Incident this evening with DP. Relationship is in the pits anyway. He has an awful habit of waiting until we’re in bed to start trying to discuss issues.
This evening he was on another rant, then started saying how he wants to leave to find someone else. Generally throughout these rants I stay quiet and try to disengage.
The next part is the bit I’m struggling with. I think my lack of response caused it. The lights suddenly get turned on full brightness, and he pins me down on the bed by my wrists while sitting on me, which was painful in itself. Then he starts bouncing the mattress up and down really hard. He then starts recording it on his phone. I manage to get a hand out and push his phone away to the floor. I tell him he’s hurting me, then he picks up the glass of water from the bedside table and throws it in my face.
I’m completely shell shocked. I don’t know what to do. He has sort of apologised but says I made him do it because I wouldn’t talk.