Why did I look - I have opened pandora's box.

[KaySamuels]

Looked at DP's history on the computer tonight and really wisj I hadn't.

He is registered on an amateur porn site, he has picks of himself, a different email account, has been posting and reading messages. In his profile says he is bi seeking a bloke.

Feel sick and don't know what to do.
Couldn't be bothered to name change but really think I should. Keep looking at ds asleep on the sofa and just want to cry.

He has done something very simialr before and I buried my head in the sand. Feel such a fool.

Well our first relate session has finally come through - tomorrow a noon GULP. DS at my mum's tonight so we can have some couple time, feel a mixture of relief and nerves about going to relate, think DP feeling uneasy too!

Good luck.

Really pleased ,hope it goes well

Glad you got an appointment so quickly, really hope it goes well and you can work things out

Good luck kay-normal to feel nervous.

Hope you have a nice evening.

Had our appointment today, wasn't as bad as we expected.

We have asked to be put on the waiting list for couple's counselling. We have continued to make a huge effort with each other, and both agreed in a weird way that thiings cmae to a head like this, as it gave us chance to make things good rather than continue to carry on unhappily.

We got a 'box of tricks' for valentines and celebrated early!

Hi Kay,

I haven't read the entire thread, but just wanted to say how pleased I was to read the relate session went well.

good luck & happy valentines to you both

great to hear you're so positive about how things are going... x