bought me a birthday badge that says 'i love anal'

try fingers first, if you hate that, you won't like it.

i think it's awesome though.

We dont use any lube, never have.
I really would recommend doing it in the shower first. I honestly couldnt feel anything. It might boost your confidence a bit.

I think width makes a difference!
Really enjoyed it with a narrowly built ex
rest of the time it was f*ing painful. And sore the next day too.

Or get stoned first, pot is a fab muscle relaxant

Im not sure about the fingers - I hate that. It makes me paranoid about smell and I just dont think it feels nice, whereas I love anal.

confidence boost??

dittany- most people's 1st go at 'straight' sex hurts, would you say what's the point to that too?

besides, some folk like a bit of pain!

Ok if not fingers, how about tongue? Especially nice with some finger action at the front.

i dont agree i like it good and sober i find alchol dulls everything

men do like it they just dont like admiting it

anybody that goes along with something just to please another will never enjoy it

just my humble

flub - I was never sure on anal (can't be arsed to name change) but an x used his finger and it was ahem v nice actually - felt odd - but a nice odd. he did try with his bits but well, my face must have been odd as he didn't try it too much!

odb - is a tounge nice? don't fancy the idea of that myself.

Oh god yes, if the man knows what he's doing tongue is amazing!

Vaseline is a good lube I find . I don't like the 'try fingers first' theory, that makes me really paranoid and would put me off entirely. He won't sniff his dick afterwards will he?

: LMFAO @ su! ewwwwwwwwwwww!

still not sure on the tounge bit - maybe....

even

oooh yes agree with the tongue thing

madamez i posted under a diff name

who cares about smell?! it's just body bits. reasonable personal hygeine will suffice.

chill out and enjoy your various bits! that's what i say.

might put my badge on...

Thank you all so much for your advise.

I am a bit clueless on this matter which is why I started the thread.

My man is VERY keen on the idea.

He has attempted to use his fingers in that area but not much penetration. I did enjoy that.

Maybe I'll have a go myself first to see how it feels.