Is he lecherous?

[Backtoblack1]

Been seeing a guy for 11 months. He has 2 daughters aged 20 and 23. He dropped off one of his daughters and her friends tonight for a night out. Made a point of telling me that one of the friends he’d never noticed before but she had very large breasts and her top was struggling to maintain them. Then he said she sat in the middle of the back seat and he could see her and her breasts in the mirror. I didn’t know what to say but felt awkward and uncomfortable that he said it. There seems to be regular comments about younger women. Is he doing it for a reaction or is he a lech? How would you react if you partner said that?

How old is your own DD?

You don’t need this letch around her.

Job done.

True. I find the whole grieving on social media too much (not just from him but in general).

I am still fuming - my blood pressure must be sky high 🙈

My daughter is 14. He has not met my children x

@Backtoblack1

My daughter is 14. He has not met my children x

Thankfully, I also would never be able to trust a man like this, who knows if he would perving on your daughter when she was of age, you’ve done the right thing, I can only imagine the shit that he would’ve done to you further down the line when you were in love with him and it would have been really difficult to stop seeing him.

The positive to take from this op is that your instincts were spot on

The dead spouse is the perfect cover of course. All the benefits of having the perfect partner with none of the downsides of actually having to live with them. Cynical, moi?

Ewwwwwwwwwww

It’s the friend of daughter bit
I don’t mind the tit admiration

But the friend of daughter 😱

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Well done

I would ghost
Reasons being

• he’s a dick
• he didn’t make you happy
• he will never own his behaviour so you will never get answers or a discussion

He Is already gaslighting you

Dump
Block
Disappear

Well done op 👍💪