Another thread about sex - I've been asked if I would try something new.

[screwedup]

Anal sex.

Never done this. Terrified that it will hurt but I am curious iyswim.

Have any other ladies out there tried it?

I really need advise on this one before I go for it. Please help.

Oooh, yes, the tongue thing is fantastic!

Mumcentreplus, I meant it might boost her confidence in doing it the second time, if she is that worried.

Tongue? Up someone's arse??

Tongue?

Intriguing.

i wold recommend the missionary postion too not doggy mch easier

Not up , just (ahem) around .

ohhhhh yes its fabbo not keen on kissing after mind but mmmmmmmm

only thing i'd say before a man comes near my arse with his bits again. is do I really trust that he'd back off if I didn't like it or would he claim to get 'carried away' and carry on regardless - if u can't trust em don't even go there I recon.

agree tongue/arse. ewww?

Yep, just around, maybe a bit in, but not up, it isn't necessary, the best sensation comes from around.

for tongue I'd recommend doggy style, with lots of fingerwork at the front too.

(I think my mum's been snooping here and found out my posting name, so hopefully this will all be TMI for her )

Next question.

Don't laugh at me for this.........

Does he 'come' inside you and if so how does that feel?

lol. at your mum finding this thread!

mine would prob pull up a chair sit & read it and then say well actually me and your dad do xyz - ewwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww!

have to say rimming is fantastic (taking not givin)..lol...tried the finger didn't like it tbh just felt weird and then I spent the rest of the time wondering where the finger might end up!! ...lol..way too stressful..

but a tounge is the same as the finger really isn't it - it goes around your bum, then goes in your fanjo, then kissing - where's the differnce?

Just found this . Hope it helps.
Yes, mostly dp does come inside. Its ok, but not my fave part of it all. Afterwards is always a bit unpleasant!

Hopefully this will embarrass her too much to keep snooping

Eww though at the thought of her sharing details with me

screwedup it's up to you and him whether or not he comes inside you. Personal preferences and all that. It could get messy though

Flubdub, that has put me off , the afterwards bit I mean.

But your dp wont be running his tongue over cupboard handles, and cups and things (I bloody hope) so the spreading of germs is a smaller risk! lol Men arnt great hand washers.

screwedup, I always wonder why I did it afterwards!
Infact, I would suggest, saving the bath water from the bath that you had before the sex, and then jumping in again afterwards.

erm the finger goes into tha jaxy not around it...plus the bum and pussy have been washed..lol and the finger could end up in your hair,mouth up the pussy all over (shudder)..lmao

ah yes didn't think of that one!

agree it's up to you where he does his bit!

alos isn't it right that you should wear a condom wiht anal, and you shouldn't go from back to front due to the risk of infections but front to back is ok?

Eeewwww at kissing someone whose tongue has been up your shite pipe.....

Why oh why dont we have a section where we can ask these kind of questions? Id never be off here!

Yep I'd recommend a condom, and I think front to back is ok but back to front is a no no due to the risk of germs spreading, a bit like wiping from front to back to stop anything spreading. I could be wrong through.

So if he doesn't come during anal and we move onto other things we should have vaginal sex?

How complicated is this.