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WhatsApp

236 replies

LeilaM42 · 13/08/2023 10:47

I send someone a WhatsApp message 1 day ago and he’s not opened the message but I can see he’s been online. Is it possible he’s not got the message or is he ignoring me ?

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Thisisworsethananticpated · 15/08/2023 14:48

Honey delete him delete the chat and contact

Spain1986 · 15/08/2023 16:03

Haha! I hate when this happens. Yes, delete his number and the chat. I got so fed up with this nonsense on WhatsApp that I actually no longer use it. Deleted it from my phone. Best for these men to just text you instead. They don’t play all those games on text messages. They message for an actual reason, not sending all the fake videos, memes and emojis.

LeilaM42 · 15/08/2023 16:05

I know I shouldn’t but I’m going to text him

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MrsSchrute · 15/08/2023 16:11

LeilaM42 · 15/08/2023 16:05

I know I shouldn’t but I’m going to text him

Why????

Ceebeegee · 15/08/2023 16:15

Oh fgs , OP! He's made it clear he's not interested.

No response is a response!

Finlesswonder · 15/08/2023 16:19
Sarah Paulson Is My Mic On GIF by IMDb

Send him something like this

LeilaM42 · 15/08/2023 16:19

I can’t help thinking he didn’t get my message !

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Spain1986 · 15/08/2023 16:22

Always remember that actions speak louder than words. This is a perfect example of that point.

OhmygodDont · 15/08/2023 16:25

His properly archived your chat and muted you. Texting him will make you look desperate.

If he was interested and hadn’t got your message he would have messaged you, two grey ticks means his got it though.

If your this full on though honestly I’m not surprised his ran.

morbidd · 15/08/2023 16:26

No for gods sake don't!

MrsSchrute · 15/08/2023 16:28

LeilaM42 · 15/08/2023 16:19

I can’t help thinking he didn’t get my message !

He did. He didn't reply because he didn't want to reply.

It's that simple.

Thisisworsethananticpated · 15/08/2023 16:29

Texting him will make you look desperate

to be fair I’ve had men text me again when on read and unread

I don’t think they are desperate
just keen and chatty (and horny )

IF you insist on texting I’d send a funny meme or a video

yellowsmileyface · 15/08/2023 16:29

Okay, let's say he didn't get your message. So you message him again. Still no response.

Who's to say he didn't get the second message?

Where does it end?

Clymene · 15/08/2023 16:30

If he hadn't got your message, he would have texted you by now. He got it and he's ignoring you.

He met another woman after he sent you the guitar video.

ThickSkinnedSoWhat · 15/08/2023 16:31

LeilaM42 · 15/08/2023 16:19

I can’t help thinking he didn’t get my message !

I can't help thinking this is a piss taking post now.

LeilaM42 · 15/08/2023 16:40

Ok I am deleting his number now

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Hiddenvoice · 15/08/2023 17:13

Op don’t text him and stop checking when he’s online. Delete the chat and delete the number. If he wanted to contact you and thought you hadn’t messaged then he would have reached out. Sorry but time to move on.

JenWillsiam · 15/08/2023 18:31

LeilaM42 · 15/08/2023 16:05

I know I shouldn’t but I’m going to text him

He got it. Stop being pathetic.

Olika · 15/08/2023 18:54

Delete his number, move on. If a man wants you he will make it very clear. Don't waste more of your time on him please.

teaandtoastwithmarmite · 15/08/2023 19:09

LeilaM42 · 15/08/2023 16:40

Ok I am deleting his number now

Well done! I mean that sincerely

BatheInTheLight · 15/08/2023 19:45

LeilaM42 · 15/08/2023 16:40

Ok I am deleting his number now

After you send another message? :/

LeilaM42 · 15/08/2023 21:44

I caved in and sent a message

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Blondey2023 · 15/08/2023 22:06

LeilaM42 · 15/08/2023 21:44

I caved in and sent a message

What did you say?

Rollonsept · 15/08/2023 22:09

I want to know what he said?

MrsSchrute · 15/08/2023 22:27

LeilaM42 · 15/08/2023 21:44

I caved in and sent a message

Bloody hell.

Why?