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If England get beaten, so will she. @MN please pin this or write your own to be pinned at the top

206 replies

CrinkleCrankle · 11/07/2021 10:22

If England get beaten, so will she.

#DomesticViolence increases 26% when #England play. 38% if they lose.

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TwoYearsSince · 11/07/2021 23:30

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66babe · 11/07/2021 23:31

@OnceUponAMidnightBeery

Bump *@MNHQ* are you even reading this? Who exactly are you supporting?
What do you mean by this ?
iklboo · 11/07/2021 23:32

@KittytheHare

#DomesticViolence increases 26% when #England play. 38% if they lose.

ErrolTheDragon · 11/07/2021 23:34

@OnceUponAMidnightBeery

Bump *@MNHQ* are you even reading this? Who exactly are you supporting?
They pinned a thread themselves. They're supporting DV victims too. Doing '*@MNHQ*' doesn't actually alert them - if you want to ensure someone reads a thread you need to report it.
KittytheHare · 11/07/2021 23:38

@iklboo this does not explain your comment about being glad that your husband hates football. Do you think watching a team lose would alter his personality so much that he would turn into an abuser?

Dh and both my sons love football and are disappointed with the result. Their love of football doesn't alter the fact that they find DV abhorrent.

stopknockingonmydoor · 11/07/2021 23:40

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Shieldingending · 11/07/2021 23:42

Such a tragic statistic. My thoughts go out to all who are affected and I hope they get help.

OnceUponAMidnightBeery · 11/07/2021 23:45

Thanks @ErollTheDragon, every day is a learning day, and I learn at least 3 things everyday on here Blush

MrsMackesy · 11/07/2021 23:58

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momoli · 11/07/2021 23:59

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youkiddingme · 12/07/2021 00:03

If anyone wants to retweet

twitter.com/David_Challen/status/1412824209647153153

CupoTeap · 12/07/2021 00:04

If this is you tonight, or anytime, you can break free x

Chubbychubkins · 12/07/2021 00:08

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Notapheasantplucker · 12/07/2021 00:15
Flowers
Queenie6655 · 12/07/2021 00:20

Thinking of all the innocent women and the children who face DV

This was me four years ago heavily pregnant
Broken toe
Chairs fired at me

It is way too common and please know that there are so many great agencies to help us

MN was a lifeline to me then and it still is now xxxxxxx

MidgeRidge · 12/07/2021 00:57

Witnessed it tonight. I live on a non-eventful street but tonight heard a commotion and a frightened, crying woman was telling an football-shirted man repeatedly that she didn’t have his phone. He then shoved her head to the side aggressively. She was pushing a buggy. Reported it to the police.

FootballisgoingtoRome · 12/07/2021 01:25

Bumping for those who might need help.

messybun101 · 12/07/2021 04:07

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MoveHouse · 12/07/2021 04:19

@nosafeguardingadults Flowers sorry you haven’t been supported. I really hope your situation changes soon. You are incredibly brave to leave. You’ve got this. Don’t give up.

KarenofSparta · 12/07/2021 06:43

Another bump for anyone in need of the info & links this morning Thanks.

EasterIssland · 12/07/2021 07:24

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ButEmilylovedhim · 12/07/2021 09:06

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layladomino · 12/07/2021 09:28

@AdoraBell misses the point compeltely. Liking football doesn't make you a domestic abuser. Your DH is either an abuser or not. Liking football wouldn't change that.

This is nothing to do with football, and everything to do with vile sub-human abusers using any excuse they can to be abusive. Blaming football is both illogical and unhelpful.

brittleheadgirl · 12/07/2021 09:36

@PRabbit
What a ridiculous thing to say.
Yobs?
I live with my kind mild mannered dh and a teenage ds who is very much the same. I was also raised by an amazing feminist of a father.
All 3 absolutely love football.

Wherediditgo · 12/07/2021 10:08

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